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Posted: 2 years ago
#21

Thank you so much. Actually I don't hate any of the characters of this show, not even Patralekha. 😄 I actually don't watch the show keeping in mind that a certain character is always bad and I should always look at his/her character with negative lens that's why I enjoy watching lot of the episodes. 😁

I loved your analysis. It's beautiful and logical. Sai today surely reminded me of the deal marriage phase wali Sai who always chose her self respect over everything. She didn't wanted to reject Virat's proposal for Patralekha but for herself. She didn't wanted to be the reason behind breaking of a marriage. As you said Virat's timing was terribly wrong. If he had officially divorced Pakhi then Sai may have thought of giving him another chance but if she accepts his proposal now it will definitely look like she said yes to a married man and became the reason for his divorce even though that's not the truth. I guess this is the first time Virat chose love over duty. Preleap Sai was his wife who was his duty first and then became his love so basically he didn't had to choose between love and duty at all but this time he indeed had to. He should have been little more patient and divorced Pakhi before proposing to Sai but then they have to show some reason behind Sai rejecting him and marrying Satya na. 😆

Your take that Savi is turning into some kind of a spoilt brat with money and gadgets given to her on a platter makes sense but still I feel sorry for her. This little girl's family was broken even before she was born. She did get some happiness living with her Baba and Vinu Dada for few days but again she has to bear the repercussions of the mistakes her Baba committed in the past.

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Posted: 2 years ago
#22

Yes but Sai s decision is also stupid.

Noone does like this without knowing about Satya s family and not telling them the truth about the logistics of the marriage..

She could have taken Savi and gone for a holiday, by then Virat would have met P and got blackmailed and gone back to his previous stance.

Or she could have calmly spoken to Virat and advised him .

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Posted: 2 years ago
#23

Originally posted by: Rosyme

Yes but Sai s decision is also stupid.

Noone does like this without knowing about Satya s family and not telling them the truth about the logistics of the marriage..

She could have taken Savi and gone for a holiday, by then Virat would have met P and got blackmailed and gone back to his previous stance.

Or she could have calmly spoken to Virat and advised him .

We still don't know why she's agreeing na. It could be possible that Satya's family ke ladies request both of them to marry each other. Sai can still refuse but then tab tak maybe Patralekha will do another kaand in front of her lol. There are definitely going to be multiple reasons behind this kathin faisla of Sai.

I completely agree, Sai and Savi deserve a long holiday to chill out. 😎 😃

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Posted: 2 years ago
#24

Originally posted by: Life_Is_Dutiful

We still don't know why she's agreeing na. It could be possible that Satya's family ke ladies request both of them to marry each other. Sai can still refuse but then tab tak maybe Patralekha will do another kaand in front of her lol. There are definitely going to be multiple reasons behind this kathin faisla of Sai.

I completely agree, Sai and Savi deserve a long holiday to chill out. 😎 😃

Maybe Amba will also attempt suicide to blackmail her son. Everyone wants to blackmail in the same 24 hrs. Funny.

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Posted: 2 years ago
#25

Lovely review.

As somebody mentioned in other review, All the four characters are still being affected by their past.


Satya has a terrible past which he isn't able to let go, but trying to do something for his family's happiness.

Sai has made peace with her past long ago but she finally accepted that despite her efforts her son doesn't consider her as family and he isn't going to accept her as mother..It's really a good decision for her to step back because she can only achieve what she yearns for by not actively seeking.


I am not surprised that she has forgiven Virat..She is a kind woman and when she forgave jagtap,it isn't hard to believe she could forgive Virat.


Virat is truly prisoner of the past like Pakhi..Because of his mistakes, he is not able to get what he wants..Had he disclosed Vinu's truth properly to Sai and make her understand the dynamics, things would've been different..Rather he chose to protect Pakhi and now he is facing the consequences.


Pakhi though missing today,is the longest prisoner of the past with her love...She isn't able to see the truth which was always before her eyes.


