Is Pakhi using Vinu ?

All of us know the level of obsessiveness Pakhi has towards Virat from day 1. Right now in the current track she is often seen saying she only cares about her son and he is all she has and she will leave with him if Virat lets Sai stay with them ..

However I would like to know the thoughts of the people on this forum about whether you think Pakhi really loves Vinu so much that she doesn’t think about Virat so much anymore or do you think Vinu is the last thread she is holding onto and using so that she can stay in Virat’s life ?

From her actions it looks like she knows Vinu is Virat’s weakness and he has gratitude towards her for marrying him for the sake of Vinu- and she is simply poking him and exploiting that thought.

In a way, all the promises that he has made to her and failed to keep have been because his heart was never in the relationship with her and his nature pushed him to take actions that were a part of the responsibility his job role as a husband entails ..

In the current track where he is seen to be slowly titling towards Sai once again, knowing both his children and his wife are around him and he can easily have the life he wants if he makes amends - Pakhi will lose all rights over him in any which way, I feel she is smartly guilting him using Vinu to stay put in Virat’s life. Today after accusing him like she does every other day- she became totally silent once BK asked her to leave if she wanted, because she knew her position in the house would be threatened. At the start of this leap she was seen saying Vinu is more attached to his Baba and never shared anything with her - what happened now ? How did the tables turn?

Please share your thoughts - does she love Vinu as a mother or is it just another way to stick to Virat?

Patralekha Mohite-Patil Salunkhe-Chavan loves only herself and no one else neither Virat nor Vinu. She is just like Virat who's love for Sai is situational like whenever any situation is in his favour he will love Sai and situation goes beyond his control he is the first one to blame Sai or most of the time let Sai suffer alone at times he will team up with Pakhi and others to torture Sai. That's why this devar bhabhi are perfect couple as they deserve each other. As far as Vinu is concern I would say Vinu was always Pakhi's weapon to control not only Virat but whole chavannis. Reason to become surrogate was to throw Sai out and enjoy the status of giving lamp to chavannis and get them worship her... She was cool still Sai and Savi came into pitcher... In both presence her position in CN was challenged and her behaviour changed since then... Even after Sai's return she knew she can throw Sai out again but the day Savi's identity was revealed she started seeing her roots being challenged with Vinu's identity her years of mehnat wasted so what she can do... Target Vinu... Because he was always weakness of Chavannis and Sai... Savi so far is shown innocent but she is not stupid like Vinu... That's why she doesn't want Vinu to recover because if he does Vinu will go to Sai and Sairat's happy family will be complete and how can she let this happen...

Pakhi is one insecure obsessed personality who wants everything for herself.👍🏼🤗 I don’t think she loves Vinu. I also know for a fact that she isn’t interested in Virat as much as she used to be lol. Makers have lost track of her character lol 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 her horrible expressions are the only thing that’s consistent about her lol

Pakhi was always self centred. She loves herself and goes beyond limits to get what she wants. Initially she was obsessed with Virat and tried every trick to get him in her life . When she finally got him she tried to cage him because she knew he loved only Sai. Even now she's aware his hear is with Sai. When Savi's identity came out she became insecure and started behaving rudely with her. And, the final nail in the coffin was Vinayak being the biological son of Virat and Sai and she knew she has lost the game. So, she's trying to keep him with her at any cost. He's the only ray of hope to live at Chavan Niwas with Virat. She loves neither Virat nor Vinayak. It's her obsession and once again she's started playing the victim card.

Originally posted by: -honeydew-

All of us know the level of obsessiveness Pakhi has towards Virat from day 1. Right now in the current track she is often seen saying she only cares about her son and he is all she has and she will leave with him if Virat lets Sai stay with them ..

However I would like to know the thoughts of the people on this forum about whether you think Pakhi really loves Vinu so much that she doesn’t think about Virat so much anymore or do you think Vinu is the last thread she is holding onto and using so that she can stay in Virat’s life ?

From her actions it looks like she knows Vinu is Virat’s weakness and he has gratitude towards her for marrying him for the sake of Vinu- and she is simply poking him and exploiting that thought.

In a way, all the promises that he has made to her and failed to keep have been because his heart was never in the relationship with her and his nature pushed him to take actions that were a part of the responsibility his job role as a husband entails ..

In the current track where he is seen to be slowly titling towards Sai once again, knowing both his children and his wife are around him and he can easily have the life he wants if he makes amends - Pakhi will lose all rights over him in any which way, I feel she is smartly guilting him using Vinu to stay put in Virat’s life. Today after accusing him like she does every other day- she became totally silent once BK asked her to leave if she wanted, because she knew her position in the house would be threatened. At the start of this leap she was seen saying Vinu is more attached to his Baba and never shared anything with her - what happened now ? How did the tables turn?

Please share your thoughts - does she love Vinu as a mother or is it just another way to stick to Virat?

Okay...this is going to be long.

