Wrong kind of Love 8 April episode page 2

6th April episode [Hyper Individualism]

I'm amazed by alot people response to Sai-Satya cafeteria scene

Alot of people see that Sai crying and sharing her feeling with someone is her being weak

I'm soo shocked

It's 2023 are we still shaming people for crying and showing emotion

Please read some mental health books

Guys seriously.

Crying is not a weakness if anything it's exact opposite because

Sai is brave enough to show her vulnerable side soo openly to someone she trust it's good for her

A lot of people here think that Satya helping or being with Sai is somewhat making her character weak

This is shocking to me because as I'm catching up with episode with written update

One think I have realized the constant isolation of Sai

Sai have no people in her life

She is Hyper individual person

This is not good for human psychology because Humans are social animals and we really need a strong social support group people that we love that are in our corner

Ever person irrespective of gender age we need strong circle

Peers we sharing things with elder that we look up too etc etc

Sai has literally no one and I'm not talking about romantic partner

I do beleive women can choose to be single if they want

But being single doesn't mean you don't need no one in your life

Like Sai has zero friends zero family member no social life

And its not recent

Reading episode I saw in few episodes Sai was soo lonely that she was talking to Her dead father ghost

I'm really feeling soo sad for her

She had noo close friends when she was in college , no family no colleagues expect recently Satya

Or even a friend mothers that she made met on savi school pta

A person who can relate to her motherhood struggles

Sai is literally suffering from Trauma

That she has stopped investing in any realtionships

Hyper individualism is trauma response to being let down by people who you trusted or being cheated or sudden death of person you depend on alot

First her father left her like that even though no one has control over that but still it made a very young Sai soo vulnerable He was her world and after him she had no one

Then she placed her trust on virat and look how he virat turned out to be a narcissistic backstabbing wanker

A class a$shole

It's soo important for human too have these different kind of social supports

That can support you emotionally

Writers please let Sai have friends

People she have in her corner

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Looking at today's episode this is all the more important

Sai need people who can give her unbiased opnion about her equation with virat

And Alot of people are being mean to Sai unnecessary

Sai is kind caring person She has been nice & kind to Pakhi who has done soo many bad things to her

Her caring and being worried about virat is just that

She was even crying when pakhi died( supposedly before Sai alive her)

But also this narrative that she owns anything to anyone is wrong too

Sai own no one her loyalty

Not to Satya and definitely not to Virat

Also having feeling and acting on those feeling are two completely different things

[ I want to give Sai as much grace as i can because alot of people are being mean ]

Agree such a morbid life she was living until recently

Originally posted by: mysticriver

Agree such a morbid life she was living until recently

This is soo true like the drag and reaction she is getting is unnecessary

I really want people too chill and give Sai alittle bit of grace

Thank you for posting this. People will have feelings for their closed even after the relationship is broken. Sai felt guilty for not speaking to Virat before he went on mission which she admitted to Satya in yesterday's episode. This incident is similar to the 1st mission where Sai refused to accept Virat's apology and he was shot and deja vu can make things out of control. What I really appreciate is her reaction from precap where she is not going to take it as virat expects her to take when he will confess his feelings. And as of now Sai is loyal to herself and not to anyone else. And special appreciation for Satya for being with her in today's episode.

Originally posted by: badgarlriri

6th April episode [Hyper Individualism]

I'm amazed by alot people response to Sai-Satya cafeteria scene

Alot of people see that Sai crying and sharing her feeling with someone is her being weak

I'm soo shocked

It's 2023 are we still shaming people for crying and showing emotion

Please read some mental health books

Guys seriously.

