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chista

@chista

Voyager

Posted: 14 years ago

#71

wow what s going on here?!😆

Salut dear Vista🤗
Comment allez-vous?

Merci for the wonderful topic👏

actually i preferred to be quiet & just wait & watch what wud be happen😕
but your article tickle me that i write something😊

i totally agree with you. u know love is like a double-edged sword.sometimes hurts the own lover sometimes hurts the others!

i remember when avita escaped from RV ,avi was injured & unconscious arpi said if anything happen i must pass trough it first .any thing means any thing!!!

the arpis love sword only hurts herself till now😭

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PrashT

@PrashT

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 14 years ago

#72

Hiieee Everyone...

OH God!!! Main kya likhoon???😕

Everyone has spoken Everything...👍🏼

Vista Di ....🤗 Thank You fr a wonderful thread....

Everyone🤗 Thank You fr ur views....

I juz wanna say one thing... wht ever happens Im with Arpita 😊

I knw i was angry on her foolishness,....

but let us think abt her age , her life, her unconditional love fr Avdhesh ...........we will get all answers. ( I was thinking abt this today )

She is my cutie pie and will alwayz be. and once Avdhesh comes to knw abt the truth , hell support her ( he definately has to support her )

1 more thing, Let us look it otherwise ....

She is epitome of womanhood. No one could do such thing what she did! (though i knw wht would be the consequences and a woman's dignity or self respect.and she betrayed Avi's trust too)

No Shikha,. No Bahuji, No Simple can do whtever she did . She sacrificed everything to protect her love, her sasural ..! It impossible for any girl to do such thing.

Thats why I love this girl....!!!! She is unique, simple , innocent in her own way.......

Im sorry guys if I have written anything bad....

Dont throw Chappals at me........

This was not my opinion before but after sometime......my views changed😊 after considering everything 😃😃😃😃😃

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@chatterbox

Trailblazer

+ 15

Posted: 14 years ago

#73

wah wah wah 😆

now everyone is looking at it differently 👏

hahahahhahaha 😆

episode is about to start wait for my update 😊

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Vistaa

@Vistaa

Rocker

+ 3

Posted: 14 years ago

#74

Originally posted by: swamini5

khud ko maarne ki koshish toh Karni bhi nahi Chahiye

She has TO FACE THE CONSEQUENCES

Commitimg suicide would be cowardly act.

@Rupam: Thand rakho bachcha....thand rakh........things will get better.😊 Thanks for posting.😊

@Sharan: You are so right about the CV's..........everything moves at their whims and fancies........🤔well, come to think of it.......it is their story......😆😆

@Swamini: Agree with you.......suicide is the easy way out and in the original, it is the hero who kills her........noooooooo..........both the alternatives are bad😭😭😭

Thanks guys for posting😊

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Vistaa

@Vistaa

Rocker

+ 3

Posted: 14 years ago

#75

Originally posted by: chatterbox
having said all i said above
i want to add few more things

it was said earlier in other thread i think it was dreamy thread that arpita has been inspiration for many...

i wud like to say ppl make mistakes and arpita did a mistake in her foolishness or in her protectiveness for the person she loves.. we all can learn from her mistakes..

i dont agree or accept what has been shown here but looking from arpi point of view i can forgive her for what she did as her intentions were not wrong.

its a lesson for any girl or woman to think and then act rather than repent later..

and if i talk more i wont hv words for my update in evening 😆

err on lighter note here

i m sure our updaters mili nandu and prash wud be reading this thread and to jaz i wud tell when the time comes

pls pls pls when lal singh entry comes let me do that day's update 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

i think this much i can do for that lal singh

i saw my post yday it was on 24th nove abt possible lal singh entry..

so i want to do tht day 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@Underlined

The classic conflict between means and ends..........😊 It is often said that end justify the means and I think here Arpi was caught in this age old trap😕...........and I think no one would have a problem with her intentions.........of course, she was not doing any of it because she was going to get any personal pleasure out of it........it was all for her love Avi and his sister.

