why is Gulaal not mad at Kesar?

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Posted: 14 years ago
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After Kesar's immature act which completely destroyed/jeopardized Gulaal's life and 'uska ghar aur duniya ujaadh di' and her sacrifice and pain she had gone through to keep this family together and she is told that she has done vishwaasghaat to Vasant and the whole family and the person responsible is Kesar. Kesar also still thinks if he had controlled his emotions, things would have been same. He is still convinced that hiding Vasant's murderer was OK. His thinking is erratic like always. But why is she not angry at him????

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Posted: 14 years ago
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I think her mind is too occupied with the allegations and harsh words uttered by Motaba and Panba. Those allegations have made her feel that she is responsible for all the situation, by hiding the truth for 10 years.

In this situation I think she will not blame Kesar for revealing the truth as she is thinking that she was wrong in hiding it and should have done what Kesar did, long ago!

Seeing her present state - she is not in a position to blame anyone else for what all happened!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: pritirays

I think her mind is too occupied with the allegations and harsh words uttered by Motaba and Panba. Those allegations have made her feel that she is responsible for all the situation, by hiding the truth for 10 years.

In this situation I think she will not blame Kesar for revealing the truth as she is thinking that she was wrong in hiding it and should have done what Kesar did, long ago!

Seeing her present state - she is not in a position to blame anyone else for what all happened!

Agreed, and you think she will ever come out of this shock, where everyone in the village would know that she hid her husband's murderer name from the family? especially when there was a gossip in the village of an affair between Gulaal and Dushyant recently. Will that be again highlighted as a motive by the people in the village?
Should Gulaal move to Canada?
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: SlingShooter

Agreed, and you think she will ever come out of this shock, where everyone in the village would know that she hid her husband's murderer name from the family? especially when there was a gossip in the village of an affair between Gulaal and Dushyant recently. Will that be again highlighted as a motive by the people in the village?
Should Gulaal move to Canada?


LOL! 😆 why should she move to canada, she doesn't even know English! 😆
Well as we saw in the precap, she is already out of that shocked state, but till the elders of the family forgive her, she will be feeling guilty!
As far as I remember, Motaba does not know of Gulaal's struggle n the real reason behind the deeyarvattu! I am sure once he is made aware of the intentions of Raman n party, he will realize the reason behind Gulaal's decision n then will forgive her!

Also - no one can deny the fact that this act of Gulaal brought about the change in Dushyant n made him the good person he is today! 👏 If anyone can understand - this was a miracle, change of person's heart is near to impossible! Forexample - look at Raman n Jamuna Kaki! 😡 🤢
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Posted: 14 years ago
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LOL! 😆 why should she move to canada, she doesn't even know English! 😆
Well as we saw in the precap, she is already out of that shocked state, but till the elders of the family forgive her, she will be feeling guilty!
As far as I remember, Motaba does not know of Gulaal's struggle n the real reason behind the deeyarvattu! I am sure once he is made aware of the intentions of Raman n party, he will realize the reason behind Gulaal's decision n then will forgive her!

Also - no one can deny the fact that this act of Gulaal brought about the change in Dushyant n made him the good person he is today! 👏 If anyone can understand - this was a miracle, change of person's heart is near to impossible! Forexample - look at Raman n Jamuna Kaki! 😡 🤢

Since this cannot be undone and its not about what all she has done for the family but what she did not do by letting the parents know about Dushyant and therefore will be considered as a breach of trust. If she helped reformed Dushyant, thats does not dilute the impact of his crime on the family.
BTW har Canada janey wale ko english nahin aati. What I meant was that she should go somewhere else because she will be known as a wife who did that. Its a fact. nahin?
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: SlingShooter

Since this cannot be undone and its not about what all she has done for the family but what she did not do by letting the parents know about Dushyant and therefore will be considered as a breach of trust. If she helped reformed Dushyant, thats does not dilute the impact of his crime on the family.
BTW har Canada janey wale ko english nahin aati. What I meant was that she should go somewhere else because she will be known as a wife who did that. Its a fact. nahin?



I agree that this cannot be undone, and the only thing which can untangle the web is the forgiveness which Gulaal needs to seek. Well the forgiveness in this scenario is not something which will be given very easily, so cannot say - how ill gulaal tackle this?

But she has remained strong so far in all the circumstances and she should even now! Even if people will call her - wife who helped her husband's murderer etc., or even talk about her affair with Dushyant. someone needs to bring back her old confidence, which I am sure Kesar will do!

