Changes that i think needed in the show - Page 9

Originally posted by: dattu21

You pointed it out so well that I just forgot my own topic!!😆 we're going round & round nw!!

Originally posted by: dattu21

<font color="#000099">You pointed it out so well that I just forgot my own topic!!😆 we're going round & round nw!!</font>

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Originally posted by: Akshata2010

#Shailu

That's exactly how her character is built in the show. She is basically careless and clumsy which doesn't let her do anything right.

It's not that she cannot do anything without AJ, she just needs a mentor to guide her to help her do things patiently and correctly. Which is what AJ is doing, she gets hyper but he makes her understand either calmy talking or scolding.

In the whole Rawat track she has been calm. She calmly decided to help AJ out.

Next, her dancing skills. She fumbles about dance as well. She is under-confident and clumsy. She danced well in sangeet with AJ. And lets not forget, she has stage fear. All I'm saying is... Give it some time. The whole show revolves around the story that how Guddan finally learns to manage. Probably once things sort out between her and the bahus, then even they will help her out. And one day she will be able to do everything that was she was told that she cannot do.

Coming to the bahu part, I agree with you completely. She needs to put Durga in place. The more she stays quite the more Durga will speak.

Originally posted by: rs-shailu29

😆 aj can't spoon feed her
She has to take her own plight one day or the other
Why guddan needs him always

Were is that strong girl we saw first few episodes before marriage

These writers have ruined her characterization for the sake of saas bahu drama.

The writer needs to give antara a closure
That's what irritating us
Guddan mahanta is irritating

Rawat track was just a waste of time no logic

Originally posted by: captainplus

.though everyone he has accepted guddan as his wife, bt denying it in accepting in public .

he did it loud & clear it front of media during restaurant fiasco

& then during the reception, the way he came & sat beside her in pink shirt was an indirect declaration to guest & Bahus & hence bahus never questioned Guddu again infront of him

& from inside he has accepted her but didn't realize it yet.

Red: I clearly said it!!

Yeah, at that time he said it bt then took 360 degree changed, gold-diggers & all!!

I hv mentioned "gift" as just a good gesture, nt love symbol!! I meant he has been doing it all bcoz he doesn't want to see guddu hurt or sad & so as a duty, he does it at all!!

Even for name sake, neither he can say she is his wife nor able to stop anyone questioning abt their marital life?????accepting ki baat hi door hai!!

Even in "Good gesture" it doesn't fit in his personality as of now.

After that durga tandav such question didn't arise in front of him.

& rest I have replied previously.

& I don't find anything what he has done 4 her from the heart nt just as duty or gentleman!!

Black:He will never either, bcoz of 2 reasons, 1)His mom won't allow it & 2) antara wrote in chit that he would hv to remarry, & that's why after reception party, he told his mom that it's upto guddan whether she wants to continue as just being saas & bahus or nt ... He needed namesake wife!! ( i know well he was in big thought when his mom asked him abt accepting guddan as wife bt later covered it up!!

if he wanted he could have simply answered the bahus with the same reason i.e. dadi & antra & shunted them & put all in rest but he couldn't cause he was in confusion of, is it really so ?

Then he tried to avoid Dadi's question & only answered after a long pause says, reality is opposite of his words

Agree, I'm nt denying it bt he is letting his family to Que guddan abt their relation& bcoz of this only, durga went so far &called guddan "dusri Aurat" bcoz she has said openly if Aj doesn't consider her as wife, why should she Accept her as saas???? & it's indirect insult to any lady!! (i know then aj asked her to respect their saas...she is their saas & ...bt as usual he never stop anyone from Que guddan abt their relation & leads to same scenario)

It's Valentine party, nt any normal function... You're hosting it in your late wife's memories & you're even mentioning it when you're present wife is just besides u,& Doesn't sound it embarrassing????????Does't it awkward 4 her?????In front of all!!😲

Valentine day party tradition was started by his late wife & all these years he held it as a tribute & he can't stop suddenly within months after marriage. That will need time.

