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TheLastCarnival

@TheLastCarnival

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Posted: 14 years ago

Hello All!

I was watching today's episode and this thought kept gnawing at ma tiny brain...
Gulaal hid the unpleasant truth from the family for "Greater Good". I agree it was wrong on her part and she shudn't have been so enveloped by that promise she gave to Vasanth. Atleast Mota Bha and Paan Ba deserved to know of their son's death.
Neways the fact doesn't change that she thought about the family and hid the truth from them.

Mota Bha said "The person who hides another's crime is equally guilty"
Why isn't this applicable to the entire family???
Today SP blamed Gulaal for toying with her feelings and hopes...well it was originally "Righteous" Mota Bha's idea. He decided to hide the truth about the Deeyarvattu's breaking from SP for her happiness...

That's just wat Gulaal did...maybe of a larger scale coz it involves a person's death...
Hid the truth so that the family stays together.

Similarities...Mota Bha hid the truth from SP for her happiness
Gulaal did the same...

It all comes down to ... "Tum chupao toh bhalai ke liye...Hum chupaye toh Gunaah?"

Double Standards I tell you!

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*Reemz*

@*Reemz*

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Posted: 14 years ago

So true! MotaBha didn't want to upset SF over the deeyarvatu breaking matter but surely that issue is less harmful than the revelation of Vasant's murder. But what MB says is RIGHT, no-one can question it while Gulaal isn't even given a chance to explain!

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AreYaar

@AreYaar

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Posted: 14 years ago

Nicely caught! Indeed the double standards are amazing...MB is doing the same thing he is villifying Gulaal for...but I guess in his dictionary, what Gulaal hid was TOO huge a truth to pass the "hiding truth for greater good" test😆

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vvasanthi

@vvasanthi

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Posted: 14 years ago

I dont know. If it was my child that was killed and his wife hid the truth from me, as a mother/father...I would be pretty livid too..AND..all this talk of greater good, promises etc wouldnt hold water for me..but then..I am an ordinary human being..not a soap character..😈

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AreYaar

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: vvasanthi
I dont know. If it was my child that was killed and his wife hid the truth from me, as a mother/father...I would be pretty livid too..AND..all this talk of greater good, promises etc wouldnt hold water for me..but then..I am an ordinary human being..not a soap character..😈

It is not wrong of them to be LIVID...but it IS wrong to accuse Gulaal of having an affair with Dushyant, refusing to let her enter the mandir and treating her like a LEPER.

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*Reemz*

@*Reemz*

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Posted: 14 years ago

Ofcourse the family members have a right to blow the roof top! They should be angry but that does not mean they question Gulaal's intentions. All these years she has been living for the family. Does that mean nothing to them??

It's true what they say though. Daughter-in-laws will never be daughters!

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AreYaar

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: *Reemz*
Ofcourse the family members have a right to blow the roof top! They should be angry but that does not mean they question Gulaal's intentions. All these years she has been living for the family. Does that mean nothing to them??

It's true what they say though. Daughter-in-laws will never be daughters!

Exactly...times like this prove apne paraaye ka farak...no matter what good you may have done otherwise for SO many years, in the blink of an eye all of it is washed away and you are turned into a leper and a pariah.

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Priti

@pritirays

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Posted: 14 years ago

well said - double standards! 👏
I like Kesar's standard - kuch nahin pachta iske peet main, sab bak deta hai! 😆 Tu chor to chor, main sipahi so sipahi! 😆 Duniya jaaye bhaad main, regret baad main karoonga! 😆

Well actually that is the right approach - why to hide the truth when it comes out one day or another? Its better to tell it soon as over time the pain accumulates!

And the Saru fui scolding Gulaal was RIDICULOUS! The double standard queen Panba (new one, I loved the old one) should have been scolded equally as it was a joint family decision! 😡

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Priti

@pritirays

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: *Reemz*
Ofcourse the family members have a right to blow the roof top! They should be angry but that does not mean they question Gulaal's intentions. All these years she has been living for the family. Does that mean nothing to them??

It's true what they say though. Daughter-in-laws will never be daughters!

For that they need a saas like Tulsi maiya who can shot her own son for saving the daughter-in-law! 😆
Ohk, so that Saas bhi kabhi show may wahtever it be, but I really used to like how Tulsi maiya used to stand for her daughter in laws! 👏

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JJESH

@JJESH

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Any regular person will held Gulaal responsible at this situation and definitely will ask the same question that everyoneone asking why did she save Dushyant...it's very normal I belive...even i was hard for me to digest the fact that you are living under the same roof with the murderer of your husband. All I can say that these kind of reactions from her family members are normal...i guess. But it would interesting to know how Kesar handles it and how CV fixes everything on a happy note...mere chhote dimaag mein to koi idea nehi aarahi hai.

Edited by JJESH - 14 years ago

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