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captainplus

@captainplus

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Posted: 6 years ago

Nope i am not leaving the forum. I am not Sreeshant from BB12 to say

*knock...knock...* "Bigg Boss... Bigg Boss... darwaza kholo ! darwaza kholo Bigg Boss ...Bigg Boss darwaza kholo mereko ghar jana hai ! mereko ghar jana hai... nahin rehna hai yaha..." *knock...knock...knock...*

If i intent to leave i would leave silently without any drama & making so much noise 😆.

This is post is for people here who admire my views reading them silently & genuinely appreciate my efforts when i create any post. Love you guys 🤗

But recently there have been some very distasteful accusations on me & i feel i owe to explain & clear my side from these for them. As i know many silent members & forum visitors do check out debates.

Accusations are,

-----> i underestimate Guddu's strength

-----> i am calling her useless without AJ

-----> i don't know what women are capable of

-----> i am underestimating womanhood

-----> my thinking is, women are meant to be bound with men

In my defence this is my point of view,

Guddu is born with what every human is born with. She has immense strength within her & a brain to think for its own but she lacks basic guidance that a child receives since birth till the point when they become capable of taking their own decision. Guddu is clueless on which direction she should project her energy & with what intensity ? Someone needs to direct & guide her here. Maybe she isn't able to understand the language in which life is giving her lessons & she needs a experienced translator.

I would say she is a fully capable warrior who is clueless on when to use which weapon.

I am saying she lacks direction but am i underestimating Guddu's strength ?

You don't throw away a baby in a river & expect it to learn swimming it will need an instructor's help. (Baby can float in water is only a myth please don't try that practically)

Then you don't leave a kid in jungle before he has developed the ability to make wise decisions & let him all on his own expecting,"mera beta engineer banega..."

---->according to me not possible.

Please note I am using the term "Guidance" here & i am writing this with reference to this meaning :- advice or information aimed at resolving a problem or difficulty, especially as given by someone in authority.

I don't mean this as, to keep pulling someone along a path.

Now if i want AJ to become a guide for her & make her understand not to take big decision in haste or while being impulsive. If i want AJ to direct her how to take wise decisions & advice her whenever she stumbles. He doesn't have to take decision for her but direct her in making the right one whenever required.

I want AJ to become what Lord Krishna was to Arjun in Kurukshetra. Krishna might have given him advice but final decision & action was always Arjun's.

Though he seeked Krishna's advice but did this reduce his merit in anyway ?

Was he useless as an individual without Krishna ?

I want AJ to guide Guddu like Acharya Chanakya did to Chandragupta Maurya. He taught him how to make wise decision & guided him to become an ideal king of such a huge nation from no one. CGM used to take all decision of the kingdom on his own after becoming the king but used to seek his guidance whenever he faced any dilemma.

But did this make CGM useless without Chanakya ? Chanakya chose him as his shisya after seeing his capabilities. He had something in him that made Chanakya decide that he would guide him to become the king of "Akhanda Bharat" .

Both Arjun & CGM have made their individual identities apart from being their Guru's shisya only.

So if AJ guides Guddu, will her strength reduce ? if she builds her identity by walking on the path AJ has shown her, will she be useless without him ?

Similarly i want to see Guddu breaking AJ's wall & guiding him towards life. I want to see her teaching him how to live every moment of life to the fullest. I want him to learn from her that "happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light" [Albus Dumbledore, Harry Potter & Prisoner of Azkaban by J.K Rowling]

I want to witness the journey of Guddu's development from a good for nothing to someone successful while having AJ as her companion & guide in her journey

& journey of AJ to learn to live again with Guddu's guidance & companionship.

A journey of gradual development of emotions for one another. A journey of gradual change in their relationship dynamics from complete strangers with distinct personalities to finally to husband-wife who are each other's strength & complete each other.

I have expressed this strongly that I don't want AJ to fall for her only after she has become someone very successful. Why does it has to be after her journey towards success is completed ?

I want to see Akshan's love for each other to develop throughout this journey. [this is my view]

But does the above view in any way indicate that, i don't know what women are capable of ?