Crying is not a weakness if anything it's exact opposite because

Sai is brave enough to show her vulnerable side soo openly to someone she trust it's good for her

A lot of people here think that Satya helping or being with Sai is somewhat making her character weak

This is shocking to me because as I'm catching up with episode with written update

One think I have realized the constant isolation of Sai

Sai have no people in her life

She is Hyper individual person

This is not good for human psychology because Humans are social animals and we really need a strong social support group people that we love that are in our corner

Ever person irrespective of gender age we need strong circle

Peers we sharing things with elder that we look up too etc etc

Sai has literally no one and I'm not talking about romantic partner

I do beleive women can choose to be single if they want

But being single doesn't mean you don't need no one in your life

Like Sai has zero friends zero family member no social life

And its not recent

Reading episode I saw in few episodes Sai was soo lonely that she was talking to Her dead father ghost

I'm really feeling soo sad for her

She had noo close friends when she was in college , no family no colleagues expect recently Satya

Or even a friend mothers that she made met on savi school pta

A person who can relate to her motherhood struggles

Sai is literally suffering from Trauma

That she has stopped investing in any realtionships

Hyper individualism is trauma response to being let down by people who you trusted or being cheated or sudden death of person you depend on alot

First her father left her like that even though no one has control over that but still it made a very young Sai soo vulnerable He was her world and after him she had no one

Then she placed her trust on virat and look how he virat turned out to be a narcissistic backstabbing wanker

A class a$shole

It's soo important for human too have these different kind of social supports

That can support you emotionally

Writers please let Sai have friends

People she have in her corner

●●●●● TODAYS EPISODE ●●●●●

Looking at today's episode this is all the more important

Sai need people who can give her unbiased opnion about her equation with virat

And Alot of people are being mean to Sai unnecessary

Sai is kind caring person She has been nice & kind to Pakhi who has done soo many bad things to her

Her caring and being worried about virat is just that

She was even crying when pakhi died( supposedly before Sai alive her)

But also this narrative that she owns anything to anyone is wrong too

Sai own no one her loyalty

Not to Satya and definitely not to Virat

Also having feeling and acting on those feeling are two completely different things

[ I want to give Sai as much grace as i can because alot of people are being mean ]

Beautiful review

See , people use to attend so many sessions on emotions (motivational videos)but still some section of society believe that if one in crying the he/she is weak .

Every individual have a break point.

Here,sai is not a robot she is a human definitely her emotions will come out some day or other but it doesn't mean that sai joshi is weak

She had fought 99.9% battles lonely .that too at young age .I even can't imagine myself in sai's shoes losing love ones ,almost being ra****,taunt on being orphan, getting no justice,abuse and wronged by chavans, getting hatred of own son and so on

Inspite of a these she still has guts to stand and fight if not for her then for sake of her kids

I know its a fictional character but fir me she is an emotion,a fighter,and definitely a winner

Sai having feelings for Virat is not wrong.He is maybe a toxic person but for Sai he is her first love and first husband so she genuinely cares for him and couldn't control her feelings for him.Sabhi logo ka life mein aise ex and first love hoga he naa jisko bhulna ka liye bohot mushkil hoyi hogi humhe same is the situation with Sai.She was waiting to hear Virat confessing to her from many years so by hearing his confession she may get emotional tomorrow ismein galat thodi naa hai.But I am sure tomorrow or when she comes to reality given by pattu or Vinu she will herself realised that she is crossing limits with Virat since he is a married man now and will get herself away from Virat.She is in a sensitive, emotional and weak condition now.Ismein self respect nahi hone ki baat kab hai she isn't going back to Virat officially right.Feelings doesn't change overnight woh kitna bhi kahi she didn't love Virat she still loves him.It will take her time in moving on from Virat.But I am sure she will definitely be loyal to her second marriage she will never crossed her limits with Virat becoz she is not Pattu but Sai she didn't broke Pattu's house even when she could so ab kyu karegi woh.Ismein galat sirf Virat hai he is a horrible cheater who even being married is confessing to Sai in their weakest moments.Before divorcing Pattu officially he is dreaming of marrying Sai what a horrible double timer cheater he is.