This marriage will be eye opener for all of them and through the heartbreak they will reach their final destination

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Posted: 2 years ago
#26

Without 24 hr ultimatum, Saiya marriage can happen. Sai moves out with Savi. Virat is after her like an obsessed lover. Sai doesn't have answers for Savi's questions. Sai misses Vinu. She is emotionally drained and Satya helps her through this phase as a friend. At some point, they can bring this Satya's family pressurizing him to marry and Saiya agree as they feel they can live together as family, partners minus romantic feelings.


This 24 hrs thing is stupid to the core.

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Posted: 2 years ago
#27

He wanted to tell Sai but correct at that time P lost her uterus and Virat felt bad.

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Team SaiRat

Posted: 2 years ago
#28

Virat chose duty over love at the wrong time. I can understand him fulfilling the duty of a husband by protecting Pakhi but he made Sai suffer due to his farz in the entire Vinu track post Pakhi's kokh removal. Hiding Vinu's truth from Sai, misguiding her, creating obstacles in her path to find the truth and to some extent even misusing his power were all of his wrong deeds and this marriage will be his karma for all that. All he should have done was tell Sai the truth and then make some arrangements so that Vinu can stay with both the families. Now when he chose his love again the timing is wrong. He should have finished the chapter of Pakhi before starting to write a new book with Sai lol.

Pakhi is a character that I am not been able to understand since day 1 lol.

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Posted: 2 years ago
#29

The one thing I disagree with is that V had genuine repentance. He wants Sai but on HIS terms. The fact that he wants to pretend like nothing happened or just gloss over the past without addressing it shows that he hasn't learned any lessons AGAIN. His impatience and impulsiveness- again unchanged. What he wants should happen, everyone should believe he never meant any harm and how he is good at heart and just accept it. Sai, Vinu, P everyone should happily go along. Sai's bitter memories dont matter- she should forget it. He himself called p his mahaan bff and partner who supported him but he didn't even do her the minimum courtesy of first talking to her and giving her closure before confessing to Sai. He claims he loves Vinu but not one thought spared to prepare the child mentally for any changed dynamics. Not one effort put in to make Vinu see Sai as his aai. Zilch. Just because he now "loves" and proposed, Sai gets a 24 hour ultimatum. Kaun hai ye aadmi to dictate such things?! Who is he to set these time limits. Even if Sai had in some AU accepted his proposal, he himself cant get a clean break from P in 24 hours because he hasn't even talked to her yet. So with what audacity does this man set a damn ultimatum?! And just like every fricking time- he has decided what HE wants and claims he will handle everything - P, Vinu but he has done no planning. He's pulled this stunt of "sahi wakt" many a time now. Theres ZERO growth in this guy. Why would anyone ever trust this man. And yes Sai is backing off because V is married to another. If he was single his claims of loving only her and genuine repentance may have felt a little bit more believable and him a bit more trustworthy. But seeing him as anothers husband is a big enough reason to mistrust him and let go. So while she stresses on not breaking Vinus family with VP, in reality if she had any trust in Vs claims about fixing everything she'd have accepted. The reason she doesn't trust him is because she's been in Ps shoes as the cheated wife. Shes making it about Vinu deliberately because she does not want to talk about her residual feelings of love. Because that love is not enough reason to be with V. She'd rather talk about Vinu and his family. She's picking her peace, her self respect and Vinus happiness. As much as she'd hoped Vinu would see her as aai and come with her - now shes defeated. She still believes P is an unfit person to be a mother but if Vinu only loves her then for the sake of Vinu she'll let it be... She has no option. Maybe this is what it was always meant to be. Vinu being unlucky to never get Sai's parvarish and Sai as his aai.. its his loss, his fate.

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Posted: 2 years ago
#30

Originally posted by: Rosyme

He wanted to tell Sai but correct at that time P lost her uterus and Virat felt bad.

Yes..but later he could've told..he actively distracted her from finding out the truth..Sai is an empathetic girl..She too would've understood the situation ..


Virat's problem always is this ..He takes decision and believes that it's right for everyone ...It had cost him...She has forgiven that too..but because of his actions,Vinu doesn't want to accept Sai.

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