Originally posted by: Chit15
It's not about nayi soch or purani soch. It's all about how you handle your relationship in this world.
If we see there is compromise and adjustment in every relation.Do we all share same viewpoint when 2 people are involved no ofcourse not but still we care about that relation.
We have argument and disagreement on many things with our parents or siblings so do we walk out of relationship ofcourse not
Marriage is most critical relationship of our life where 2strangers and 2 families are involved.When you get married it is either love marriage or arrange marriage from first day you get to know the person more closely and how both handle difficult situations.
In real life when we work or at house both (parents home and inlaws ) there are people who always speak negative about us but we still live with set of people for sake of our loved ones.
Akshan marriage started with hate, misunderstanding but as they started their journey on daily basis they got know each other more closely on basis of experience they both left hatred and started respecting each other and giving importance to their relationship.
And AJ never disrespected her or hurt so there is no major reason for Guddan to walk out from this relationship
And who the hell is Devil bahu to decide whether Guddan is good for AJ or not.Her opinion is nil if both Miyan biwi are ready to be in relationship because they are investing their emotions feelings in this relationship and no one else.
I completely agree with you & also like to quote this very sahi baat -RD- said :-
i think soch purani ho ya nayi it shud just be sahi 😆 ie it shud make u feel happy and keep the things that matter and are imp to u in place!
@Red Not only that, he has gone out of his way & principals for her sake & thats something very big for someone like him. He has apologized for a mistake, which he didn't commit but was an indirect result of her decision.
He has bowed down & beared the stains on his reputation & his dear restaurant that he built through out the years.
Both have been equals in their contributions, if Guddu has beared humiliation, he did the same.
& both of these were results of bahu's acts with no fault of Akshan.
If Durga physically abused Guddu by pinching her hand & poking her nails, AJ has willingly taken beatings from Dutta's goons to keep Guddu safe.
AJ & Guddu are 2 distinct personalities & both can't be expected to act same. Guddu is very expressive about her emotions while AJ keeps it hidden.
Just because, he isn't expressing much, it doesn't mean he isn't feeling anything.
He can't express like Guddu as that will be out of his character.
Contributions in a marriage can't be measured by tit-for-tat one receives but by the extent one is ready to go for another.
& it doesn't make any sense for Guddu to leave AJ for all the kands Durga & bahus do as in all these, AJ always stood by her.
& Since both Akshan are willing to continue with this, aur koi sawal paida hi nehi hota !
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