The host had already introduced Guddu well, saying, "this year party is special as as Mr. Akshat Jindal is attending it with his wife Mrs. Guddan Jindal & will welcome all guests with a shaandar dance performance" & next Akshan performed together i.e. an official introduction to her. Guddu got her share of respect there & then AJ was just narrating the history of the party on why it is held. He held the mike to tell everyone about the party & inform new people who don't know about it & he immediately stopped after looking at her & concluded by telling everyone to enjoy the party. If he didn't care about her, he would have continued.

Sry, bt i find it as just a random excuse to cover it up, it's nt rational!! Since all those years, whatever he did, it doesn't matter bcoz He is married nw & He could hv said something else in welcoming...not necessary to mention late wife!! Yes, at last he saw her uncomfortness & stopped bcoz he is gentleman & can't hurt anyone as I hv already said!!

Originally posted by: rs-shailu29

[QUOTE=dattu21]

I hv mentioned "gift" as just a good gesture, nt love symbol!! I meant he has been doing it all bcoz he doesn't want to see guddu hurt or sad & so as a duty, he does it at all!!

Even for name sake, neither he can say she is his wife nor able to stop anyone questioning abt their marital life?????accepting ki baat hi door hai!!

He will never either, bcoz of 2 reasons, 1)His mom won't allow it & 2) antara wrote in chit that he would hv to remarry, & that's why after reception party, he told his mom that it's upto guddan whether she wants to continue as just being saas & bahus or nt ... He needed namesake wife!! ( i know well he was in big thought when his mom asked him abt accepting guddan as wife bt later covered it up!!)

It's Valentine party, nt any normal function... You're hosting it in your late wife's memories & you're even mentioning it when you're present wife is just besides u,& Doesn't sound it embarrassing????????Does't it awkward 4 her?????In front of all!!😲

@red

well said👏 I really want cvs to clear it to audience why guddan is holding to to aj when both don't acknowledge it

I had the same que at that valentine day when Guddu accepted him as her hubby openly & said, she is proud of sharing her name with him... I was like why she is accepting when she knows well which kinds of wife he wants...is she ready to compromise just as namesake wife of who even doesn't consider or call u openly as his wife??????why??????

Originally posted by: rs-shailu29

Sorry but I laugh at few statements of ppl who time after time says guddan should learn from aj .
Seriously ppl

i too think she should learn from aj & she can take aj help also but not always.

in few matters like cooking , villans ka band kaise bajana hai😆 .how to handle the situation calmly &smartly ,less clumsy , less stubborn , how to manage the things properly etc.

Cv's should stop giving big dialogues to guddan when they want her doing nothing the next day

all Fl of itv doing the same .in the end all fls are mahan.how can we expect something different.

The way guddan is written is pretty confusing
Dialogues of hers pump up our expectations

all the characters are pretty confusing.before marraige aj was a khaddos & stone hearted person , lakshami was a greedy , but now saru is greedy & aj is the most sensible character in the show.

Before marriage there was no confusion
Because she was gupta
She face masked aj with cake and warned him for not showing off his money power and insulting her parents

I loved that scene😆 but do you really think its was a right method to cope up with aj.its a huge insult & its not right thing.she can cope with aj verbally ofcourse she was fireband guddan in that scene & but at the same time its a very immature act.

After marriage many times aj taunted her marrying him for money she gave him back answer

golddigger tag was a guddan 's fault.

but when durga insulted her she just stayed calm and was walking out of the house the next moment we thought she will move on in her life but cvs brought her back with some comical touch and unwanted party track with bakwas mask party
well i agree should give answer to her back.but i think family is a strength of guddan but at the same time its also a weakest point of guddan.before marraige she never gave back answer to kaushalaya bcoz she give importance as her mother.

