Chillane se sach nahi badalta .. Vinayak mera beta hai - Page 24

Originally posted by: Rosyme

Parents who have loved each other and have 2 kids should give each other a chance for their kids. Esp when both kids never got to stay with both their parents for the past 9 yrs.

If both parents want to move on, kids can stay with grandparents and meet the real parents based on some understanding. Parents can stay outside with their new spouses and pursue their life their own way, and meet on a periodic basis .

Like how P wants to have her own kid with Virat, Sai s future spouse and his family whoever it is will also want his own kid. He will want to go on HM like P.

So better the current kids stay with grandparents and not get stuck with the new relationship constraints and expectations.

It's not easy to get married into another family and start life new with 2 kids from an old relationship and both parents busy with their new lives .

Atleast one parent has to be dedicated to their kids. The kids r too young now.

This is my opinion only.... respect others also.

JMO. Respect others too.

Originally posted by: asmi_ekaa

I think in any case whether Sairat come together or not Ghum is more abt the ML seeing Pakhi's dukh dard peeda.. He will see it irrespective of Sai coming in his life, irrespective of his kids in his life too, irrespective of Sai's tears or smiles..wo hona hi hai..

PL is not going anywhere till the ML is here.

It took 800 episodes to know that the CN guys have changed and surely for the grandchildren.

Kids should stay with their biological grandparents and not some unknown guys. Virat and P can move out and visit when needed.

I am sorry, i don't know Satya and his family in just 4-5 episodes. I need to wait for a lot more time.

Reg Satya helping Sai, even Virat has helped his team by going for missions and saving people.

Sai has helped so many people n Kankavli and removed JM s bullet . It's her job.

If it was some other lady also Satya should have done the same help as he's n the committee. If he doesn't then he's not doing his job. For that matter he helped the nurse also by taking her n his bike.

Originally posted by: asmi_ekaa

Since he relates to the whole aspect of taking badla from Sai when he has malign for her..Satya ki baat par bhi wahi chep diya

In this matter V is not really much different from P.

Originally posted by: Thanuj

Agree...moreever if some other woman in P's place and wanted her own kid, nothing wrong in that. Here because of P crimes and her misdeeds and the way she used unborn baby to break a happy family and to get V was not forgettable and not forgivable. And the way she tortured Sai and Sam for her own mistakes also not a small thing. She has to face karma for all her wrong doings.

If suppose some new man enters in sai life,its very difficult kids to accept him in their father's place. Nothing wrong if he expects his own kid, wanted to spend alone time with sai without her past baggages. Wanting their own blood, we cant call it as a selfish act.

And like Anuj kind of characters not exist in real life.

Originally posted by: Sinmegh

Exactly Phir she can have new babies with new husband..

.. why should Savi grow up in a strange house when her dad n brother live in another house.. they are there to protect her Zz Kaku , Ashwini n ninad will take care of her.. Sai can meet her kids during her off days .. Wayse bhi Usha maushi .. used to take care .. now she will her own real grandparents n badi ajji keeping a watch ..
😂😂

Originally posted by: Gems.musingsRN

Exactly 💯. There are people like this in real life. People like Anuj aren't fiction. Hothe hai aise log. It's not an unrealistic dream.

Even if P murders someone, V will keep on doing farz jaap and CN won't kick out P. She's become an established family member.

And till date, V hasn't realised how much he has hurt Sai by marrying the woman who destroyed her life and marriage . He has zero guilt .

From whatever we've seen, Sathya definitely has more integrity than nalla chavan. He can be a wonderful father figure to Vinu and Savi.

Why should Sai sacrifice her youth and wait till the kids are grown up to marry someone she likes? That's such a wrong thinking.

V can marry patra, go on HM with her, and allow her meddling into kid's lives but Sai should be single. It's sad that women have this patriarchal thinking. People who genuinely love Sai and want best for her wouldn't think like this

The girl never had a proper college life, always had patra spitting venom throughout her marriage, her husband always had a soft corner for his ex and the marriage wasn't a happy one. Sai also deserves a partner who'll love and cherish her, keep her first in his life and a stable, happy marriage . She's not just a mother, she's a human being too.

Let Sai fall in love without any obligation because of any marital bond, let someone woo her, let someone be romantic to her do sweet cute gestures to make her feel she is a special someone for him. She deserves that happiness. Even the Saiya bike ride was such a sweet moment, Sai may never have experienced something like that from her husband who was always busy behind his ex.

Originally posted by: Moor278

Actually Sai is in a much better position right now in CN than ever.

V is madly in love with her again.

BK is desperate to keep her in CN.

Others like Omi Sonali who used to harass her are in her favour.

Ash Ninu are non entity but their vested interest in V's wellbeing will make their turn easy.

Sai has never had this kind of approval in CN ever... not even after remarriage and when she was the chahiti bahu for sometime.

She should rather stay back in CN and use this for exacting revenge from everyone.

Make them dance to her tunes... and be the actual bahu and malkin of CN.

Make them repay for everything they have done to her.

I keep saying Sai has the tetua under control.... she doesn't want use it, neither knows how to use it... 🤪

With 2 heirs and husband in love, she can just sit back and relax for once 😏😏

P wasn't wrong in the court about CN people not caring for her, it just that It's P so I don't sympathize, rather I'm happy she is getting this treatment. She deserves to be thrown away like waste.

Originally posted by: janecastle

Savi has no idea what sort of morons Chavans and Virat are. She has only seen one side of the family. They are capable of hurting their own blood without an ounce of regret. Just look at Devi's condition. They literally drove her mad just because she fell in love with a man. Savi's future don't look much better. She has too much Sai in her and Chavans will never be able to accept her completely. Even now, they are suddenly showering love on the kids because of their own selfishness. Vinu is the golden hair and Savi is necessary to keep Sai with Virat. Otherwise everybody saw the way Savi was received initially and how Vinu was treated.

@bold- What is that even supposed to mean? Last time I checked Sai cannot see or predict future.

In today's time and age, are we seriously pushing blood over everything nonsense. Nobody is saying Sai should totally cut off Chavans from Vinu & Savi's lives. But their influence should be kept to minimum for the well being of the kids. Chavans are harmful for everyone, even their own flesh and blood.

Ha bilkul sahi baat .. kids should be spared the trauma