GHKPM Episode Discussion Thread #108 - Page 112

Originally posted by: Enola

Both pakhi and virat don't talk each other in this matter.

After listening V's confession pakhi instead of talking to V went to Sai.

They both don't want to confront each other and try to make sai bali ka Bakra.

Exactly it's not like Virat stands up for Sai as such..Pakhi kept character assassinating Sai and he did his Kathak mudras..

He even told Savi to not tell her mom, abt Pakhi's behaviour..

They know Sai reacts, is idealistic so they use that fact abt her

Originally posted by: asmi_ekaa

Exactly it's not like Virat stands up for Sai as such..Pakhi kept character assassinating Sai and he did his Kathak mudras..

He even told Savi to not tell her mom, abt Pakhi's behaviour..

They know Sai reacts, is idealistic so they use that fact abt her

He's the most bechara innocent, kuch-samajh-nahi-aane-waala DCP. Lord save the innocent people of the city from his innocence 🤣

Virat looked like “yeh kya bole jaa rahi hai Sai” types lol —- this man is still confused/in-denial about Patralekha’s behaviour during his first marriage even after all these years🤣🤣🤣

had the exact same “what are you talking about” written all over his face lol 🤪

Originally posted by: LadyD

True. But I don’t think Sai is right here. I can understand if her reason of not accepting was her mistrust of Virat, that she can’t forgive him or how CN people treated her. But she really loves Virat & has no problem with his past behavior. Her problem is that she doesn’t want to be “ the other woman. So Virat destroyed their family for giving importance to his family & P more than her & now Sai is putting her self respect above her own family’s happiness. If she says it’s for Vinu then what about Savi? Why can’t she accept Virats proposal on condition that she will accept it after he divorces Pakhi & make Vinu accept the situation. I felt bad for Savi.

I still don’t get why get married to Satya. She will be playing with lot more peoples emotions. It complicates Savi’s life & gives Satya’s family a hope which will never be fulfilled.

The way Virat is even if doesn’t divorce P, no one is going to be happy except Pakhi. Vinu has seen how happy, excited his baba can be but won’t see that baba again. Savi will not get to stay with her real family, Sai will miss Vinu & Virat too. Satya’ family will be duped & someone say they are bound to know true nature of their relationship. What if Satya falls for Sai but Sai can’t move on?

This is a mess, created by Virat & continued by Sai.

So you want Sai to accept Virat’s proposal. Okay fair enough. But the issue is he is not divorced yet. He signed the papers and never gave to P. Will P sign it? What if P doesn’t sign it? Let’s assume she does sign it, divorce is not granted in one day.

So yes I agree it affects the kids and it’s not a happy scenario. Who is at loss? Savi and Sai.

Virat is only thinking for himself - he thinks he can explain P and explain Vinu. Then do it first clear all your baggage.

Sai cannot just accept the proposal from a married man. No woman should and it also defeats the purpose of what we all have been blaming P for. Breaking a home for her own selfishness and happiness. Sai is not P.

Kids are effected but that’s the reality V chose when he let P be a illegal surrogate and he let P out on bail. The whole reason for Sai leaving.

Sai clearly said it to Virat today that what you feel and confessed now is what she wanted back then - chose her as she was his wife and she was right at that time. All these feelings V out poured on Sai was what she wanted when she was his legal wife. Now she is not his wife.

At this moment Sai the mother is in a very tough position she has to break one of the kids happy family to keep other kids family intact. As a mother she is choosing an option where Savi will not be away from Virat and Vinu. She said multiple times they can meet stay together. Vinu gets her happy family in V and P. Vinu is just not ready to accept Sai as Aai. Even if he does will he let go of P completely such that Vinu lives with Sai Savi and V?

Today Sai chose her self respect and as a mother she decided the best possible option for Both kids.

When you can’t go back in past to fix the mistakes you look forward for a path that is least disruptive and hope one day fate and karma will answer.

