Reason for aj saying things !!!

Hello ppl
We all are disappointed about aj not appreciating guddan instead he saying things which hurts her the most .

Guddan dad gave outlook of guddan character.
Aj knows now that if he becomes her friend she will listen to him
But the thing is he is angry because she is not realizing because of her things were bad.
She never realize that she did mess up big time .
Aj wants her to realize that she should think before doing things he want to see a matured guddan .

Why aj not trying to be friendly with guddan because he doesn't want to be close to her reason is antara
He fears if he gets close to guddan she might fall for him or he might .
Basically he wants to draw a line between them .
He wants a namesake rishta but wants her to take responsibility of the house as a namesake wife .
Basically he wants her as matured as him he just wants her to be a robot like him .

But guddan is a guddan she is what she is .
In this process she might change him instead of she changing herself 😆

Agree completely Chalo koi to hai who can understand simple hings

Such a sensible post.

i agree

Originally posted by: captainplus

i agree

but AJ needs to realize that, Guddu reflects whatever is thrown at her.

If you give her love she will return it

If you show attitude she will give it back

& somehow with his saand like attitude he ends up challenging her

But AJ can't be blamed too as i guess since Antra's demise he hasn't been sweet or tried to be friendly with anyone except for his mom.

Since Antra's demise, he has built a wall around him & the only human emotions he has expressed outside is Anger.

I don't think he has made any new friend since her death.

& he thought his intimidating nature which works on the bahus & rest of the world would work on her too.

But its backfiring.

+ suddenly after many years it would be tough for him to be friendly with anyone let alone someone like Guddu whose every antics annoys him.

& yes instead of him changing her, she will end up making him a "Rangeela"

I agree with you

Originally posted by: *Piku*

I agree with you

The main reason for AJ for choosing Guddan was because he knew he can't fall in love with her.

He is being Mr. Grumpy towards her to keep her away.

After he realizes that Guddan doesn't want to take Anatras place but create space next to her in his heart.

• He has fear of falling in love,
• letting go of the Hadsa that had happened with Anatra
• The fear of losing Guddan due to rejection( age difference, Uncle annoys him)
• fearing that she will not love him back

At the end both Akshan will end up changing each other,

Guddan will be more alert of people's nature that not all are innocent& friendly but they are cunning, backstabber with smile face, she will learn about the consequence of the action & raction but at the end Guddan will be Guddan with her Atrangni ideas, creativity.

AJ will be the one that will be more changed he will be a combination of Mr. Aashiq & Mr. Rangeela but he will still have the strict nature, strong instinct of judging people similar to Kokila Modi.

Originally posted by: rs-shailu29

aj realizes her reaction but he wants to draw the line so that he will not fall for her ...

he just wants her to grow up he thinks with his taunts she would but he knows its backfiring ...

he is frustrated because of her antics😆

@bold

wahi tho problem hai ...wall has to be broken and guddan we will be the one ...

i don't think rangeela but a smily happy person who talks normally like he does to dadi/polony aunty(antara friend )

he won't realize it now but when he is verge of losing guddan he would probably ...

guddan will change when she falls in love with aj womanhood in her will make her matured ...

till then tom jerry comedy show between them😆

Originally posted by: captainplus

By "rangeela" i didn't mean a male version of Guddu 😆

i meant his old self as dadi mentioned once he was a very fun loving person before