Firstly, I would like to say that there is no analysis that can be derived from the story of this show. There is no character development and no sense of how the characters behave in one particular episode and how they do in another. Perhaps there was some sense in the beginning, but there certainly hasn't been any for quite a while now. The characters behave however they must to move the story forward and they follow no particular arcs. Perhaps, Sai will suddenly become a manipulative and cunning villain in the next week and Pakhi might become the perfect savior, and we won't have any explanation or excuse for why they went through such a sudden change. Because there is no explanation. The writer had a dream, and he was bored, so he went with it. Also, the makers know that trp is fueled with drama, so they will go to whatever extent to show anything that will bring the drama, and in turn bring the trp. And it seems to be working perfectly for them.

However, since we are watching the show, and since we are interested in the story, we might try and analyze the behaviors and actions, and mindset of these characters. And since I am a deeply masochistic person, I will do so happily.

Pakhi loves Vinu the same way she loves (loved?) Virat. Perhaps she believes it to be love, but it is, like you said, an obsession. The thing that makes it certain that her feelings for both her husband and her son are far from love, is her hysterical behavior whenever she feels like she is losing them. She wouldn't give a damn about their feelings, their happiness, and their health, unless and until she sees someone else taking care of them. That's when her fear kicks in. She panics because she knows that in reality, her love for them isn't pure enough to actually bind them to her. Moreover, she cannot imagine them actually loving someone else. Perhaps it is because she is a spoiled only child, but she wants to be the only one they love, the only one they care about.

Let's see with Virat. Pakhi didn't love Virat enough to wait for him before getting married. She thought that he was ignoring her and so, to teach him a lesson she decided to get married. And then when her misunderstandings cleared, she didn't break the marriage, she didn't leave him and asked him to move on. Rather, she made him promise that she will be the only person in his life. What kind of person does that? This showed that she didn't care about Virat. She was basically ready to make him suffer for the rest of his life, watching her be with his own brother. She didn't care. For her, it wasn't about being with Virat or loving Virat. For her, it was just that if she can't have Virat, no one else can either.

The same thing is with Vinu. She didn't care enough about him when it was just him and her, because she had no fear that someone else can show him more love and make a place in his heart. But the moment Sai re-entered their lives, the moment Sai started bonding with him, Pakhi started to lose it.

Pakhi's love for Vinu actually has nothing to do with Virat at all. She isn't as obsessed with Virat now as she was back then. Why? Because she already had him, and by the time she got him, he was so broken, that now she has lost interest. She didn't think of him as something to be desired now. He was desirable only till he was forbidden, only till he was her husband's brother, and only till he was someone else's husband. Now, he is her own, and now, there is someone else with whom she can play this 'only mine' game. Now, there is someone else for whose affection she can fight, and that is Vinu.

There is no mother's love involved. All there is, is the mindset that this person, whoever they might be, will love and stay with only me. And that is that.

Am I making Pakhi sound sicker? Yes, I am. Is she truly that sick? Yes, she is. She is someone who cares solely for herself. She might show and act like she loves the people around her, but in reality, the only people she shows care towards are the ones who will help her. She is selfish and manipulative. And the worst part is, she herself truly and genuinely believes that she is good, that she is doing no wrong, and that is what makes her not just a bad person, but a dangerous one.

You have described Pakhi so well. I have nothing more to add. This is so perfect. Yes, she's mean, selfish, manipulative, sick and a dangerous person. Which mother will tell stories of magic and magician just to keep to herself? How can a mother be so wicked? I guess when everyone turns their back against her she'll realise her folly. Bhavani has already turned against her and very Vinayak too will leave her and then she'll realise what she's lost.

P is manipulative, selfish and criminal. She cant love anyone but herself. She is the female version of V. Thinks they are mahaan, have only self pity and want validation from all.

I dont want her to her away though by getting labelled as mentally ill in the future.

She even managed to fake suicide, depression each time she's in trouble and uses that as a shield to escape punishment.

Originally posted by: NayaNehaD31

Pakhi is one insecure obsessed personality who wants everything for herself.👍🏼🤗 I don’t think she loves Vinu. I also know for a fact that she isn’t interested in Virat as much as she used to be lol. Makers have lost track of her character lol 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 her horrible expressions are the only thing that’s consistent about her lol

Originally posted by: ShipIsSailing

Okay...this is going to be long. Let me go grab a cup of lemon tea 🍵 🤣

Firstly, I would like to say that there is no analysis that can be derived from the story of this show. There is no character development and no sense of how the characters behave in one particular episode and how they do in another. Perhaps there was some sense in the beginning, but there certainly hasn't been any for quite a while now. The characters behave however they must to move the story forward and they follow no particular arcs. Perhaps, Sai will suddenly become a manipulative and cunning villain in the next week and Pakhi might become the perfect savior, and we won't have any explanation or excuse for why they went through such a sudden change. Because there is no explanation. The writer had a dream, and he was bored, so he went with it. Also, the makers know that trp is fueled with drama, so they will go to whatever extent to show anything that will bring the drama, and in turn bring the trp. And it seems to be working perfectly for them.I feel this could be because the original story was done in 750 episodes and the makers want to milk a top story and have no clue where to go from here , I went and read the synopsis of the Bengali version and there were no kids in it. Story ends with Pakhi reuniting Sai and Virat and getting married to someone else. However since they are extending their story , I’m not complaining and willing to give them a chance to add more flavours and layers to the original. However yes, the characters have taken a toll post the leap and the characters have all gone haywire especially Virat- who has been butchered beyond recognition with mostly dialogues - because I sometimes go back and see old scenes and realise the base character hasn’t really changed but his behaviour and actions surely have …