P is yet to get her karma regarding Vinu. And Vinu is yet to accept Sai as Aai.

Since Sai and Satya marriage is not discussed in the episode….. I can’t blame Sai for keeping Satyas family in dark etc ….. if and what circumstances they show that marriage we will discuss it! Abhi toh we can only speculate based on promo

Originally posted by: gaurimisha

He's the most bechara innocent, kuch-samajh-nahi-aane-waala DCP. Lord save the innocent people of the city from his innocence 🤣

Nashik ke logo ke liye mujhe kabhi kabhi itna stress hota hai😭

Isko toh koi Gunda bhi Paakhi ki tarah roke manipulate karke bhaag sakta hai, and if the Gunda has a kid, sone pe suhaaga 😭

Today's Sai's perspective should be eye opener to Virat. Sai liberated herself from the heavy past. No grudges. Will stick to whatever is there in the episode. Her conscience says she should not hurt anyone but my only concern is vinu with P. V failed her here by favoring P. Virat ka proposal reject kia ,bilkul thik kiaa. But kaha hai woh Sai jo bete k liye dunia se lad rahi thhi. Vinu k liye P mumma hai aur mai doctor auntie. Decision is tough but should be long sighted.

Originally posted by: NayaNehaD31

Virat looked like “yeh kya bole jaa rahi hai Sai” types lol —- this man is still confused/in-denial about Patralekha’s behaviour during his first marriage even after all these years🤣🤣🤣

had the exact same “what are you talking about” written all over his face lol 🤪

That again is so problematic..

Abhi aadhi baat toh usne boli bhi nahi hai.. which will make Virat go all kathak .

Can people actually wait for episode to air before jumping the gun and bashing Sai? We still don’t know what’d prompt her to go ahead and marry Satya. Or if the marriage is actually going to take place. But I’ve read all the nonsense ranging from Sai’s selfish & self-absorbed to Satya being a child molestor! Even I’m not fond of the fact that there’s a very high probability of Saiya entering into a deal marriage. I wanted them to have a gradual transition from friends to lover, a mature story. But hey that’s Ghum, can’t expect anything sane or sensible in the show. However, I’m happy that for a change the makers are actually showing something better than V-P cringe and Sai’s abuse! So I’m going to sit back and enjoy whatever comparatively saner episodes Ghum has to offer!

Originally posted by: LadyD

True. But I don’t think Sai is right here. I can understand if her reason of not accepting was her mistrust of Virat, that she can’t forgive him or how CN people treated her. But she really loves Virat & has no problem with his past behavior. Her problem is that she doesn’t want to be “ the other woman. So Virat destroyed their family for giving importance to his family & P more than her & now Sai is putting her self respect above her own family’s happiness. If she says it’s for Vinu then what about Savi? Why can’t she accept Virats proposal on condition that she will accept it after he divorces Pakhi & make Vinu accept the situation. I felt bad for Savi.

I still don’t get why get married to Satya. She will be playing with lot more peoples emotions. It complicates Savi’s life & gives Satya’s family a hope which will never be fulfilled.

The way Virat is even if doesn’t divorce P, no one is going to be happy except Pakhi. Vinu has seen how happy, excited his baba can be but won’t see that baba again. Savi will not get to stay with her real family, Sai will miss Vinu & Virat too. Satya’ family will be duped & someone say they are bound to know true nature of their relationship. What if Satya falls for Sai but Sai can’t move on?

This is a mess, created by Virat & continued by Sai.

I respectfully disagree with many of your assessments.

Yes I agree that she is not explicitly mentioning the mistrust or much of her angst, pain but its there, otherwise she'd jump at the opportunity to reconcile saying - ok go talk to Vinu and P. but thats not enough. it wont change what he has done. thats why she says NO. him divorcing P and convincing Vinu is not enough because she cant be with a guy who married P for whatever reason.

