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swamini5

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Posted: 14 years ago

#41

Nahi CB Anything for my Sweet/Innocent ARPITA 🤗 What ever said & done my full support to her only because the way she Loves Avdesh (its Divine)

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@chatterbox

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Originally posted by: swamini5
Nahi CB Anything for my Sweet/Innocent ARPITA 🤗 What ever said & done my full support to her only because the way she Loves Avdesh (its Divine)

dear kabhi hum bhi usi age se guzare hai jis age mein arpita hai and as u said she loves avdesh more than anything

so uski is naadaani ko maaf kiya jaa sakta hai

and i know u support my views too 😉🤗

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@chatterbox

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Posted: 14 years ago

#43

the story has to move forward so have to see what happens next and as ashish said in his tweet they r telling a story

so wait and watch again.. these points were sort of debate points 😊

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_nandini

@_nandini

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Posted: 14 years ago

#44

Hey Vista 🤗

Finally i got to read something from u 😃 ..All these days i had been thinking of asking u to post ur views on the current track n here it is 😳 And ya ...Aapki baat mein Bahut dam hai 👍🏼 Brilliantly analysed the mindset and character of Arpi ⭐️⭐️

Well to be honest never thought it from this angle 😕 Though i dont like the current track and also diagree with Arpi's decessions but what u say makes perfect sense. Arpi has always tried to take things to herself. Bfr her marriage, she wud take her mom's faults to herself if she saw her father being wild on her mom for something. Then came Avi whom she loved the most and as u described ....she has always tried to make Avi happy and comfortable by taking all the hurt and probs on herself. When she was sick after coming from prison n saw Avi tensed, she immediately told Avi tht she wud get well soon and try to be his strength n not his weakness. So this time too it was an effort on her behalf to keep the Avi's esteem high bfr all as Avi said if his sis didnt get married thn the haveli wud hav to bear the brunt. So accepted tht what Arpi did was for only Avi n his well being.

But thn again some questions bother me ... This is the same Arpi who said Avi on her SR tht "Ab hum poori tarah se aapke huye" If a teenager is mature enough to undertsand the meaning of poori tarah se aapke huye .... then she also understands tht going to a man who has kept such conditions bfr her (be mine for a day) .... means she is going to loose her virginity now. Agree tht she had taken a knife for protection n prevention .... but she went on agreeing to all his needs. He asked her to give him the shawl ...she did, He asked her to make tea ..she did, He asked her to close eyes n come with him ...she did, He asked her to wear the saree.... inspite of seeing the bed n the decorated room n his intentions....she did, He asked her to sit near him...she did, finally he asked her to hav the dring ...n she did 😕

Are the cvs trying to tell us tht a girl can be so innocent to not understand the results of going to a man at this hour of night , and agreeing to a man's orders and falling in the trap 😕 I do understand the her caring attitude but can any self respected woman loose her virginity with a man other than her husband, to keep her husband's honour ?? 😕 Is Arpi tht innocent. No doubts i too wud ignore all her faults cz she's pure by heart but if a girl is so innocent to get trapped in a man's trp and still cant realise. Then i ud also expect this innocent girl to come n share the guilt with someone which she still hasnt done. 😕 These things are confusing me.

And abt her one-liner ...tht she can die for her love is actually scaring me too. The story is based on Prakash Shukla's life ...and even her wufe had committed suicide I too like u dont want this to happen 😭

Vista .....Thank u for giving me a platform to express my views in detail. Iknow its long but also sure that u wud clarify all my doubts and confusions like always 😳😃

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Dreamygal301

@Dreamygal301

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Posted: 14 years ago

#45

Hi V,🤗

Very good and great minds think alike!😊

I'm going to copy and paste my response from elsewhere (which V, you will see anyway😉) because it really pertains to what you talked about here.

my personal view is she loves Avdesh so much, she just wants to protect him. She in a way has gave up her family to marry Avdesh and so his family is hers now and she will do anything, even if it means unhappiness for herself, to make the others happy. Another thing, she herself went through so much for love, she will naturally be sympathetic to anyone else going through the pains of love - one driving factor in her 'stupid move to RV' was the desire to see Shikha get her love just as she Arpita got her love. However, in many ways she is still innocent in that she does not understand that not all loves are meant to be or that even everyone loves the same. Avita have a unique love, one full of fire and passion and everlasting love, only a few get to experience that in their lifetime. So she thinks by taking this step, she will have ensured Shikha's love and happiness. I think she honestly thought she would actually hurt or incapicitate RV so he won't do anything to her, it backfired because the shaitan got the upper hand on her!!

For what it's worth she does love Avdesh very much, and is prepared to face his wrath but she will FIGHT for her love. She won't give up. This is a revenge track, and I think after my post yesterday, there may be some changes made so that Avdesh won't repudiate her (reject) instead give her the cold treatment. I think Bhootni will insist he kick her out because she has besmirched the havile and the Thakur's izzat but Avdesh might say 'No I want her here always so she see's the hatred in my eyes'. But we know Arpita always gets through to him by her sheer innocence and so she will this time, she will tell the truth that she went with a knife but somehow she fell asleep, Avdesh will realise RV had drugged Arpi and that will soften his heart.

