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Posted: 15 years ago
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Yes, Arpita has been interrupted on her way to happiness and life as a married woman.........All because of another jealous woman....who used an innocent man's respect and adulation for her to her own selfish adavantage.
I mean, bhouji has been widowed for over 10 yrs and she never found any time during that decade to stage this 'greiving widow' Act?....she had to wait for her devar's suhaag raat?!....I'll be watching the episode tomorrow for the precap bit...who's blasted idea was it for him to take a celibate vow?..his or hers...??!!!🤬......I just hope they don't show it right at the end and leave us hanging over the weekend.....😔
That lamb of her's....I mean panditji was like her shadow today, that worried he was over her laughing avatar.....wise man, he knows her well indeed....but I'm sure he had a hand in it as well....
But I am so upset, I'm trying to understand Avdesh and I can figure out is he is being used, his emotions twisted till he had to take a vow....but could he not have taken one saying 'ok, will kill lal singh but will also enjoy life as a married man..??"😡😡.......Ughhh....😡😡😡......
One minute he is asking her what is lacking in my love that you are crying....then he is actually taking a action that means she will find his love lacking (ahem! ahem!😆) and so of course will be crying so much that honestly Lallanpur should have a flood warning posted......🤬...what will he do than? ignore or try to explain it to her?.....too little, too late...
Because like it or not, at that moment he put his bhouji over his wife. The woman who loves him without any thought to herself. And that really irks me because to me it smacks a bit of betrayel...maybe not in the physical sense but surely in intention?....he intended to see to her happiness, put her first, never make her cry but he betrayed those on their wedding night.😲😭
Well I just hope that Arpita isn't left with too deep a wound....because I can see many actions growing from this one act of Avdesh's.....one of them is that her father may try to dissolve the marraige.....which father would like to know that there is a possibility that his daughter would remain a virgin bride for a good long while...although, in this case I think Papa dearest will be laughing his hyena head off...at his daughter's misfortune but never underestimate the desire to prod at a fresh wound....😡🤢
Another thing, I cannot help but keep thinking of Othello and the universal emotion of jealousy.... Avi by his own action has now condemned himself (and Arpi) to living as a celibate.....Bhouji or maybe Arpi's father will take advantage of that.....I can see someone purposefully trying to make Avi jealous, that other man find Arpi desirable ...while he is married to her and yet cannot touch her........I hope for our heart's sake that the story does not go this way......but I have a feeling this vow will be dragged on a good while....appeasing us now and again with some lovelorn glances and music......
Ohhhh Avdesh, what have you done?!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Girl interrupted indeed😉 Interesting that you should say this Dreamy:
Another thing, I cannot help but keep thinking of Othello and the universal emotion of jealousy.... Avi by his own action has now condemned himself (and Arpi) to living as a celibate.....Bhouji or maybe Arpi's father will take advantage of that.....I can see someone purposefully trying to make Avi jealous, that other man find Arpi desirable ...while he is married to her and yet cannot touch her........I hope for our heart's sake that the story does not go this way......but I have a feeling this vow will be dragged on a good while....appeasing us now and again with some lovelorn glances and music......
It is exactly what I had proposed in your other thread as a way for Arpita to retaliate (maybe that is too strong a word).....rather deal with the situation. Actually, she won't really be doing anything, just the fact that another man finds her desirable should put some sense in that idiot's brain. She is much too in love with Avi to either encourage or even bear another man's attention.....but the very presence of a perceived rival should do the trick.
You are so right on the timing of it...........it makes this look so contrived.........I bet everyone, other than our village idiot, can see through B's gameplan😡
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Hi Vista,
oh I love your possessive 'our village idiot'😆.....yes me not very happy with him as well..Seriously I wanted to scream at him!
Hmm, you are right Arpi cannot be seen to encourage another man...she is shown as a sanskari and modest girl....which makes me think that somewhere down the line, Avi may think or accuse her of infidelity - off course instigated by bhouji. So therefore, we the viewers should see her as an innocent and a true lover....Avi will lose his way a bit, not about loving her, but besieged by confusion and his duty, love and etc....if such things were to happen, it will be only for a bit before once again Arpi or someone helps her save the day....
I'm really interested in seeing how this goes now....will Arpi fight back or meekly take Avi's decision on?....so far she has been meek and mild and I am now haunted by her speech a few times where she kept saying I promise you Avdeshji, I will follow you in all matters...respect you, follow your example, hold what you hold as important and etc......this has been foreshadowed for the last few weeks since she tried to do a runner from the haveli.......so maybe she won't fight back, just accept his act as the right of pati parmeshwar....😕
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Hey Dreamy🤗, thanks!
I think Arpita is still in the phase of assimilating all that is going on around her........it will take some time for her to get her bearings. Till then, she will not say or do much. She will be in the adarsh bharatiya bahu mode in the near future. I mean, think about it.........she has undergone such extreme emotions in the last few days, not to mention two attempts on her life in addition to attempted suicide😲😲
Even when B was lambasting her left, right and center, she kept quiet and cried silent tears, so I don't expect her to do much else now. But eventually, she will muster her strength and regroup.....then B will have a real fight on her hands.
By nature, Arpi is a fighter.........she could never abide her father or brothers and their MCP ways..........I can't imagine she will stay quiet for long here either.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dreamygal301

