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Posted: 14 years ago
#11
this is what i told in other thread
i kind of feel sympathy t\owards avdesh now

his character is being shown a weak person emotionally

probably since the story is male oriented so cvs need to show other side of him too


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Posted: 14 years ago
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yes cb di...
hes weak instead of being strong emotionally
he got carried by emotions
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Posted: 14 years ago
#13

Originally posted by: _nandini

Hey Dreamy thanks fr posting this ... I too am utterly disgusted wid Avi's decission.

Is this wat u gift a gal who's ur wife now, whom u love d most on her first wedding night. Especially when u'v jst remarked tht ur hurt to see tears in her eyes n wud pay any cost fr a smile on her face.
I know he's indebted to his bhouji fr everything he is today bt he also owes an answer to this gal who's also left everything behind for him. Arpi is his wife now and he cant take a decission like being "Poorn Brahmachari" without having a prior word wid her. Showing her a cold hand and leaving d place without even bothering to console her was jst so insensitive on Avi's part.

Nandini,
I am trying so hard to understand Avdesh. I think we were all lulled into thinking it's a love story - which it is - but also has other aspects such as the revenge and his gundagiri.....the reason the serial started with a wham and speedy love story was to get to this point and add conflict.
It's just hurts,....one moment he is the kind and considerate husband and then like a switch, bhaiyyaji came and took over......we need to see how it is played tonight....I know his emotions have been twisted and guilt layered over him....maybe deep down he also feels guilty that he is alive and enjoying life and now got married...his bro and father dead, bhouji widowed....he needs to do something to feel worthy of that love and happiness.....
but still, oh Avdesh.....😔
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Posted: 14 years ago
#14
way dreamy u analysed it again very nicely

avdesh character is very intriguing


its more of mystery

and speaking of that

i m really keen to know bauji mystery now
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: laxmi73

I think Arpita will go with Avdesh bcos that is what has been established...That she will be with him no matter what...Remember she said things like Jab aapke saath ho to phir ....in the car & again something to the same meaning in the dhabba also.... I think she'll follow him ,the sita types & win him over.....

Laxmi,👏
yes I think so as well. In fact wrote this in another post...vista's I think. It has been foreshadowed that Arpi will abide by Avi's wishes and orders...she has repeatedly said I will listen to you, I will make anything important to you important to me and etc......so she will be unhappy, lot of tears but mainly she will keep silent about the vow...mayber won't say too much about it.....
I would rather see her become stronger internally.....Avdesh's life is a tough one...she would need that fortification to see things through....after he gets Lal Singh, what happens?..I think there may be other members of his family out for blood...and then there is his bhaiyyaji business....oh yes, all in all Arpi needs to be strong now.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: chatterbox

this is what i told in other thread
i kind of feel sympathy t\owards avdesh now

his character is being shown a weak person emotionally

probably since the story is male oriented so cvs need to show other side of him too


Hi Di,
thanks for joining in.
I don't think he is weak emotionally. In fact I think he is very sensitive and feels very strongly. There is a lot of guilt in him - the survivor's guilt and it is bound to come to head when he gets married...he is moving on with his life but off course his brother and father can't and nor for the moment his bhabi......
His bhabi knowing him well has used this to make him take the vow. I won't be surprised if tonight she goes on and on about how I brought you up when everyone had died, how you were two young to take care of Lal Singh but now you are big but you forget but I haven't....she will say you go on with your shaadi-shuda zindaagi and etc and the knife will be thrust in even more till poor Avdesh takes that vow....he probably says no bhouji, I will take care of Lal Singh and she could say no, you are too busy now with your wife....this may then prompt him to take that bishma vow......
From the first day we were shown that Avdesh, despite being labelled a gunda in considerate to be the gunaho ka devta and has a core streak of decency......this is now being used against him by the person who knows him very, very, very well....he is like her own child but what she is doing is against all love......Bhouji does not love him at all, either as a son or a lover......She is selfish to the core.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dreamygal301

Nandini,
I am trying so hard to understand Avdesh. I think we were all lulled into thinking it's a love story - which it is - but also has other aspects such as the revenge and his gundagiri.....the reason the serial started with a wham and speedy love story was to get to this point and add conflict.
It's just hurts,....one moment he is the kind and considerate husband and then like a switch, bhaiyyaji came and took over......we need to see how it is played tonight....I know his emotions have been twisted and guilt layered over him....maybe deep down he also feels guilty that he is alive and enjoying life and now got married...his bro and father dead, bhouji widowed....he needs to do something to feel worthy of that love and happiness.....
but still, oh Avdesh.....😔