& now durga vo usse apni family manti.u can say that durga ko badi behen ka darja diya hai usne.so aaj tak kaushalya ko kuch nahi bola then how can she give back answer to durga.
Luckily aj got to know the truth otherwise her tagbeing goldigger would have stayed for ever ...

agree

There they made her looked like an idiot and stubborn not to leave the house even we can say shameless .

ofcouse what she did you can say its a stubborn act.i think guddan ko strong reason ke saath ana chaiye tuat not bcoz of sadesaati😆.without proving herself she should not go outside the house.but at time she should not bear taunts of durga.but i can't expect answer from guddan.
Then somehow aj came and allowed her stay back with chindi track were they showed guddan again challenging aj she will pay him back.

it was a just excuse for stopping guddan.even aj also gave the hint it just an excuse but guddan samajh nahi payi😆


Then came kichdi competition she learned to prepare it with revti help but Durga played a game we thought she lost it when she could have prepared and lost the race .

agree

But we saw her again taking help from aj signing the kite of 20 percent bakwas drama ..
Aj won the prize but she boasted that she won and aj took it lightly but he taunted later when he was in giant wheel
it was also a guddan's fault.again & again she was speaking maine aapko galat sabit kar diya aj bichara kya karta😆.any normal human do the same
When she said in that laminated kite scene she claimed she will somehow pay his money and walk out
We thought this will be interesting she achieve something.

i thought too😳
But what we got republic day track she saving bahu's we were proud she is shown strong

ofcouse she is strong especially in villan matters😆

But after that again bakwas she claiming proud of being a saas and bahu and bakwas track of kalash and redoing rituals after 3 months of marriage.

so if she redoing this .what is wrong in that.now she entered as a saas & a confient & responsible girl.every rituals has its own importance.well even i want same rituals again but with akshan remaraige when they will both accept each other whole heartedly with

chatakdhar lehenga

sangeet

& guddan's dream sujagraat😉😆

Then she said to aj I won't pay u back the money I am ur wife ...
yaar she is legally wedded wife.kyun de paise.isse acha she can make capable herself as a good saas & wife & responsible girl also.after that she can pursue her dreams.
In Christmas track her dad got insulted she walking with him boosted up our expectations
She will do something to make bahu's repent
But what she did she took help from aj to be a Santa and gifts there to comical touch lying to family and patching up the family that was ok in that track kaushalya was far better than what guddan was.

well ok kaushalya atleast spoke for her husband.but i think aj was enough to speak in the party.in that situation she was just trying to handle her father but yes after knowing the truth that she should did something for teachin the lesson to durga.

What all big promises she did she never did instead cvs showed her completely a dumb character just leaning on Superman aj

guddan is also a wonder woman.bomb blast scene & bahus ko bachana yaad hai😆

Come on every humans have there amount of strengths and weakness

A firebrand like guddan is shown meek in front of Durga is illogical and fake .

if she can't give answer to kaushalaya then how can she give answer to durga.family is a strong &weak point of guddan.

When guddan can handle rawat pointing a gun at him
Slapping and holding collar at perv

Cake mask on aj
Guddan can give it back to durga harsly .
agree but she can't do

badi behen manti hai durga ko
She sober on bahu's are illogical
She acts like bahu rather than a saas
If at all she is shown strict they show it as comedy

she is just 21 yers old girl.give some time.now lots of changes have come in guddan character
Nonsense.
Why they have to add comedy in every thing.

bcoz its also a comedy show according to kanika ivs.
This week we saw her yelling at aj that he is kadoos and in jail for murdering antara

Is comedy needed there first of all that scene was not needed the next moment we see her crying for aj and his safety
hmmm
Cvs should stop mixing comedy in serious tracks

she is guddan.serious situation ko comical banana its her nature


Well this is my POV the way guddan is written is confusing to audiences so we expect something from her.

most of the character are sometimes confusing

But not anymore from now on her big dialogues will be taken lightly when cvs wants her to be dumb character.

but in some situations cvs show her like mature , sensible & breave girl not compeletely dumb.

Originally posted by: dattu21