Is vinu a selfish brat like his surrogate - Page 3

Originally posted by: Nja91

Theres a spoiler that Vinu will accept Sai. So once thats done, what he chooses will be the question - Sai or P. Will he learn of Sai V marriage and will either of the kids question why he left Sai and chose P over her.

that’s still a long way ahead .. why will they show plots ending so soon

Originally posted by: Coolmeg

I don’t think it’s about luxuries… the boy is traumatized by the way P has feed that jadugarni story to him.

he may think P took him so they can party in London… but subconsciously he knows it was all the fear of P losing him hence she booked with different names etc..

The way P bursted if the terrace added on …. In that all P does is shout at Vinu that you will leave me. Tell me … blah blah forcing the kid into shock

Then that Yashoda narrative

Then BK said Krishna has to go with Devaki

He is constantly listening to one narrative that P is repeating that no one will take you from me

Now Baba is under the spell is also fed my P … Baba came asking to look for what Sai auntie did for him …

So overall he is still in shock and trauma

It’s exactly what is being fed to him is causing this. Imagine is an adult like Sai goes in shock state …. Yeh toh phir bhi bacha hai

Yes he is in continuous trauma .. and a person like patralekha will make him a sitting duck .. just like Devyani ..

Originally posted by: Sinmegh

Yes he is in continuous trauma .. and a person like patralekha will make him a sitting duck .. just like Devyani ..

what i dont get is his sudden change ..Him hating sai is another thing but having temptation over expensive items looks ODD..

Is it just to show the upbringings between both mothers..Surprisingly BK did not tell off when he was buying things from Online..Whereas she has acknowledged how sai has given good values to savi and raised her single-handedly ..well this track is supposed to be long one because sai has to save his child from the clutches of a witch...

Originally posted by: Sinmegh

exactly he was a mature boy of class 3-4 who was wondering in Shivratri why my parents abandoned me .. and suddenly this gandi aunty

it’s like he has found out that his mother is a beggar on street .. and he does not want to go back there

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Okay his mother is gandi aunty

Why didn't he want to know about his father?

Even my 7 year old will laugh if I tell him a story such as the one told to Vinu by Trashy.

Originally posted by: Nirip

Luxuries dont mean that much for Vinu. He is coming across as a weak character like his farzi maa. He has been manipulated to the extent that he has stopped thinking rationally. His biggest fear is abandonment. Uski aai usse phirse chhod sakti hai, jo adopted family hai woh safe rakhegi. Vinu didnt get time to absorb or heal nor did V paid any heed. He doesnt know complete truth....n the way the half-truth has been told damaged his mental health. In the segment, Sai is using this word. I am very happy that they are highlighting P's poison harming mental state of the child. the contrast of upbringing where Savi was fighting with all her might to save herself.

They have to make it dramatic, so badha-chadhke dikha rahde hain,jaise vinu thik ho jayega....P will lose it

I agree. Vinu never really got a chance to absorb the info properly. It was fed to him in a very wrong and negative way. In a way the child has not really realised the fact that Sai is his mother. Because he has always he close to her and like her. So the fact that she is his real mother would have made him happy if it was told to him in an appropriate manner.
Here his mind had been clouded by the poisonous stuff fed to him P. Her story and her emotional manipulation. To top that he had always felt that he was an abandoned child. So he fears losing everything again.
And most importantly P is not giving him that breathing space to think or anyone else to show him the correct picture. So the thought is becoming more and more toxic for the child.
So he is not even able to process that Sai is his mother.

Honestly, even after all this, I cannot bring myself to dislike Vinu at all. It is easier for us to see that Pakhi is wrong, but for Vinu, siding with Pakhi, his mother, is what comes most naturally to him.

Also, Vinu's hectic behaviour is also something understandable. He was always shown to be a sensitive kid, and think about all that has happened in his life recently. He had this image of a family in his mind, and suddenly that entire image has been broken. Everything he has ever believed in is suddenly a lie. That kind of knowledge and that kind of change must have been too emotionally stressful for him.

At this point, he doesn't know who his real family is, so, he is siding with the person who is showing him the most attention, and proving herself to be the most honest and reliable. Unfortunately, for him, the one person who he believes to be his true family is the one who is betraying him the most.

Vinu doesn't believe in the jaadugarni story in the sense that it is real. But his subconscious mind has understood it in the way that Sai is the bad guy who is breaking his family. And why shouldn't he think that? As far as his almost a decade-old life is concerned, he has no reason not to love Pakhi and Virat, and now there is suddenly a woman whose presence single-handedly is making him question his reality.

Moreover, he is confused, for Pakhi, the person whom he trusts the most in the world, is telling him that Sai is wrong, that she is the villain, but in his heart, he has seen her love and care. And he knows deep down that Sai is not the person Pakhi is making her to be. He understands that Pakhi's entire jaadugarni story is not fully fitting the situation.

But still, whom can a 9-year-old believe? The woman who has just entered his life, or the one who has been his mother ever since he was born? So, in that state, he is being with Pakhi, but there is a frustration inside him because he knows that something is wrong, but he doesn't understand what, and since it all began after Sai came back, he is channeling all his frustration, all his fear, all his anger, against Sai.

Basically, his seeing Sai's love and care is not what makes his action weird, but it is what is fuelling it.

His state is not just pitiful. It is heartbreaking.

Exactly! Thank you for putting it out so beautifully! ❤️

Vinu has had too much information to grasp and such information has made him so disoriented that he prefers to stick to the known rather than the unknown. As audience, we know the stories have been fed to him but if you tell any child of 7-8 years, ki your real mother is someone else, the child is bound to feel or even react the same way as Vinu did

Yes exactly. Completely agree. Poor child has too much to process. He has regressed. And Pakhi is keeping him that way.