Why Did She Do It? - Page 4

hi swamini i had logged off

ok another point i wud say here

pardon arpi.. 😊
sorry vista i m adding my different view here in this post as i dont want to create another topic on this 😊

everyone is blaming arpita for all this fiasco or rather stupidity and foolishness.

let me all ask u one thing

in this age of equality when we say men and women r equal why shud a woman always be wrong or be punished.
if a man can go out and do a mistake or sleep around he is not guilty eh

bt if a woman makes a mistake whole world points a finger at her.

all say why did arpita not confide in her hubby or talk to someone else

when avdesh did his bhishma pratigya did he stop to think of his new bride who has all the desires for a loving married life. he didnt stop to think how it wud affect his wife.

then no one raises a point or rather ppl do forget and forgive his hasty action..

so why cant ppl forgive arpita for the mistake she made
she did wrong yes, she made a blunder yes,
bt its not that she cant be forgiven for it.

her intentions were not wrong even if her actions were wrong or stupid.

if i was avdesh i wud be heartbroken yes, but i wud understand why or what made arpita did this. and i would forgive her and as it is i m forgiving her as me 😆


and at the end of it its just a show thats all

this point was told in view of the current track and why i forgive arpita and not find fault with her actions. 😛

Originally posted by: chatterbox

hi swamini i had logged off

ok another point i wud say here

pardon arpi.. 😊
sorry vista i m adding my different view here in this post as i dont want to create another topic on this 😊

everyone is blaming arpita for all this fiasco or rather stupidity and foolishness.

let me all ask u one thing

in this age of equality when we say men and women r equal why shud a woman always be wrong or be punished.
if a man can go out and do a mistake or sleep around he is not guilty eh

bt if a woman makes a mistake whole world points a finger at her.

all say why did arpita not confide in her hubby or talk to someone else

when avdesh did his bhishma pratigya did he stop to think of his new bride who has all the desires for a loving married life. he didnt stop to think how it wud affect his wife.

then no one raises a point or rather ppl do forget and forgive his hasty action..

so why cant ppl forgive arpita for the mistake she made
she did wrong yes, she made a blunder yes,
bt its not that she cant be forgiven for it.

her intentions were not wrong even if her actions were wrong or stupid.

if i was avdesh i wud be heartbroken yes, but i wud understand why or what made arpita did this. and i would forgive her and as it is i m forgiving her as me 😆


and at the end of it its just a show thats all

this point was told in view of the current track and why i forgive arpita and not find fault with her actions. 😛

@ Chatter, actually when avi took prtigya he took it at the very moment and did not think of anything else not that he was right in taking it. But Arpi had sometime to go over it and talk to somebody abt it if not avi then it could have been simple or her mother even though she is not much of help. I am not saying she did right. What u said in yr post is correct that why should women only be punished but she stll had time to go over it in her head.

Arpi's actions boil down to one thing she did not want Avi to do something drastic on hearing RV's proposal so she rather do the wrong and take the punishment for it.

see time etc is not the thing

i have always said arpita action was wrong

but i say its not that she cant be forgiven for her mistake..

the girl is 18 or mayb 19 only now and she doesnt think or in tension and confusion she cant think who to confide or consult

the resulting actions were all her panic and not able to think clearly

clearly she was worried abt the man she loves. no denying that

bt i still say she can be forgiven

ok avdesh action were hasty at the spur of the moment and arpita did show her anger to him then., but still she stood by him and not deserted him..

so what wud avdesh do stand by her or throw her out
thats where differences between a male and female thoughts and actions come

@ bold so what wud avdesh do stand by her or throw her out

@Chatter, all the mess and mistake is done now I just hope Avi stands by Arpi @bold. Though BJ will make all the full proof plans to do the latter.

Originally posted by: Gaurishah

@ bold so what wud avdesh do stand by her or throw her out

@Chatter, all the mess and mistake is done now I just hope Avi stands by Arpi @bold. Though BJ will make all the full proof plans to do the latter.

oh we know what bhootni is capable of

let her do all she wants, bt the point here is wud avdesh stand by her and forgive her or not ofcourse his initial reactions wud be anger broken heart and all.

I have got a gut feeling that Avdesh will definelty stand by her side

He intially will be shattered😭 but i think he will see the intention behind her action and would accept her😊

Originally posted by: swamini5

I have got a gut feeling that Avdesh will definelty stand by her side

He intially will be shattered😭 but i think he will see the intention behind her action and would accept her😊

this is what i wanted to hear but is public ready to forgive arpita for her mistake 😊

Originally posted by: chatterbox

this is what i wanted to hear but is public ready to forgive arpita for her mistake 😊

koi baat nahi

naa bhi forgive kiya to kya hua story wont stop

i toh kab ka forgiven her. i dont blame her for her mistakes..

😊