However, since we are watching the show, and since we are interested in the story, we might try and analyze the behaviors and actions, and mindset of these characters. And since I am a deeply masochistic person, I will do so happily. Masochistic 😂😂😂😂 I agree … I’m guilty of this as well .. sometimes I always wonder do I to feel this for a show then I’m like chaddo.. now I’m addicted I’ll just go with the flow ..

Pakhi loves Vinu the same way she loves (loved?) Virat. Perhaps she believes it to be love, but it is, like you said, an obsession. The thing that makes it certain that her feelings for both her husband and her son are far from love, is her hysterical behavior whenever she feels like she is losing them. She wouldn't give a damn about their feelings, their happiness, and their health, unless and until she sees someone else taking care of them. That's when her fear kicks in. She panics because she knows that in reality, her love for them isn't pure enough to actually bind them to her. Moreover, she cannot imagine them actually loving someone else. Perhaps it is because she is a spoiled only child, but she wants to be the only one they love, the only one they care about. Great observation ! She has always been a spoilt brat who has always had her way. Her initial character graph was very well etched out of a girl who got stuck in a loop because she couldn’t accept she couldn’t get what she wanted and she was trying everything in her capacity to get it without openly admitting it outside. I really liked those episodes at the start where she didn’t want her character to be tarnished in front of her family - while she kept pecking on Virat for the promise he made and she continues to do so even now !

Let's see with Virat. Pakhi didn't love Virat enough to wait for him before getting married. She thought that he was ignoring her and so, to teach him a lesson she decided to get married. And then when her misunderstandings cleared, she didn't break the marriage, she didn't leave him and asked him to move on. Rather, she made him promise that she will be the only person in his life. What kind of person does that? This showed that she didn't care about Virat. She was basically ready to make him suffer for the rest of his life, watching her be with his own brother. She didn't care. For her, it wasn't about being with Virat or loving Virat. For her, it was just that if she can't have Virat, no one else can either. She also made sure she hovered around him to remind him of the promise but when he turned around and said things have changed she wasn’t ready to even accept it - whichever way she was always trying to hold him accountable for the words he had uttered in emotion- so yes she didn’t love him she loved the idea of holding him accountable for the promise he made and never kept as that was the only way she could exercise control over him .. she still does it .. any other self respecting woman would have left after all this but she hung on because she wanted Virat for her own selfish existence more than seeing what made him happy .

The same thing is with Vinu. She didn't care enough about him when it was just him and her, because she had no fear that someone else can show him more love and make a place in his heart. But the moment Sai re-entered their lives, the moment Sai started bonding with him, Pakhi started to lose it.

Pakhi's love for Vinu actually has nothing to do with Virat at all. She isn't as obsessed with Virat now as she was back then. Why? Because she already had him, and by the time she got him, he was so broken, that now she has lost interest. She didn't think of him as something to be desired now. He was desirable only till he was forbidden, only till he was her husband's brother, and only till he was someone else's husband. Now, he is her own, and now, there is someone else with whom she can play this 'only mine' game. Now, there is someone else for whose affection she can fight, and that is Vinu. So she married Virat only because it was her way to get close to him using Vinu and was okay with their very mechanical relationship until Sai reappeared when she realised there is a potential threat ? But the initial episodes post leap showed her making peace with him living with Sai’s memories as she showed off as the mature and understanding wife but her presence brought out her original character again ..

There is no mother's love involved. All there is, is the mindset that this person, whoever they might be, will love and stay with only me. And that is that.

Am I making Pakhi sound sicker? Yes, I am. Is she truly that sick? Yes, she is. She is someone who cares solely for herself. She might show and act like she loves the people around her, but in reality, the only people she shows care towards are the ones who will help her. She is selfish and manipulative. And the worst part is, she herself truly and genuinely believes that she is good, that she is doing no wrong, and that is what makes her not just a bad person, but a dangerous one. No no … her character is sick ! And makes you cringe… I really want Virat to see her for who she is and give it back to her , she never got it from him right from the start and I find that very very unfair .. Virat has been so mean to Sai so many times but always soft on Pakhi, and that’s very annoying .. hope the upcoming sequences will see a change

Originally posted by: Nja91

P is manipulative, selfish and criminal. She cant love anyone but herself. She is the female version of V. Thinks they are mahaan, have only self pity and want validation from all.

I dont want her to her away though by getting labelled as mentally ill in the future.

She even managed to fake suicide, depression each time she's in trouble and uses that as a shield to escape punishment.

@ bold - that's why I want pakrat do not separate ever (and sai moves on) - they are made for each other.... NOT because of any history - chemistry.