Originally posted by: DearZindagi12
Right now aj s n a rage going to mandir and proving her innocence?? Jab khud trust nahi karta tho kya innocent prove karta guddu ko??All i can say s leave it to god...time ill come whr bina kuch kare guddan ki innocence proove hogi... Right now aj s heart broken and feeling betrayed aise mai we cant expect him to trust guddu... I agree he was angry..my only concern was ms na thod ta tho acha hota and guddan ko apni safai dene ki ek mauka bi nahi diya...thats the only concern..fact s guddan aj ko bina koi proof blindly trust karti hai but aj doesnt... Galti dono ka hai... Filal going away frm jm till her innocence s proved s not the right solution...if guddu fights back for aj and her marriage slowly he il change and connect the dots.Let me tell u my story i was working n an IT company and my boss was very good but my badluck my boss and director moved to diff team..and my new boss was kind of pyschotic...one day i didnt take his tantrums and yelled at him ..this hurt his ego and took revenge during my mid yr appraisal..convinced everyone that im not good nvr obeys him etc etc..my boss and his boss r frds so he believed him and rated me underperformer just bcoz i wasnot dancing on his tunes. Infact my mgr told me either u prove urself if not leave the company .just like durga they told me on my face that its better to leave ..that time no body was thr to support me or help me..my ex mgr and director too were helpless as they were in a diff team...all my colleagues knew that he was taking revenge.maine bi socha gusse mai better company chod ke chali jao..that time my best frd who was also my colleague told me if u resign and leave the company then u il prove them right ..they il say u were not doing good .all the allegations made against u il become true ..think job chod ke unko right prove karogi ya reh ke fight back karo and unko wrong prove karo..leaving the job s very easy but to stay back and fight with them proving them wrong is difficult but not impossible...then i hv decided to stay back and tried to prove them wrong .the journey was very difficult coz no body was thr to support me..every day my boss used to insult me in team meetings..my colleagues used to feel bad for me..but i didnt give up ...he leterally tortured me for three months...then slowly he stopped torturing me..then annual review mai i took all d data acheivements to present them..finally i made them say that i proved them wrong .my mgr told me they thought i il leave but u proved us wrong and we r extremely happy with your performance .nxt mid yr review i was n among top five performers across India.thenn i told them i want to leave the job coz im not happy here. That time i didnt leave coz i want to prove them wrong who raised ingerr on me...later the same manager and lead who told me to leave the job once came to me and requested me not to leave...imagine abb job mai hi hum compromise kiya tho ye tho guddan ki married life hai...filal chod ke jaana sabse badi galti hogi... Better she fights back...one day they il realise her worth..later she can decide whether to stay or leave...I know she s all alone now ..no body s thr to help her or support her but slowly god and time il prove her innocence..right now guddan needz a frd who can support her unconditionally withbout judging her ...rahi baat aj and dadi slowly they too ill change...