Well Dreamy talking frm Avi's point of view ur definitely correct. Am sure its going to be equally painful fr him (staying away frm his love). Maybe bhouji wud hav evoked d feelings in him to take such an oath.
But jst step into d shoes of Arpi n think fr a while dear. She's already gone thru so mch at her father's place, faught agaist all odds n reached her love. She was being taunted left n right frm bhouji bt still nvr opened her mouth. Obeyed to watvr she said. And now after all this wen she's come into d arms of her husband who is promising her to be wid her always, goes out listens to a woman's scorning n takes an oath to stay away frm her fr god knows how long.
All sympathies wid Avi bt still feeling very very bad fr Arpi.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: _nandini

Well Dreamy talking frm Avi's point of view ur definitely correct. Am sure its going to be equally painful fr him (staying away frm his love). Maybe bhouji wud hav evoked d feelings in him to take such an oath.
But jst step into d shoes of Arpi n think fr a while dear. She's already gone thru so mch at her father's place, faught agaist all odds n reached her love. She was being taunted left n right frm bhouji bt still nvr opened her mouth. Obeyed to watvr she said. And now after all this wen she's come into d arms of her husband who is promising her to be wid her always, goes out listens to a woman's scorning n takes an oath to stay away frm her fr god knows how long.
All sympathies wid Avi bt still feeling very very bad fr Arpi.

Nandini, my post is for Arpi.....😊
Yes she has been through so much but I guess another way of looking at it is, what did she really know about Avdesh?...nothing except he is a gunaho ka devta....she knew nothing about his family, his home and the people there......she needed help and he helped her - a clinical way of looking. But the emotion between them is one of love, which makes all the difference. The reality is his life is fraught and so many things going on...their love and wedding was the eye of the calm and finally on the wedding night the eye collapsed and the storm penetrated it.
I believe really, this is the time for Arpi to show she can be the wife of Avdesh...remember what bhouji said? he needs a strong wife and I agree.
Off course that doesn't stop me from feeling sad and upset over what happened...but looking back, everything was pointing to this...the rush love, the speedy wedding and even the reticient of the couple at times....that really puzzled me...but made sense.....these two fell in love first but they don't know each other at all nor what is happening in their lives or what happened in the past....
Now will be the time to get to know each other well. And once the vow is fulfilled...you bet anything the screen will be heating up....😉😳😃
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Posted: 14 years ago
#19
hmm dreamy u sure have dreamy posts and i was like lost hahaa

i think u got it right
sympathy for avdesh and pity for arpita
and as u said both of them dont know a thing about each other at all

this is the time that wud be the testign period for them

still hv to see this week's episodes to see how they show this

but i m bit confused after sana thread that lalsingh wud be found and killed and this track wud last a month


i guess i got that part correct
bt then he was the main villain due to who avdesh became a gunda and all
if lal singh is gone so soon then it wud be usual masalas na

lets see
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dreamygal301

Nandini, my post is for Arpi.....😊
Yes she has been through so much but I guess another way of looking at it is, what did she really know about Avdesh?...nothing except he is a gunaho ka devta....she knew nothing about his family, his home and the people there......she needed help and he helped her - a clinical way of looking. But the emotion between them is one of love, which makes all the difference. The reality is his life is fraught and so many things going on...their love and wedding was the eye of the calm and finally on the wedding night the eye collapsed and the storm penetrated it.
I believe really, this is the time for Arpi to show she can be the wife of Avdesh...remember what bhouji said? he needs a strong wife and I agree.
Off course that doesn't stop me from feeling sad and upset over what happened...but looking back, everything was pointing to this...the rush love, the speedy wedding and even the reticient of the couple at times....that really puzzled me...but made sense.....these two fell in love first but they don't know each other at all nor what is happening in their lives or what happened in the past....
Now will be the time to get to know each other well. And once the vow is fulfilled...you bet anything the screen will be heating up....😉😳😃

Hey Dreamy .. sorry fr replying late. Got hooked up wid work.
u there??

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