Changes that i think needed in the show - Page 8

Originally posted by: dattu21

Originally posted by: rs-shailu29

at least they need to show guddan working and juggling well with work and home ...

slowly getting her strength and achieving ..

how long they will show her like leaning to aj and achieving ..

he can take a back seat guiding her ..

when is capable of many things (cid and judging ppl)she can stand on her feet ..

gopi--went to school and ahem appreciated and guided her

ishima---she is doc she juggled with family and work and raman respected her ...

these 2 did something in life on there own terms ..

were is guddan heading ...???

neither she is good in household nor doing good outside ..

never seen her stepping out being in the house and getting shouting from durga ...

how long aj will be her backup ...

what happened to her dreams to be an actress ...at least she can fulfill her dreams to be a dancer ...

she stuck in the house like a glue ...

dadi supports her but when insulted by bahu's and guddan is appreciated for keeping calm ..what nonsense..

aj supports her always good for him he is gentleman good we respect ..

as a husband he is doing duty as a wife she is doing duty ...but what has guddan achieved on her own...nothing ...

tagging her as saas ,bahu and wife and adopting name of jindal what is her identity ...nothing of that sort she is showpiece wife for the world but emptiness in her life ...

we women are beyond tags ...we either are tagged by our fathers name after that getting married hubbies name other that we as individual has something beyond the names ..

thats what needed we want real guddan not gupta/jindal we want guddan achieving big on her own merits and aj being a support system is fine ...

if she does that any man will fall for her even aj will ...trust me

Originally posted by: rs-shailu29

at least they need to show guddan working and juggling well with work and home ...

slowly getting her strength and achieving ..

how long they will show her like leaning to aj and achieving ..

he can take a back seat guiding her ..

when is capable of many things (cid and judging ppl)she can stand on her feet ..

gopi--went to school and ahem appreciated and guided her

ishima---she is doc she juggled with family and work and raman respected her ...

Don't know abt gopi bahu bt yeah, had watched at least around 350 epis of yhm & there cv has shown fl as working, independent & strong dentist as middle class bt here.it is completely missing:(

these 2 did something in life on there own terms ..

were is guddan heading ...???

neither she is good in household nor doing good outside ..

never seen her stepping out being in the house and getting shouting from durga ...

how long aj will be her backup ...

You pointed it out, #Shailu!! 👏

She is just roaming around jindal bhavan, takes insult with smile face bcoz saas hai🥱

what happened to her dreams to be an actress ...at least she can fulfill her dreams to be a dancer ...

she stuck in the house like a glue ...

dadi supports her but when insulted by bahu's and guddan is appreciated for keeping calm ..what nonsense..

i can never get it, seriously!! saas hai toh kya hua...Sometimes reciprocating is needed!!

aj supports her always good for him he is gentleman good we respect ..

as a husband he is doing duty as a wife she is doing duty ...but what has guddan achieved on her own...nothing ...

tagging her as saas ,bahu and wife and adopting name of jindal what is her identity ...nothing of that sort she is showpiece wife for the world but emptiness in her life ...

we women are beyond tags ...we either are tagged by our fathers name after that getting married hubbies name other that we as individual has something beyond the names ..

thats what needed we want real guddan not gupta/jindal we want guddan achieving big on her own merits and aj being a support system is fine ...

if she does that any man will fall for her even aj will ...trust me

Yup, there will be something abt Guddan which will be her own identity!!

Originally posted by: Akshata2010

One step at a time babe...

Juggling between work and home would not make any sense at this point for Guddan.

The best way to go about this is to either let her succeed in her house as a Saas/Bahu/Wife. Or let her succeed as a Professional. One thing at a time. Either profession first or household first.

Because for a woman who could not do anything right, it's gonna be too hard to handle. And the story will lose it's charm. Let her learn a few things from her Jindal Sahab and then she can stand up as an individual independent woman who is successful and is moving forward.

I think we are pinning tooo many expectations onto Guddan as a character. Firs, we want her to be the same immature and bubbly girl who is 21 yrs old who should not deliver heavy dialogues according to her age. But then we are also whining about her being at home all the time.

Especially since she cannot do anything right

Is she doing good in household things???

😆 ok going by ur thing guddan seems useless without aj right according to u

At least she can go out learn to work like aj
At least she can do

Ok if she can't work she is good in dancing right at least join some institute and brush up her skills
No need to earn do something for timepass

What is she doing staying at home nothing zero nothing
Does she know cooking or even managing household no
At least go out have some training in dancing which she says she is good at

Something is better than nothing

21years old is not a excuse
When she can free aj from case she has capability of doing great in life
Let her take baby step start with tiny things and achieve big

Come on u ppl she is not dumb as u ppl claim
She can take aj help
But not completely leaning on him to achieve something

Originally posted by: dattu21

Originally posted by: Akshata2010

One step at a time babe...