Is the above view of mine an indication that i am underestimating womanhood in any way ?

From the above view, can it be concluded that my thinking is, women are meant to be bound with men ?

I believe in equality. God has made both man & woman as equals to balance each other out.

& Man or Woman, whoever has reached success, are there cause, atleast somewhere or in some point of their life they received guidance weather its from their family member or teacher or someone influential.

But did receiving any form of guidance can take away their own merit ? or make them weak ? According to me, NO.

Please note :- I didn't make this post to force my views down everyone's throat nor did i make this to gather support for any election campaign but only as an attempt to clear the accusations on me & my thoughts, which i feel are baseless.That is, come out "Ba Izzat Bari" from all the "Arop".

These are my thoughts and no one is obliged to agree with those !

But I do have rights to explain myself on accusations weather you accept it or not.

Seedhi baat mera views hai ! lena hai toh lo, warna kat lo ! 👍🏼

Thank you to all who have taken the patience to read this full 🤗

Edited by captainplus - 6 years ago

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elsanna

@elsanna

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Posted: 6 years ago

What you said is right👏...why do I always feel clueless in these kinds of post...I mean I don't even know who accused you!!!

Maybe I should be more active🤪

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nish_vir

@nish_vir

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Posted: 6 years ago

Beautifully written

Dumbledore ka light wala dialogue was fab😉

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Mamta Singh

@Piku_S

Alumni

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Posted: 6 years ago

very well said Captain n beautifully written 👏👏👏

I agree with u

A wife can become her husband's strength n gudiance for him to make him become a successful person in their career. But what's wrong if a successful husband helps n becomes the pillar of her strength in showing her the right direction in her life or helping her choose the right career.

It doesn't mean a wife is weak but they need the proper GPs of their husband, making the final stop will be her decision.

Find me guy ^ like that 😆

In Epsiode 2 when Guddan broken down the first time seeing her mums wall picture with mistake chit, she knows n realizes well that she is incomplete without proper Gudiance of her mum. She has her tools but she needs a teacher to teach her how to properly use n guide her tools.

I always wanted Akshat Jindal to become his wife's Guddan Akshat Jindals pillar of strength n Guidance to take her life n what directions she wants to head. By talking n being with AJ I want her to start thinking before making or taking a decision n speaking. Before taking or speaking AJ always analyzes his actions from both sides he thinks of pro n cons n what the consequences will be, n how n who will his action

Affect.

When he broke the engagement n wedding! AJ told Guddan you don't think before taking a step n one of his irritation was that she is careless with her life, n doesn't know where it's heading.

Akshat Jindal nGuddan Jindal both know Guddan is not Kamzor or weak, in time of need she is fierce warrior, she won't step down, she will fight with her danda n hockey stick, n slap with hand or slap her future husband with cake.

Even during the Pink Naraaz uncle Kand, AJ told him before entering any person house remember that they are today woman who know how to handle themselves( hinting self defense, remembering Guddan slapping Perv)

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captainplus

@captainplus

Sparkler

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: elsanna
What you said is right👏...why do I always feel clueless in these kinds of post...I mean I don't even know who accused you!!!
Maybe I should be more active🤪

tu bohot cute hai 😛

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captainplus

@captainplus

Sparkler

+ 5

Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: nish_vir
Beautifully written
Dumbledore ka light wala dialogue was fab😉

Harry Potter series in my favorite

Dumbledore & entire Harry Potter series gave me a lot of useful life lessons

When i was use to be left alone in hall alone as my parents & family used to live in another country when all my friends used to go home whenever there used to be week long break or during political unrest when classes used to be off, I used to get very depressed as i had never lived away from my mom before getting admitted in uni.

At that time even if i had access to high speed internet as hall used to be almost empty, only Harry Potter series could provide me solace.

