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Posted: 14 years ago
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Didnt the priest say gulaals second marriage will be safe, everyone is happy that the deeryarvattu will be over to start a a new track, if thats so what of gulaals marriage pridiction ?

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Posted: 14 years ago
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If i am honest, i dont see it breaking as such (story wise i dont see it or i am hoping it doesnt, coz that is one thing that is the identity to the village ppl and them) but the thing this will do, is finally show Kesar is doing the right thing from his end, and esp as we think he finally gets it how he has been and so on, with what Talli did today and so on, and for Gulaal to see that Kesar has done this, so we might see a change in both their demeanors...
I dont see the deeryavatu breaking for some reason, coz that has been the one thing on this show very much in our faces for the past 10 yrs, but it will be interesting to see what actually is said by Kesar and then Gulaal and then D's conclusion to it all...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Lennie

If i am honest, i dont see it breaking as such (story wise i dont see it or i am hoping it doesnt, coz that is one thing that is the identity to the village ppl and them) but the thing this will do, is finally show Kesar is doing the right thing from his end, and esp as we think he finally gets it how he has been and so on, with what Talli did today and so on, and for Gulaal to see that Kesar has done this, so we might see a change in both their demeanors...

I dont see the deeryavatu breaking for some reason, coz that has been the one thing on this show very much in our faces for the past 10 yrs, but it will be interesting to see what actually is said by Kesar and then Gulaal and then D's conclusion to it all...
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But Lennie...Dushyant knows that Gulaal is suffering and that his decision as sarpanch is responsible for the state she is in...so won't he take the second chance and try and make things right for Gulaal by breaking the deeyarvattu? I am sure the panchayat will be angry at Kesar for treating the whole matter like a game and also there will 1001 complications for Gulaal once the deeyarvattu is broken. She won't be allowed to live in that house anymore etc etc...but Dushy already feels so guilty about the way things have turned out for Gulaal...?
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Didn't Panditji say that only Saat pher count as proper marriage...?? So what if the deeyarvatu breaks n they fall in love all over again which would lead to a shaadi?? Jst a feeling... 😳
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Posted: 14 years ago
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If it does break hope gulaal. Respects. Tradition, since she is so wrapped in being vasants wife for life, and wears whits, that alone is just. Bugging me!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Anjalg



But Lennie...Dushyant knows that Gulaal is suffering and that his decision as sarpanch is responsible for the state she is in...so won't he take the second chance and try and make things right for Gulaal by breaking the deeyarvattu? I am sure the panchayat will be angry at Kesar for treating the whole matter like a game and also there will 1001 complications for Gulaal once the deeyarvattu is broken. She won't be allowed to live in that house anymore etc etc...but Dushy already feels so guilty about the way things have turned out for Gulaal...?

That is the other factor in it that plays in, but lets see what he says to his team of members in his board, i do think maybe D will break it coz he has seen the damage effect it has and the force on her... but it depends on what the other members have to say, i am hoping for a speech on marriage for both of them 😆
Gulaal will bear the not living in the house, coz already she felt forced and such... and has felt unsettled in there (even though this all makes it rather official doesnt it if it breaks), but the questions remains, will it break or stay intact, coz with both of the results, there are many ways to go about, main thing i feel is the change in how Kesar and Gulaal have been so far
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Yash141

Didn't Panditji say that only Saat pher count as proper marriage...?? So what if the deeyarvatu breaks n they fall in love all over again which would lead to a shaadi?? Jst a feeling... 😳


But in what context was it said? I still haven't had the chance to catch up from the beginning. For instance if the Panditji only said that in response to Gulaal's, "the first marriage must be meaning me and Durgesh, and my and Vasant's marriage will be the second marriage."

Then it simply is the priest telling her, no it means that it has to be an actual recognized marriage, not simply a promise of marriage.

And if you want to be really technical, Gulaal didn't and won't do Saat Pheras. Gujarati weddings have four pheras. So again, his is more likely a figure of speech, saying he means an actual recognized marriage--not just a fixed alliance that never came to fruition.

Deeyarvattu is recognized as a marriage by their society. By the Panchayat, by the priests, by the village and by the families. Almost everyone but Gulaal at this stage.

There doesn't need to be actual Pheras for it to be considered a marriage. If that's the case then Motabha and Paanbha do not have a marriage, either.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Dear All,
So that means that Gulal will live like a widow and start wearing white clothes after the Deeyavatoo is broken. I think at that moment she will understand how hard it is live like a widow and not a suhaagan
What say guys????

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Posted: 14 years ago
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No, I have a feeling that, even though Dushyant will know that Gulaal is suffering he wont do anything. But like who knows?

so that means?

Gulaal mighnot live as a suhagan?

wow that doesnt make sense.




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Posted: 14 years ago
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Deeyarrvatto isn't going to break from my POV. This is the only way for kesgul to be together...unless they want to fall in love all over again and do another proper. marrige...

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