What was troublesome of course, were the means.........she decided she had to do something, came up with a half-baked plan and proceeded to put it in action........without really thinking it through. And what made her act this way? Her confidence in herself and perhaps the desperation of the situation.

Or in other words, her overactive imagination made the situation desperate in her estimation........remember the melodramatic dream? Shikha hanging herself and all that rubbish?

Of course, that dream was compounded by Shikha baby's subsequent outpouring of sisterly love and devotion for her "Devi samaan Bhabhi"

So, you are right that her intentions were pure and that she should be forgiven for her mistake. But mistake it was, there is no two ways about it.

its a lesson for any girl or woman to think and then act rather than repent later..

Bingo!!

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BenNevis

@BenNevis

Dazzler

Posted: 14 years ago

#76

Originally posted by: Vistaa

@Rupam: Thand rakho bachcha....thand rakh........things will get better.😊 Thanks for posting.😊

@Sharan: You are so right about the CV's..........everything moves at their whims and fancies........🤔well, come to think of it.......it is their story......😆😆

@Swamini: Agree with you.......suicide is the easy way out and in the original, it is the hero who kills her........noooooooo..........both the alternatives are bad😭😭😭

Thanks guys for posting😊

hey Vistaa 😃

Dont dream for othello track pleaaaaaaaaaaaaaase.

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Jessie

@jes_jade

Rocker

Posted: 14 years ago

#77

Awesome post Vista dii!!!!!👏

U really have changed some of my opinion about Arpi!!

I can't understand what to write here...after reading all the comments..👏👏

She took a hasty decision...& mainly over confidence led to her downfall..!!
But I guess it was all for love sake...Maybe the tag line Wo Pyaar hi Kya Jo aapki hifaazat na kar sake...applies to Arpitha here.....She tried to protect Avdesh & his whole family..

After watching today's episode...I guess she is going to attempt to kill herself..😭😭

Plzz.......jaldi sab sort out ho jaaye...

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Yoga priya

@yoga23priya

Sparkler

+ 2

Posted: 14 years ago

#78

hey vista di 🤗 🤗

i was waiting for everyone view about upcoming episode and thanks very much for creating the awesome post...i really appreciate it 👏 👏 👏

i has been long time since you wrote and i really love the way you write...⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

this for everyone for awesome views...👏 ⭐️ 👏 ⭐️ 👏 ⭐️ 👏 ⭐️ 👏 ⭐️ 👏 ⭐️ 👏

i am not interest to watch and also parents are not allowing to watch this track...... just reading update now a days 😆

seriously i don't know what to write...as everyone are wrote their views and i agree with it but only few 😳

here is my view from 0.00000000000000000001 % brain...please bear with that 😆

i am gonna support Arpi..

even i accept that she did due to overconfidence and foolishness to save her husband pride and honor but the main reason for doing it because for her love Avi..

she can either say to this to simple or shikha but say me what can they do..when RV is more dangerous, evil ,cunning,who has lust on her from start 😡 🤢

as they say we must use fire against fire...only two persons can handle RV is OBD Avi (if he uses his brain rather then my Aunty) and My aunty.

if she would have said to any of them...they would have handled the matter but she tried to do but due circumstances she couldn't.

she is a innocence girl who is trying to protect love and honor of her family...no one in her family loved her except her Mama but after coming to haveli she know that there is a person who live or die for her and even kill someone who would see her lusty way (when you will kill RV 🤢) .

atleast now she has Avi,Amma,goons,shikha and everyone...they are whole world now..

she always craved for the love and when she is getting it everything turned up side down..due to RV 🤬

Think once instead of Arpi......if Avi does same mistake..Arpi forgive him right..she was with him through thick and thin...now it's avi turn and i know he will there for her.

please answer this for me

Even though RV didn't touch her but WILL Avi accept her after this?

