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When did Virat abuse pakhi except one time. Before that if he was angry with pakhi he make her eat and told her everything in mild language and left. Nothing more ever. Infect we can see pakhi abusing Virat in her anger multiple times.

With Sai when he didn’t abuse her. It was always Sai who had to submit to Virat.

This time also he pushed her by mistake. And after leap Pakhi always knows that Virat loves Sai but she emotional blackmailed him and made him feel guilty for her uterus removal that he have to took pheras with her and took her for honeymoon. Which sane woman do that. There also she knows that Virat loves Sai but she wanted to have Virat even if Virat don’t love her.

So no one is sane between them. They both are guilty of Sai and only Sai. And top of it they both don’t have realised it. And Ashwini is like Pakhi did so much for family so what Pakhi was not guilty of family she was guilty of Sai. She didn’t did anything to make things better for Sai infect she ruined Sai-Vinu relationship and people have sympathy for her because of an unintentional push and making her abuse victim.

Originally posted by: Snowdrrop

When did Virat abuse pakhi except one time. Before that if he was angry with pakhi he make her eat and told her everything in mild language and left. Nothing more ever. Infect we can see pakhi abusing Virat in her anger multiple times.

With Sai when he didn’t abuse her. It was always Sai who had to submit to Virat.

This time also he pushed her by mistake. And after leap Pakhi always knows that Virat loves Sai but she emotional blackmailed him and made him feel guilty for her uterus removal that he have to took pheras with her and took her for honeymoon. Which sane woman do that. There also she knows that Virat loves Sai but she wanted to have Virat even if Virat don’t love her.

So no one is sane between them. They both are guilty of Sai and only Sai. And top of it they both don’t have realised it. And Ashwini is like Pakhi did so much for family so what Pakhi was not guilty of family she was guilty of Sai. She didn’t did anything to make things better for Sai infect she ruined Sai-Vinu relationship and people have sympathy for her because of an unintentional push and making her abuse victim.

Even once is one too many. He has been gaslighting her and emotionally abusing her ever since the leap and even before that.

Originally posted by: Snowdrrop

When did Virat abuse pakhi except one time. Before that if he was angry with pakhi he make her eat and told her everything in mild language and left. Nothing more ever. Infect we can see pakhi abusing Virat in her anger multiple times.

With Sai when he didn’t abuse her. It was always Sai who had to submit to Virat.

This time also he pushed her by mistake. And after leap Pakhi always knows that Virat loves Sai but she emotional blackmailed him and made him feel guilty for her uterus removal that he have to took pheras with her and took her for honeymoon. Which sane woman do that. There also she knows that Virat loves Sai but she wanted to have Virat even if Virat don’t love her.

So no one is sane between them. They both are guilty of Sai and only Sai. And top of it they both don’t have realised it. And Ashwini is like Pakhi did so much for family so what Pakhi was not guilty of family she was guilty of Sai. She didn’t did anything to make things better for Sai infect she ruined Sai-Vinu relationship and people have sympathy for her because of an unintentional push and making her abuse victim.

You do realise we are not saying Virat abused Pakhi.. we are saying Pakhi doesn’t deserve Sai kind of abuse just because she is how she is. And honestly, if parading another woman in front you while you’re still married, confessing love publicly to another woman while you’re still married and treating you as the third person while you’re still married is not cruelty, I don’t know what is (Also, if you have noticed, Virat did all of the above with Sai and he’s doing with Pakhi. The man is crazy)

And honestly, he’s not a child. He consciously stayed in Pakhi’s company before her surgery. Pakhi is evil. Period. Virat is just not one of her victims. One reaps what one sows.

Originally posted by: KaalaCoat

Okay…if Virat physically dragging and hurting Sai is wrong, then Patralekha getting a harsher treatment is also equally wrong. Abuse is not relative. No one deserves to be abused in a domestic set up. No matter how much of a villain one is.