Juggling between work and home would not make any sense at this point for Guddan.

The best way to go about this is to either let her succeed in her house as a Saas/Bahu/Wife. Or let her succeed as a Professional. One thing at a time. Either profession first or household first.

Because for a woman who could not do anything right, it's gonna be too hard to handle. And the story will lose it's charm. Let her learn a few things from her Jindal Sahab and then she can stand up as an individual independent woman who is successful and is moving forward.

Agree, not everyone is perfect in everything, bt she is perfect in nothing!!

I think we are pinning tooo many expectations onto Guddan as a character. Firs, we want her to be the same immature and bubbly girl who is 21 yrs old who should not deliver heavy dialogues according to her age. But then we are also whining about her being at home all the time.

What's diff in betn????? ek hi hua na!!

Especially since she cannot do anything right

Originally posted by: rs-shailu29

Is she doing good in household things???

😆 ok going by ur thing guddan seems useless without aj right according to u

At least she can go out learn to work like aj
At least she can do

Ok if she can't work she is good in dancing right at least join some institute and brush up her skills
No need to earn do something for timepass

What is she doing staying at home nothing zero nothing
Does she know cooking or even managing household no
At least go out have some training in dancing which she says she is good at

Something is better than nothing

21years old is not a excuse
When she can free aj from case she has capability of doing great in life
Let her take baby step start with tiny things and achieve big

Come on u ppl she is not dumb as u ppl claim
She can take aj help
But not completely leaning on him to achieve something

well dear I respect your opinion & yes I too want she should pursue her dreams as an actress

Sorry but I laugh at few statements of ppl who time after time says guddan should learn from aj .
Seriously ppl

Cv's should stop giving big dialogues to guddan when they want her doing nothing the next day

The way guddan is written is pretty confusing
Dialogues of hers pump up our expectations

Before marriage there was no confusion
Because she was gupta
She face masked aj with cake and warned him for not showing off his money power and insulting her parents

After marriage many times aj taunted her marrying him for money she gave him back answer but when durga insulted her she just stayed calm and was walking out of the house the next moment we thought she will move on in her life but cvs brought her back with some comical touch and unwanted party track with bakwas mask party

Luckily aj got to know the truth otherwise her tagbeing goldigger would have stayed for ever ...

There they made her looked like an idiot and stubborn not to leave the house even we can say shameless
Then somehow aj came and allowed her stay back with chindi track were they showed guddan again challenging aj she will pay him back


Then came kichdi competition she learned to prepare it with revti help but Durga played a game we thought she lost it when she could have prepared and lost the race .

But we saw her again taking help from aj signing the kite of 20 percent bakwas drama ..
Aj won the prize but she boasted that she won and aj took it lightly but he taunted later when he was in giant wheel

When she said in that laminated kite scene she claimed she will somehow pay his money and walk out
We thought this will be interesting she achieve something

But what we got republic day track she saving bahu's we were proud she is shown strong

But after that again bakwas she claiming proud of being a saas and bahu and bakwas track of kalash and redoing rituals after 3 months of marriage

Then she said to aj I won't pay u back the money I am ur wife ...

In Christmas track her dad got insulted she walking with him boosted up our expectations
She will do something to make bahu's repent
But what she did she took help from aj to be a Santa and gifts there to comical touch lying to family and patching up the family that was ok in that track kaushalya was far better than what guddan was .

What all big promises she did she never did instead cvs showed her completely a dumb character just leaning on Superman aj


Come on every humans have there amount of strengths and weakness

A firebrand like guddan is shown meek in front of Durga is illogical and fake .

When guddan can handle rawat pointing a gun at him
Slapping and holding collar at perv

Cake mask on aj
Guddan can give it back to durga harsly .

She sober on bahu's are illogical
She acts like bahu rather than a saas
If at all she is shown strict they show it as comedy
Nonsense.
Why they have to add comedy in every thing
This week we saw her yelling at aj that he is kadoos and in jail for murdering antara

Is comedy needed there first of all that scene was not needed the next moment we see her crying for aj and his safety

Cvs should stop mixing comedy in serious tracks


Well this is my POV the way guddan is written is confusing to audiences so we expect something from her

But not anymore from now on her big dialogues will be taken lightly when cvs wants her to be dumb character

Originally posted by: Rosellia1

well dear I respect your opinion & yes I too want she should pursue her dreams as an actress

But yes from 21 year girl it's a very high expectations

@ bold

Now she knows cooking & she can also manage household things & pooja related things like antara funeral arrangements.

& She know cooking because of AJ advice

& Before marriage she went out in acting institute

& She likes dance very much

But before marriage she can't dance even properly in haldi scene & at least not better from AJ in mehendi scene

Now she is married.now she should make herself capable for house as SAAS & wife & I think after that she should pursue her dreams.

She can't manage two things at the same time at least abhi ke liye to Nahi.