From it I learned how to fight depressions by recalling the happiest memories of life. *Expectro Petronum* ⭐️

& many more things that i can apply in my life. 😳

Whereas from 10 years of school i learned these :-

(a+b)^2 = a^2 + 2ab + b^2

(a-b)^2 = a^2 -2ab + b^2

& i still fail to figure out where to use this if you are not a math teacher 🤓

*sorry* i know i wrote a lot of bakwas 😆 but what to do a "potterhead" inside me can't help me from sharing about my attachment for the series

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captainplus

@captainplus

Sparkler

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: *Piku*
very well said Captain n beautifully written 👏👏👏
I agree with u
A wife can become her husband's strength n gudiance for him to make him become a successful person in their career. But what's wrong if a successful husband helps n becomes the pillar of her strength in showing her the right direction in her life or helping her choose the right career.
It doesn't mean a wife is weak but they need the proper GPs of their husband, making the final stop will be her decision.
Find me guy ^ like that 😆

In Epsiode 2 when Guddan broken down the first time seeing her mums wall picture with mistake chit, she knows n realizes well that she is incomplete without proper Gudiance of her mum. She has her tools but she needs a teacher to teach her how to properly use n guide her tools.

I always wanted Akshat Jindal to become his wife's Guddan Akshat Jindals pillar of strength n Guidance to take her life n what directions she wants to head. By talking n being with AJ I want her to start thinking before making or taking a decision n speaking. Before taking or speaking AJ always analyzes his actions from both sides he thinks of pro n cons n what the consequences will be, n how n who will his action
Affect.

When he broke the engagement n wedding! AJ told Guddan you don't think before taking a step n one of his irritation was that she is careless with her life, n doesn't know where it's heading.

Akshat Jindal nGuddan Jindal both know Guddan is not Kamzor or weak, in time of need she is fierce warrior, she won't step down, she will fight with her danda n hockey stick, n slap with hand or slap her future husband with cake.
Even during the Pink Naraaz uncle Kand, AJ told him before entering any person house remember that they are today woman who know how to handle themselves( hinting self defense, remembering Guddan slapping Perv)

Hi a big big 🤗 understanding & putting it in your words so beautifully 😳

@Bold for me too 😉

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@JustRandomGirl

Stunner

+ 30

Posted: 6 years ago

I love your posts! They r unique and hilarious, and also spot on. Lol Sreesanth from Bigg Boss 😆. From Bigg Boss, I wanted to say Durga Bahu acts like she is Dipika Jii but she turns out to be Surbhi Rana 😆

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Secretfollower

@Secretfollower

Navigator

Posted: 6 years ago

Shreesanth 😆...knock knock

Harry potter is also favourite series whenever they sow in tv,i definately watch that on tv don't remember how many times🤓😆

yes both men and women are equally

For me there is nothing between akshan

"manhood" and " womanhood"

I feel dono ek dusre ko guide karenge.

Guddan will guide to aj to come out of guilt from antara's death and lives his life again with the happiness and cheerfull

Akshat will guide to guddan from her mistakes guilt and he will proved also to others "guddan se sab ho payega"

but after "thodi si maturity and thodi si perfectionist"ke saath😛

Both will become each other support

I dont know about much more marraige relations but i always see to my parents from the childhood

Both r each other support and guide in their difficulties

Beacause in real couples r always "poorak" to each other thats why both husband and Wife r incompelete without each other

Baki I have no " observation" power like u😆 And others also

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Summerlight

@Summerlight

Explorer

Posted: 6 years ago

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Originally posted by: Secretfollower
Shreesanth
😆...knock knock
Harry potter is also favourite series whenever they sow in tv,i definately watch that on tv don't remember how many times🤓😆

yes both men and women are equally

For me there is nothing between akshan
"manhood" and " womanhood"

I feel dono ek dusre ko guide karenge.

Guddan will guide to aj to come out of guilt from antara's death and lives his life again with the happiness and cheerfull

Akshat will guide to guddan from her mistakes guilt and he will proved also to others "guddan se sab ho payega"
but after "thodi si maturity and thodi si perfectionist"ke saath😛

Both will become each other support
I dont know about much more marraige relations but i always see to my parents from the childhood

Both r each other support and guide in their difficulties

Beacause in real couples r always "poorak" to each other thats why both husband and Wife r incompelete without each other

Baki I have no " observation" power like u😆And others also

I second you

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