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Posted: 14 years ago
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arre why bawl.. u be happy that u hv someone who u can call best friend forever..


i think for any relationship trust is important factor and rest is to keep away jealousy envy which create loads of issues..
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Posted: 14 years ago
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😆😆bawl bcoz yaaaaad aaa rahi hai

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Hiee Nandu...
woow...loved this topic " friendship"...
m going come back nd ans this tomrw...i have loads of things in my mind.. to write here..
wld come and write them..
Till then..Sia, CB Di, Vista Di...well said by you all...
Vista Di...can understand how you are feeling now..
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Sorry for being so late to comment here😔. That's really irresponsible of me. Came to the forum n got busy with the other posts. CB, wow so well said about Frienship.👏👏 Surely the foundation of a good friendship is trust and understanding. But hav to share something on ur quote tht friendship is love. We are a group of 6 friends and 2 are boys. We six are extremely good friends since school. When this movie KKHH came, we all had been together to watch it n felt so disgusted on the concept tht friendship is love. Though we all loved movie bt tht one liner was embarrassing.😆😆

Sia, lots of hugs to u dear🤗🤗. Am amazed at ur knowledge n wit😲. U n Sidda r probably the youngest in the forum n the most brilliant n talented as well👏👏. Loved reading ur POV. So impressed and agree with the point tht sometimes all of us try to change ourselves to be friends with someone by lying or pretending. Those friendships hardly last. For any relation to be successful, one needs to be honest and faithful. This is what we got to see in the show GKD. The day Avi was introducing the goons to arpi, he was telling each of their good things n flaws. Inspite of knowing each other's flaws they are so good friends and the strength of each other.😊😊

Vista, Thank u for sharing some lovely moments of ur life with us😃. Loved ur post. U reminded me of my bestiee😳😃. I can understand ur feelings. I echo ur words here😃. I hav also shared lots of wonderful moments with her. We don't stay nearby but there's not a single day wen we don't catch up .. be it fone or chats. I haven't met her since a yr but feel as if we nvr parted. She is the one person who understands all the words which I don't or cant speak. She's jst the best I have. We both have blogs n whenever sit to write, its always abt our friendship. Our other friends get irritated sometimes😆😆. Aww now am nostalgic😭😭

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Posted: 14 years ago
#15
aur hum sochhe ihh topic kidhar gaya eh

nandu dear chhupi rustam dheere dheere khul rahi ho

hmm slow and steady here too eh



true true true what u say

and kkhh just came to my mind when u said abt friendship

but from my experience i say trust is very important in any relationship

where trust is broken everything else comes crashing 😭
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Hi Nandini,🤗
Sorry for being so late to this, Di pointed it out that as it had gone to the 2nd page.
Wonderful topic and so appropriate with what is happening to GKD.
Friendship to me means having that one special friend with whom you could pour your heart out. I am a very private person, only few people (can count on one hand and have some spare) really know me and what's in my heart. To those people, I am here 24/7 and vice versa. We may not meet often or even call but the moment we do, we can go on for hours and chat about everything and anthing without the fear of being judged or found lacking. Trust is a big, big key here. If you trust your friend, nothing else matters.
In GKD Avdesh and his gang have this intangible link and friendship covered by a hierachy of sort. Yet when it really matters, they will give their life for one another (as seen), order and boss each other with no thought to the hierachy. That is what friendship is to them. In fact it is one of brotherhood, not of blood, but of circumstance and experience. That is more long lasting and more bonding.
Hope you enjoy my bit, everyone else have done a marvellous job so feel nervous!!😉😃
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Dreamy 😃

Thanx lots for sharing ur views. U really dont need to say sorry. It s me who shud be. I myself am posting after 4 days I shud apologise bfr all. Loved ur views on friendship. True dear ... the only foundation for a true friendship is Trust. When kids, we used to ask a riddle to each other. Which is the ship tht never sinks. The answer was Friendship. Thn we didnt know the depth of this statement but grew up to realise wat it means 😳😳
U nervous to post 😲😲 By saying so ur embarassing all of us. U know how fabulous writer u are 😃😃
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: _nandini

Dreamy 😃

Thanx lots for sharing ur views. U really dont need to say sorry I'm only glad I saw this before the week was over, really nice topic. It s me who shud be. I myself am posting after 4 days I shud apologise bfr all It happens and with other things going on, so don't hard on yourself. Loved ur views on friendship. True dear ... the only foundation for a true friendship is Trust. When kids, we used to ask a riddle to each other. Which is the ship tht never sinks. The answer was Friendship. Thn we didnt know the depth of this statement but grew up to realise wat it means 😳😳 Oh I know that one as well, yeah as kids we used to write them on cards to each other...
U nervous to post 😲😲 By saying so ur embarassing all of us. U know how fabulous writer u are 😃😃 always nervous,😉, we have so many fabulous writers here and I mean that. GKD section is lucky to have so many, yourself, vista, di, prash, sia and so many others!!.....seriously, wordwise this week hasn't been good...too many stuff going on and when I sit down, words are like treacle - hard to get out!