On second thought - of the elders want to punish her for hiding this truth, they have the full right to! But in my opinion, a repenting heart should be forgiven rather than being punished! Well it will take a even bigger heart to do that, so lets see if Motaba n Panba have such hearts!😛


Regarding Canada -I know!😆 Real world main people will just move, but show ke hisaab se, she shd not! 😛
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I agree that this cannot be undone, and the only thing which can untangle the web is the forgiveness which Gulaal needs to seek. Well the forgiveness in this scenario is not something which will be given very easily, so cannot say - how ill gulaal tackle this?

But she has remained strong so far in all the circumstances and she should even now! Even if people will call her - wife who helped her husband's murderer etc., or even talk about her affair with Dushyant. someone needs to bring back her old confidence, which I am sure Kesar will do!

On second thought - of the elders want to punish her for hiding this truth, they have the full right to! But in my opinion, a repenting heart should be forgiven rather than being punished! Well it will take a even bigger heart to do that, so lets see if Motaba n Panba have such hearts!😛


Regarding Canada -I know!😆 Real world main people will just move, but show ke hisaab se, she shd not! 😛

@ Pritirays: I have quite different view on the matter of Forgiveness that Gulaal should seek from Motabha and Panbha.

Any parents will be shock to know that their son murderer is forgiven without their knowledge. But murderer is the part of the family. He is not from outside of the family. Murderer has confessed that he had repented the crime after committing ever since. It is totally wrong & unfair to weigh the person committing crime and one hiding the facts.

Honestly, if MB and PB trust her so much before, why not give one chance to justify her motive behind hiding the facts. How did they forget that once she had saved Rewa and Kesar? She must get benefit of doubt at least but no their trust goes puff in air.

MB always said she is like daughter not DIL but since is punished for the hiding facts this statement is not true at all. Daughter will be forgiven at any cost but not daughter in law. So MB claim of her being his daughter is false statement. Events had been too much for MB and PB and whole family but still MB/PB punished gulaal on emotional outrage despite being senior member of family. So there is not really difference between Kesar and MB afterall. They can't manage their anger.

Ten years back, she had exceptional situtation where she find MB family at vunerable position and had to save comatised Motabha, young Kesar/ Rewa and idiot Panba from cunning JK, devil Raman and enemy Sudha from murder conspiracy. If she had disclose the dushyant as murder the situation would have been worse for MB family.

MB and PB will repent for their injustice to her sacrifice once they became aware of the real reason behind it. Her diary may help to understand her motive and Kesar may unlock it, but dont know how.

My point here is that it is MB and PB will be repenting for their action against Gulaal rather vice versa.
Edited by Gman - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Hmmm.. Well... I think Gullu is not mad at kesar simply bcoz they dont have tht much time left for the show... where they can afford another misunderstanding and subsequent "realizations" and "mujhe maaf kar de" type of scenarios...
And MB and PB are mad at her and unable to understand her motives or listen to her for the same reason as above (bcoz otherwise with everybdy around gul may take a bit too long to fall for kesar).. desperate times call for deperate measures so she needs to be sidelined at the moment... (although it seems at times tht everybdy is simply copying each other's dialogues e.g. "gul tum dhokhebaazi ki misaal ho" etc etc... )
😊 Wat say????
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Posted: 14 years ago
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She is not mad at him because gulaal is too busy taking crap from the others so she is too busy crying. so she has no time to think of kesar spilling the beans

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Becos gulaal is gulaal(wise) not kesar to become mad at wrong time n hardly see her becoming mad she controls n manages in way of learning to master her emotions well.👏
ya she knew wat happens when this truth comes out. before situation n present situation is different. she done wat is necessary for the situation.
at that time family gets divide. but now everyone are down but slowly time heals the wounds but family is intact eventhough diffe n misunderstading r there.but she is human too feeling bad for doubting her intentions frm the beloved ones.she tried to stop kesar but he didn't listen to her n he might ve knew wat she is telling after seeing the effect. so she is clam n composed ,matured person knows wat to do at the needed situation.
no use of shouting at kesar now after everything is out. instead of going mad at him it is imp for her to think abt mb,pb n necessary steps taken for the situation.she is wise.kesar already realised wat he has done n gulaal acknowledge it. now her top priority is family not kesar.slowly mb n pb realise wat gulaal does n family will unite with her eventhough kesar will be there for her.
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