In a sense i think what they mean is that if he wasnt married to P she could have perhaps trusted his apology and intentions and regret but now she cant. because if he had stayed single his spiel of how much he yearned for her and only loved her would be more believable. Yes she could have mentioned that she is bothered by all his deeds rather than only focus on P, Vinu and dusri aurat.

I'd also have preferred that she speak more about her not trusting his claims of not being in pati patni relationship with P because she has seen everything in front of her eyes and in any case- whatever their relationship is not the point - hes married and she cannot be with a man who married P. bass.

I also wished Sai would say- today you love me but there is no guarantee that tomorrow you wont flip - you have a track record of it. you called P devki, yashoda, bff, support system etc etc etc. but sadly they dot make it a full on dhulai of V ever to that degree of showing mirror.

if P miraculously leaves now and says she will divorce V and just wants to be a visitor in Vinu's life- and Vinu accepts Sai as aai- even then its hard to see Sai V together. It'd only be a compromise for kids. Because how is she supposed to get over the past. she can forgive it for her own peace of mind but never forget. she cant erase everything she has witnessed but never been able to talk about- seeing her love hug another woman, take pheras make vows, go on honeymoon, feed her, hold her hand and proclaim her as his wife, flirt with her, dance with her, share a bedroom with her, start a family with her by adopting a kids- something he refused to do when she was called infertile and instead picked surrogacy which ended up being illegal. If he had adopted with Sai then , it would have been simple. he has made allowances for P but not for the woman he claimed to love. Unfortunately these things of Sai's pain are lost in the dialogue writing and her angst isnt addressed. they essentially diluted it to the cliff notes version which is what we got today.

She doesnt wanna bother getting into too many details of the past coz theres 800 episodes worth of BS to talk about. Its not like V cared to ask about all that she endured alone especially savi childbirth or acknowledge how she must have felt to see her love, her husband married to another woman now. she just wants to forget the bitterness after dealing with it for so long. she is focusing on the main aspect. that he picked P, he is married to her, he has a family with her and she is not gonna now accept his proposal and make things complicated. Vinu sees P as his mother no matter how much she tried so now she will stay in his life in whatever capacity she can. its sad but she will do it for Vinu. she wont stoop to V and P level to achieve what used to be her dream. because the reality of now is more important than her love or her past dream. I think she communicated the main things well.

She is not going to marry Satya without his consent or full disclosure. He has mutually agreed that there cant be love again. No one can predict who will fall for whom. it can happen that Satya's ex is not dead at all and comes back (he didnt see her body) but Sai falls for him. then what? but as things stand they both know everything. if they marry they are doing it as 2 adults, who are in full consciousness making the decision. Unlike V Sai marriage, Sai is not an 18 yo orphan. shes much more mature. so they can deal with the rest. Satya knows Sai has 2 kids. he knows the dynamic of V Sai and Sai P also.

Savi is cool with VP marriage, so why will it affect her negatively if Sai also marries another man?

She will get 2 families and another adult to look up to. and V will always be her biological father. Sai is staying in Nagpur. Kids can see each other. Savi can stay over at Vs and CN also. Sai has agreed to all that. She is proposing a mature coparenting agreement.

Many divorced couples move on and kids understand that parents aren't obligated to stay with each other. they have a cordial relationship with step parents also. its not ideal. but in this case Savi was never gonna have the conventional family. she might as well get used to it.

Savi is better off outside CN. One child upbringing is anyway gonna be impacted by too much VP and CN influence on him. Atleast Savi will be spared a little bit.

Satya's family- how much they know/not is to be seen. Onus of that falls on Satya to inform them. He knows Sai's situation. so if he is marrying her for his family sake he should tell them everything about her past, her kids etc.

Savi needs to accept that her father and mother are separated. Its not fair to expect Sai to reconcile with V just for Savi's sake. she can have an independent relationship with her father and mother but just not together and if she has questions she can ask her baba why he married another woman , abandoned her aai and irreparably damaged things.