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Nandini, I am very very sorry for replying so late. I feel like a small child kneeling down in fear of getting in trouble. LOL.

Friendship is a very key and important factor in the lifestyle of many living things. Many animals as well as human beings depend on friends for comfort, support, and protection. We go to a friend at moments of joy or misery. In life, we constantly meet many new people and develop friendships. Some friendships remain for a long time while other just break up after a while. It may be circumstance, misunderstanding, or indifference that cause these separations. However, a true friend can always recognize or remember you no matter how long they have not seen or spoken to you. Some friendships give you great joy, others heartbreak and regret. This is also a great journey in our lives. We must meet all kinds of people and face some challenges to discover who is ultimately a true and real friend. As a child, I was very shy to speak to people and only spoke to a few people. I had feared what people will think of me and my personality. However, when I reached adolescence, I became more courageous and started to talk to all sorts of people. I know how it feels to be timid and insecure around people and thus I am able to make them speak. Regardless, I have met many people that have assumed the role of a friend as a image and nothing more. These are the types of friends that I stopped talking to because they never felt like friends. At one point you know them and then you feel like you have never met them before. It hurts me to know that some friends just remain as your friends to simply use you as a person. A person is not a tool to be used and then forgotten about. We all have hearts and feelings. Fortunately, I have met some fabulous people that are now my tight friends. I always wonder that life is so interesting because the friends that are so dear to you, are kept in a distance. I have hung with some of my closest friends for only a month, and yet it feels like I have known them for so long. For me, a true friend must understand me inside and out and appreciate me for who I am. A person must always be respected. Also, I remember seeing a friend after one year at a fair, I had just seen her back and yet I had recognized her. I was extremely pleased to see her again after such a long time. I wasn't feeling well that day and then her appearance brought great joy. It was like a god's gift to cheer me.


In GKD, the goons and Avi demonstrate this great and strong friendship that is unbelievible. They have been Avi's supporting hand in all difficult times as well as some pleasant times. To them, Avi's happiness was the most important thing in their lives and thus they had lived to please him. When looking at the gang, we don't see the boss-worker relationship. Avi had a loving and friendly attachment to each and everyone of them. He was devastated by Kanoo's state after RV's beating and Avi wanted to kill RV. This shows that they are not mere objects and workers but people that are worthy. Avi couldn't tolerate seeing any of his friends hurt and he wanted to punish those who brought harm. Likewise, Avi had first opened his heart out to these friends. They weren't just fellow goons but close buddies. A guy always consults his buddies for advice. Furthermore, he had shown his disappointment and misery with Arpi's rejection (which he misunderstood) to his friends. Avi demonstrated great anger to them because he knew that they would understand how he was feeling and he could only express himself to them. Moreover, Avi was pained by Sarvanna death. He had held on to his buddy and prayed for his revival. He was reluctant to leave his friends at the police station because he feared for their safety. The goons were happy to sacrifice their lives for Avi because they respected and loved him greatly. Avi's affection was more worthy to them then their mere life. It was a heavenly gift to die while protecting Avi and thus they shielded Avi from all dangers. Amjad had taken a bullet to protect his Avi. Likewise, both Pelewan and Kanoo are suffering torture because they live for just Avi. He is not only a friend to them, but a brother and their own god. They will stand by his side till the end just like religious devotees. This is what true friendship is, always give and never expect.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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@nandini thanks a lot di for appreciating my POV's!! :) :)

^^^ hey sidda...u've summed it up very well!!
"Some friendships give you great joy, others heartbreak and regret. This is also a great journey in our lives.We must meet all kinds of people and face some challenges to discover who is ultimately a true and real friend. As a child, I was very shy to speak to people and only spoke to a few people. I had feared what people will think of me and my personality. However, when I reached adolescence, I became more courageous and started to talk to all sorts of people. I know how it feels to be timid and insecure around people and thus I am able to make them speak.For me, a true friend must understand me inside and out and appreciate me for who I am. "
@bold specially loved this POV!! like stated some friendships will give us utter joy n some utter sadness n regret!! but i think we must pass this phase to find out who our true freind is...

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