Yes, Arpita has been interrupted on her way to happiness and life as a married woman.........All because of another jealous woman....who used an innocent man's respect and adulation for her to her own selfish adavantage. Great post DG. Very appropriate title👏

I mean, bhouji has been widowed for over 10 yrs and she never found any time during that decade to stage this 'greiving widow' Act?....she had to wait for her devar's suhaag raat?!....I'll be watching the episode tomorrow for the precap bit...who's blasted idea was it for him to take a celibate vow?..his or hers...??!!!🤬......I just hope they don't show it right at the end and leave us hanging over the weekend.....😔 exactly DG, we don't know yet but judjing from the precap and SBS, it seems like it didn't occur to anyone that why she choose this time?why now? there is no single soul with normal brain function there? no wonder why she is rulling that haweli.
That lamb of her's....I mean panditji was like her shadow today, that worried he was over her laughing avatar.....wise man, he knows her well indeed....but I'm sure he had a hand in it as well.... I don't think he knew until wedding happen. He was so confused, had constipated look through out the wedding but he knew something is cooking.
But I am so upset, I'm trying to understand Avdesh and I can figure out is he is being used, his emotions twisted till he had to take a vow....but could he not have taken one saying 'ok, will kill lal singh but will also enjoy life as a married man..??"😡😡.......Ughhh....😡😡😡...... as i said earlier bahubali ka bal ghutno main hai. She never let him use his brain and if you don't use it, you loose it. Bhaiyaji better start using it ASAP. I have to see what exactly happens tomorrow but she is very cunning and knows how to put words in peoples' mouth. She knows Avi better than himself with is huge disadvantage of Avita ( as of now)
One minute he is asking her what is lacking in my love that you are crying....then he is actually taking a action that means she will find his love lacking (ahem! ahem!😆) and so of course will be crying so much that honestly Lallanpur should have a flood warning posted......🤬...what will he do than? ignore or try to explain it to her?.....too little, too late... this part disappointed me the most. The moment is ruined for both of them so whats the use even he comes back and explaine.
Because like it or not, at that moment he put his bhouji over his wife. The woman who loves him without any thought to herself. And that really irks me because to me it smacks a bit of betrayel...maybe not in the physical sense but surely in intention?....he intended to see to her happiness, put her first, never make her cry but he betrayed those on their wedding night.😲😭 Roual let down from bhayaji👎🏼 lets see how he redeems himself.
Well I just hope that Arpita isn't left with too deep a wound....because I can see many actions growing from this one act of Avdesh's.....one of them is that her father may try to dissolve the marraige.....which father would like to know that there is a possibility that his daughter would remain a virgin bride for a good long while...although, in this case I think Papa dearest will be laughing his hyena head off...at his daughter's misfortune but never underestimate the desire to prod at a fresh wound....😡🤢
Another thing, I cannot help but keep thinking of Othello and the universal emotion of jealousy.... Avi by his own action has now condemned himself (and Arpi) to living as a celibate.....Bhouji or maybe Arpi's father will take advantage of that.....I can see someone purposefully trying to make Avi jealous, that other man find Arpi desirable ...while he is married to her and yet cannot touch her........I hope for our heart's sake that the story does not go this way......but I have a feeling this vow will be dragged on a good while....appeasing us now and again with some lovelorn glances and music...... I think Avi won't be able to fullfill his promise soon and bhaoji will make sure of that. She may try to kill arpi in the mean time. This will be draggggggged for sure but Mr. Bhushan doesn't drag tings for more than 3-4 wks ( I know from the in the other show😉)lets see what happens here but we are in for a roller coaster ride for sure😕😔
Ohhhh Avdesh, what have you done?! He will go on a guilt trip very soon. Not because his pratigya but for hurting Arpi. Lets see what this purna brahmachaari does to make her feel better😕.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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wowwwwwwwwwwwwwwww


i m ashamed of myself for not getting right words or punctuations for that matter

but then thats me

m speechless now

let me have my tea and then answer u girls
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Hey Dreamy thanks fr posting this ... I too am utterly disgusted wid Avi's decission.

Is this wat u gift a gal who's ur wife now, whom u love d most on her first wedding night. Especially when u'v jst remarked tht ur hurt to see tears in her eyes n wud pay any cost fr a smile on her face.
I know he's indebted to his bhouji fr everything he is today bt he also owes an answer to this gal who's also left everything behind for him. Arpi is his wife now and he cant take a decission like being "Poorn Brahmachari" without having a prior word wid her. Showing her a cold hand and leaving d place without even bothering to console her was jst so insensitive on Avi's part.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I think Arpita will go with Avdesh bcos that is what has been established...That she will be with him no matter what...Remember she said things like Jab aapke saath ho to phir ....in the car & again something to the same meaning in the dhabba also.... I think she'll follow him ,the sita types & win him over.....
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Posted: 15 years ago
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i also agree that she will follow him without saying a word but i don't like this twist
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Posted: 15 years ago
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hey gurls
thnx dreamy...
i knw avdesh did wrong thing whch cant b amended nw..its too late..
bt think fr a sec ....wht abt avi? hell b too widout his arpi..
as dreamy said he is bcum a card wch bahuji plays fr her benefit....
arpi's condition vil b bad...her hopes r shattered same goes wid avi tooo juz bacz he took it widout realising d consequences
hell b too lost widout her...

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