Arpi just took the wrong step and now she is realising what she has done by being too confident, too full of her own importance in Avdesh's life and home. But life is all about learning and growing with experience and this will leave her more wiser and older.

One thing though, both Bhootni and Avdesh too should take a bit of a blame here. They both were wary about RV and should have been more aware and alert. But no more than that.

In the end, this is a story and this track was needed, Avdesh can be only hurt through Arpita, she is his strength and his only weakness. SO to get to him, use or hurt Arpita and that is what has been done. Now we will see a lot of new track emerging, one of them will be Bhootni's unmasking, but only till RV runs out of options because that is his ace up his sleeve > he knows Avdesh is unaware about her and he will only reveal when he knows he cannot use Bhootni anymore.

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Posted: 14 years ago

#46

baaapre nandu itna gussaa

gusse mein tum kitni cute lagti ho na 🤣

nandu abt ur points that she agreed or obeyed what rv said to her

so it brings back to this point from vista

she was vanquished by a superior mind, unrivalled in his evil genius. She was weak this time because she didn't have the power of truth and righteousness backing her.

arpita innocence was taken over by evil genius

thats why she was confunded (confused about right and wrong)

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@chatterbox

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Posted: 14 years ago

#47

woaahhhhhhhh dreamy

what u said in last four paras

this is what wud come next or could come next

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mauve

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Posted: 14 years ago

#48

@cb, will arpi be able to forgive herself ? Even when she realises nothing really happened ,will her self respect /pride Be completely restored?she doesn't deserve to carry these scars for life .(her intentions were right &she did hv sum half baked plan against Rv ,keeping aside the fact tht they were reduced to zilch).So I m with u ,not angry but sad for her. Her only redeeming factor ?? Av?? Is he up for it ?so,cum Wht may ,but exciting times ahead.

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swamini5

@swamini5

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Posted: 14 years ago

#49

Originally posted by: Dreamygal301
Hi V,🤗

Very good and great minds think alike!😊

I'm going to copy and paste my response from elsewhere (which V, you will see anyway😉) because it really pertains to what you talked about here.

my personal view is she loves Avdesh so much, she just wants to protect him. She in a way has gave up her family to marry Avdesh and so his family is hers now and she will do anything, even if it means unhappiness for herself, to make the others happy. Another thing, she herself went through so much for love, she will naturally be sympathetic to anyone else going through the pains of love - one driving factor in her 'stupid move to RV' was the desire to see Shikha get her love just as she Arpita got her love. However, in many ways she is still innocent in that she does not understand that not all loves are meant to be or that even everyone loves the same. Avita have a unique love, one full of fire and passion and everlasting love, only a few get to experience that in their lifetime. So she thinks by taking this step, she will have ensured Shikha's love and happiness. I think she honestly thought she would actually hurt or incapicitate RV so he won't do anything to her, it backfired because the shaitan got the upper hand on her!!

For what it's worth she does love Avdesh very much, and is prepared to face his wrath but she will FIGHT for her love. She won't give up. This is a revenge track, and I think after my post yesterday, there may be some changes made so that Avdesh won't repudiate her (reject) instead give her the cold treatment. I think Bhootni will insist he kick her out because she has besmirched the havile and the Thakur's izzat but Avdesh might say 'No I want her here always so she see's the hatred in my eyes'. But we know Arpita always gets through to him by her sheer innocence and so she will this time, she will tell the truth that she went with a knife but somehow she fell asleep, Avdesh will realise RV had drugged Arpi and that will soften his heart.

Arpi just took the wrong step and now she is realising what she has done by being too confident, too full of her own importance in Avdesh's life and home. But life is all about learning and growing with experience and this will leave her more wiser and older.

One thing though, both Bhootni and Avdesh too should take a bit of a blame here. They both were wary about RV and should have been more aware and alert. But no more than that.

In the end, this is a story and this track was needed, Avdesh can be only hurt through Arpita, she is his strength and his only weakness. SO to get to him, use or hurt Arpita and that is what has been done. Now we will see a lot of new track emerging, one of them will be Bhootni's unmasking, but only till RV runs out of options because that is his ace up his sleeve > he knows Avdesh is unaware about her and he will only reveal when he knows he cannot use Bhootni anymore.

Fully Agree she cannot see beyond Avdesh

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@chatterbox

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Posted: 14 years ago

#50

ya i do feel sad for her coz she did make mistake.. and her scars or her self respect and pride can only come bck thru avdesh

i want to go back to the times in initial episods when these two hadnt said a single word to each other and yet they were in love

their love has stood the test of the times and this time is much harsher than before

and here again tag line wud come woh pyaar hi kya jo aapki hifaazat na kar sake

and as dreamy wrote above

life is all abt learning and growing

she wud come out of it if avdesh stands by her

ofcourse initial reactions wud be different

thats why drama wud stretch
bt end wud be sweet

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