Damn CV 🤬

if she even try to commit suicide then i kill you for sure...dat's coward 😡 😡 😡don't make poor arpi a coward 😡 😡

if i am wrong don't throw chappals on me...feel free to throw chocolate cake ONLY 😃 😆

PS kinda Sleepy forgive me for my mistakes 😳

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Vistaa

@Vistaa

Rocker

+ 3

Posted: 14 years ago

#79

Originally posted by: Dreamygal301

HI Nandini,🤗

I understand what you are saying but I really think Arpita was so confident in her ability to handle RV she went ahead. Off course it was stupid but she felt she could do that. Given what happened in the last few months, I think deep down she may have also felt a slight sense of grievence towards RV herself and thought 'oh he thinks I am coming to sleep with him but I will actually stab him!'. We had seen her changing from the uncertain girl to the confident woman who made her husband give up weapon on his own to the woman who encouraged him to fight back for justice (in that durga avatar in the market). SO let's say she was being really confident and off course she also feels responsible as she is the only one who fought for this marriage.

SO she comes and then does as he says because she wants to LULL him into a false a sense of security, to take him unaware but she is such an innocent and drank that juice otherwise she may have succeeded. SO that is where she failed and she did not even think of that eventuality. So her INTENTION was good but failed by her own actions.

As for her words to Avdesh on their wedding night, I think she is still his only > to me those words do not just mean her body being his, but her heart and mind as well as her committment to his family and home. She took this step because she was his WIFE, his life partner in his and his families happiness and sorrow. She wants people to have the love and happiness she and Avi have. So she thought she could handle this. But she knew, she was taking away something that was ONLY HIS, and her actions when she went to the room to see Avi before leaving showed that awareness and her sadness and bitterness.

See women in life have to face so many difficult choices, off course never as dramatic as Arpita with RV's offer. But often some of the choices does impact on our married life and relationship with husbands....we all make choices, sometimes we are confident, oh we can make hubby see our POV and or will deal with the fall out when it happens and etc. She knew Avdesh will be devasted but I also think she felt confident that their love will heal them in time.

Though off course I am still not happy about the track but I lay that squarely at the Cvs feet.

Hiiii Dreamy🤗

Thank you soooo much for getting my drift and answering Nandini's questions for me😊

@bold: great minds really do think alike.......that's exactly what I was saying.....it was her bravado and self-belief that made her think that she could best RV at his own game..........in her mind she was "just you wait, Mr.RV. just you wait....if you think you get your way with me....you are mistaken............"

See Nandini....it is all to do with ends and means, like I posted on CB's thread. In her mind, and for that matter, in a lot of people's mind, the ends justify the means. Add to that train of thought, the idea that on the face of it, the means might not be above board (in this case the nocturnal visit to a strange man's house), but in reality she is not actually going to do anything bad, because she would have killed/injured/frightened RV before he is able to do anything.

This is what is called "hamartia" or the fatal character flaw or mistake that a hero/heroine posseses/commits that leads to unintended/unforseen consequences.

You are absolutely right in being outraged that a married woman cannot be so innocent as to not know exactly why RV had called her that night, or not to understand the setting of the bedroom........she knows all of that....but what she is banking on is her wits and smarts........in her estimation, she is not in any real danger because she thinks she can overcome him.........

I guess making tea and wearing the saree were her ways of buying time.....but it was not to be.

Thank you soo very much Nandini for your kind words😃

Vista

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Vistaa

@Vistaa

Rocker

+ 3

Posted: 14 years ago

#80

Originally posted by: jes_jade
Awesome post Vista dii!!!!!👏

U really have changed some of my opinion about Arpi!!

I can't understand what to write here...after reading all the comments..👏👏

She took a hasty decision...& mainly over confidence led to her downfall..!!
But I guess it was all for love sake...Maybe the tag line Wo Pyaar hi Kya Jo aapki hifaazat na kar sake...applies to Arpitha here.....She tried to protect Avdesh & his whole family..

After watching today's episode...I guess she is going to attempt to kill herself..😭😭

Plzz.......jaldi sab sort out ho jaaye...

Thank you so much Jess😃...........maanf kar do bechaari ko....she was just being immature.

Right now, she needs all the love and support she can get.😊

Vista