My quote was just an observation I made. Its not to say Virat should drag Pakhi or hurt her because she is a villain.

This will go in a loop if I try to explain further.

Originally posted by: pratyay

My quote was just an observation I made. Its not to say Virat should drag Pakhi or hurt her because she is a villain.

This will go in a loop if I try to explain further.

Nah… I get it. Seeing Pakhi go scot free is very very very frustrating. I remember wanting pull my hair out in the early days of SaiRat marriage. And somewhere, I still wish she gets the consequences of what she’s done. But then I remember it would mean Virat going blameless and my blood boils. Ghum Nasha is dangerous

You don't know Savi Vinu shouldn't have step father but they can have mumma & badi aayi 😳

Bottomline is both Pakhi and Virat are Sai's abusers and should face karma for their actions.

Pakhi willingly plotted against an 18 year old girl to break her marriage, steal her pati & Sai's only chance of motherhood! So she's facing her karma now by having her marriage broken with a pati that could never be fully hers. She faces karma for surrogacy by losing her womb. Hoping in the future Vinu also stops loving her as a mom!

Virat will finally see how it feels when someone you love marry another person. He did this to Pakhi first then Sai after leap, openly declaring P as patni and doing everything as a pati! He also needs to lose his job for all the misuse of power & abuse. He also need to have a kid taken away from him and abandoned by the entire family!

Both are and will be the culprits who tortured Sai cuz they couldn't figure out what the heck they 'felt' in that two day yoga retreat!

Originally posted by: Deltablues

Even once is one too many. He has been gaslighting her and emotionally abusing her ever since the leap and even before that.

Originally posted by: Snowdrrop

After leap only Virat was not gaslighting her she was also doing the same. She was alright till then Savi’s revelation because she thought that Sai had child with someone else so they will not reunite. After that she was emotional blackmailing him for give her wife status or his body. We all know how she behaved at Savi’s homecoming. How she told Sai to leave Nagpur with Savi in café.How after accident she emotional blackmail Virat for phera and honeymoon. How she manipulate Vinu against Sai whose culprit she was,is. She didn’t have any shame in doing all that. She snatched from Sai but is so shameless. So only Virat didn’t lead her on.she herself knew very well that Virat loves Sai but made him do every thing. Made him feel guilty for everything. And that push was unintentional before that she slapped Virat when he is asking for divorce that was also domestic abuse but no one call out that. But yaah she is a mother a wife who didn’t want to loose her child her husband but is very well ok if Sai loose her son or Virat loose her daughter.

Bhaad mein jaaye love. People love celebs too. Doesn't give you a right to emotionally cheat and gaslight your wife

This is the exact same excuses that he used to make to cheat on and gaslight Sai too.

Meri sabse pyaari cheez, mera sabse pyaara rishta, sacchi dost blah blah blah.

If I concede that Pakhi has been abusive, you will concede that Virat has been abusive to her too and abusing Pakhi is wrong too?

What you're doing is excusing and justifying Virat's abusive behaviour by drawing false equivalencies

Originally posted by: Clois_semperanc

Bottomline is both Pakhi and Virat are Sai's abusers and should face karma for their actions.

Pakhi willingly plotted against an 18 year old girl to break her marriage, steal her pati & Sai's only chance of motherhood! So she's facing her karma now by having her marriage broken with a pati that could never be fully hers. She faces karma for surrogacy by losing her womb. Hoping in the future Vinu also stops loving her as a mom!

Virat will finally see how it feels when someone you love marry another person. He did this to Pakhi first then Sai after leap, openly declaring P as patni and doing everything as a pati! He also needs to lose his job for all the misuse of power & abuse. He also need to have a kid taken away from him and abandoned by the entire family!

Both are and will be the culprits who tortured Sai cuz they couldn't figure out what the heck they 'felt' in that two day yoga retreat!

Spousal abuse is not karma. We have laws in this country.