@bold 2

Before marriage she was free from AJ .

Kaushalya was just a "raste Ka rora"

But her father & her sister were her support system but not much as AJ.

But Shaadi se pehle I don't think usne Kuch bada Kar liya she even didn't know cooking but after marriage she know

Before marriage she was so stubborn & after marriage she handle the situation very smartly & not much stubborn

@ bold 3

Of course she is not dumb.she have detective capabilities.

& Yes I agree with u

She can take AJ help but not completely

In khichadi competition I wanted guddan cooked by herself without taking aj's help.

But Durga she was just spoil everything

Overall I think she first should handle household responsibilities then after that she should pursue her dreams.

& 21year is not a excuse.she needs mentor and it is AJ

Before marriage it was her dad but not completely but now it's her husband Jindal Sahab

P.s it just my view nothing serious.

Sorry I interrupts between in u guys

This is what I am saying I am glad u understand my POV
She can do better without his help too
He can be her backup

Originally posted by: captainplus

i had expected antara topic would be closed forever, mystrey would be solved, Aj would come out from past, his guilt would be vanished, new starting, bt i got disappointed!!

That can't happen without mentioning Antra

it is nt necessary to go round & round in antara & outcome nothing!!

It sounded heavy just like typical fl(sounded mahaan repeating) & simple straight won't be that much boring!!

It may not suite the situation either

He is going on 2 boats...though everyone he has accepted guddan as his wife, bt denying it in accepting in public ...Till nw, has he done anything 4 guddu as his wife?????gifted necklace, bcoz he saw her sad face & thought she felt bad bcoz he didn't give her anything so farz nibhaya, where as Guddu 1st gifted him baby pink shirt then specs without any force or duty, bt from heart!! Anyone Que his wife on their relation, he silently stood there:(

Everytime there is something abt couple, he brings antara in betn...antara ke liye yeh, antara ke liye voh...bhai you 're married, your wife is hearing whatever you r saying, doesn't guddu feel awkward?????it's indirect insult...then sympathy look does't need!! that's why i said he is doing it as just duty!!

AJ & Guddu are not same person, they can't do & act same. If he isn't gifting Guddu any gift, it doesn't mean, he hasn't accepted her from his heart & only doing his farz.

His feeling can't be judged based on what he gifts or doesn't.

This might not be fitting his character as of now as he isn't someone who is expressive while Guddu is & will shower her with gift on every occasions.

While Guddu is someone who would gift all her near & dear ones not just AJ.

About what he did ? He tried to hide about Kaushalya, he let Kaushalya go so not to hurt her. He gave her his laptop to do whatever she wants leaving his job. He wrote her 1st chit of success for her. He gives in to any of her demands & can't see her in tears & this isn't just his "farz".

Yesterday he was solely concerned due to the very small bruise on her, this isn't just farz.

While going to jail, he was only looking at her & no where else while his own mom had shattered & this can't be only farz.

Regarding, him keeping quite when Guddu was being questioned, that happened once he was quite cause the questions were logical & he was questioned too, to which he had no answer at that time & was stunned as then he was questioned in if he doesn't accept her as wife why isn't he leaving her ? If she was just his Farz, he won't have been so upset.

I hv mentioned "gift" as just a good gesture, nt love symbol!! I meant he has been doing it all bcoz he doesn't want to see guddu hurt or sad & so as a duty, he does it at all!!

Even for name sake, neither he can say she is his wife nor able to stop anyone questioning abt their marital life?????accepting ki baat hi door hai!!

Red:I said it all!!

Black:He will never either, bcoz of 2 reasons, 1)His mom won't allow it & 2) antara wrote in chit that he would hv to remarry, & that's why after reception party, he told his mom that it's upto guddan whether she wants to continue as just being saas & bahus or nt ... He needed namesake wife!! ( i know well he was in big thought when his mom asked him abt accepting guddan as wife bt later covered it up!!)

About bringing Antra, couple related conversation happened during Valentine episode. He got newly married, he has been giving this tribute since years to his late wife & now when he hasn't realized his feeling for Guddu yet, how can he stop giving the usual tribute to his late wife all of sudden ? For that he needs to realize his feeling for Guddu & then it will surely stop.

Their relation has just started & he has been into his previous for more than a decade. He needs time to realize his feelings for Guddu & once he does he will stop.

It's Valentine party, nt any normal function... You're hosting it in your late wife's memories & you're even mentioning it when you're present wife is just besides u,& Doesn't sound it embarrassing????????Does't it awkward 4 her?????In front of all!!😲

Back to the point, Just cause AJ isn't expressing his acceptance of Guddu by giving her gifts. It doesn't mean that Guddu shouldn't fight for him when someone has trapped him cause he would do the same for her too. & most importantly he matters to her cause other than being her hubby, he holds the place in her heart right next to her father.

I didn't deny it & will never deny!!