Is vinu a selfish brat like his surrogate - Page 4

I think all this is done to bring Sai back to chawan house ... because Sai is jiddi...use ghr Lana impossible hai.

For Vinayak I don't want to comment... because makers are showing rubbish story to make Pakhi character strong.

This is all to drag sai vinu union. If vinu would not have been told about jadugarni he would have easily accepted sai toh sairat union nahi hota I guess.they both must unite making team to bring old vinu back . So I guess they are tampering vinu s character.AND I can't see Sai's insult by vinu so I am skipping till anything happens to vinu's thought process

Originally posted by: Colt.Pixy

This is all to drag sai vinu union. If vinu would not have been told about jadugarni he would have easily accepted sai toh sairat union nahi hota I guess.they both must unite making team to bring old vinu back . So I guess they are tampering vinu s character.AND I can't see Sai's insult by vinu so I am skipping till anything happens to vinu's thought process

Haa. See Vinu toh aane hi wala hai Sai ke paas so isliye I am like theek hai jitna time kheech sakte hai these guys are stretching it

Originally posted by: nutmeg7

Vinu has had too much information to grasp and such information has made him so disoriented that he prefers to stick to the known rather than the unknown. As audience, we know the stories have been fed to him but if you tell any child of 7-8 years, ki your real mother is someone else, the child is bound to feel or even react the same way as Vinu did

Why isn’t Virat taking him to child psychiatrist asking one to visit CN? Bk knows that’s what doctor suggested. Or pulkit. They show Sai as all in one doctor then why not Pulkit. Vinu knows him Well. At least make him ready to talk to Sai

Agree. Very nicely put.

My only bone of contention is that Sai is the person who brought that trust in their relationship. She was the one to bring these two close and build that bond. And for him Sai is the epitome of motherhood. And he build his relationship on that. So he can't hate Sai. It is the peripheral, the vicious circle of lies and manipulation that P has built that is making him not see it. She is suffocating him. Once she had revealed the truth and pleaded to him, the child could only capture that part. This itself would have strengthened the jadugarni story. V and BK supporting Sai only added to this belief. In fact he is scared that Sai can influence him.

It is not a difficult task for Sai to get through to him. But the problem is P. She standing as a hindrance, Once Sai gets to spend time without P's interference she will make her place.

Originally posted by: Sherry24

Agree. Very nicely put.

My only bone of contention is that Sai is the person who brought that trust in their relationship. She was the one to bring these two close and build that bond. And for him Sai is the epitome of motherhood. And he build his relationship on that. So he can't hate Sai. It is the peripheral, the vicious circle of lies and manipulation that P has built that is making him not see it. She is suffocating him. Once she had revealed the truth and pleaded to him, the child could only capture that part. This itself would have strengthened the jadugarni story. V and BK supporting Sai only added to this belief. In fact he is scared that Sai can influence him.

It is not a difficult task for Sai to get through to him. But the problem is P. She standing as a hindrance, Once Sai gets to spend time without P's interference she will make her place.

And once Sai do get through to him...it will be the most beautiful moment

How can we blame a child for his actions during such a traumatic period of his life?

There are many cases where children who are adopted after 2 or 3 years old by caring parents, but they show problematic behaviour in their entire school life, or become drug addicts as teenagers, some are not able to accept their adopted parents no matter how much love they give. All because they are unable to come to terms that the biological parents abandoned them.

Within a short period of months, Vinu has discovered that he was adopted, ran away from home looking for his real parents, and when he accepted his adopted parents, he is told in a very scary and traumatic way that his real mother is back and wants to take him away. And also an adult he trusts is poisoning his mind that his real mother is a bad woman. It is not that simple. If this were real life, he will need psychological therapy. Children are very vulnerable.

Savi may have her own reasons for her behaviour.

I understand that Sai has been wronged and is in trauma herself but why should children be expected to understand adults problems?