Love this post🤗❤️

Agree. It’s not Sai’s fault if she has feelings for Virat. It’s not like she can stop them. 😢

I'm kinda shocked at this toxic definition of Love that Sai is holding on too

😕

Like garl if you think that what you had with virat at any point of time is love

You are in for a shock 🥺

It kind make me sad to think alot of people don't even know what love is and constantly show abusive behavior as love

And let me bring back my point of

Stockholm syndrome is a coping mechanism to a captive or abusive situation. People develop positive feelings toward their captors or abusers over time

Soo alot of yall didn't knew what the word means and now I have attacked a definition

Maybe this will make things clear I think Sai really doesn't know what love is because to her the abusive relationship she had with Virat is love but that's not the truth miles from it

Sai is ready to listen to Virat even after he has blunt abused her disrespect her , called her names

And has yet shown zero progress to change his ways

Virat has shown Zero remorse over his bad behaviour , zero accountability he didn't even apologize to her for the abuse he put her through since the beginning of the marriage and she is ready to forgive I am so sorry there is nooo way this can be real

This is out of character for her to do

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Coming back to the episode

I think the symbolic end of SaiRat is starting

The way virat just for the sake of it tied a handkerchief on Sai wound without cleaning it

It didn't make her pain go away or healed her

It's brand on him because virat does this with Sai since the beginning he doesn't care or love her he says he does but when it come to action he the first to abuse her

Satya couldn't see her in pain

The way he started scolding her for not putting herself first

And the way he properly Bainded her wounds

Then the shared there past

Satya story was soooooo painful

Sai describing that she loves virat is soo funny

Because at best SaiRat is toxic realtionship

At worst an abusive one

There was noo love on both end

Sai had a dependency on virat which lead to him abusiving her and her thinking whatever bread crumps he through at her as love 🤔

Garl really need to work on herself

Because she is still in the clutches of her past

Ladies please learn to love yourself first put yourself above anyone else

Thanks fir coming to my tedtalk

Originally posted by: badgarlriri

I'm kinda shocked at this toxic definition of Love that Sai is holding on too

😕

Like garl if you think that what you had with virat at any point of time is love

You are in for a shock 🥺

It kind make me sad to think alot of people don't even know what love is and constantly show abusive behavior as love

And let me bring back my point of

Stockholm syndrome is a coping mechanism to a captive or abusive situation. People develop positive feelings toward their captors or abusers over time

Soo alot of yall didn't knew what the word means and now I have attacked a definition

Maybe this will make things clear I think Sai really doesn't know what love is because to her the abusive relationship she had with Virat is love but that's not the truth miles from it

Sai is ready to listen to Virat even after he has blunt abused her disrespect her , called her names

And has yet shown zero progress to change his ways

Virat has shown Zero remorse over his bad behaviour , zero accountability he didn't even apologize to her for the abuse he put her through since the beginning of the marriage and she is ready to forgive I am so sorry there is nooo way this can be real

This is out of character for her to do

○○○○○●●●●○○○○○○○○○

Coming back to the episode

I think the symbolic end of SaiRat is starting

The way virat just for the sake of it tied a handkerchief on Sai wound without cleaning it

It didn't make her pain go away or healed her

It's brand on him because virat does this with Sai since the beginning he doesn't care or love her he says he does but when it come to action he the first to abuse her

Satya couldn't see her in pain

The way he started scolding her for not putting herself first

And the way he properly Bainded her wounds

Then the shared there past

Satya story was soooooo painful

Sai describing that she loves virat is soo funny

Because at best SaiRat is toxic realtionship

At worst an abusive one

There was noo love on both end

Sai had a dependency on virat which lead to him abusiving her and her thinking whatever bread crumps he through at her as love 🤔

Garl really need to work on herself

Because she is still in the clutches of her past

Ladies please learn to love yourself first put yourself above anyone else

Thanks fir coming to my tedtalk

Apt analysis. Loved it. Loved it a lot.❤️

Keep writing more ❤️❤️😊😊😊🥺