Why Sai has to get another man ??? - Page 10

Love is not in words...it's in action....and Virat action, care and concern from start has been with Pakhi.....I can't believe it ...he saw Sai trauma of losing Vinu but still he was focused on Pakhi and took her for Honeymoon ....yes Pakhi was physically hit but Sai was mentally tortured and faced her trauma yet again...did Virat even went to Sai and ask her if she is alright after that accident....???did he ask whether Savi is alright too ..???he is concerned only about Pakhi and sometimes Vinu ...what is Sai n Savi doing in the city....?? waiting for the crumbs thrown in their path by Virat and his family???? Virat is so toxic that even though he is least concerned about Sai.he is not letting her move to have her own life.....

as someone rightly said...."Manipulation is when they blame you and focus on your reaction to their toxic behaviour, but never discuss their disrespect that triggered you."

They keep on blaming Sai and can't face the mirror....

Still don't know why Sai s scene in lonavala s added, apart from meeting the new show ka FL.

What's the use of that talk she had to do when she s not going to get any justice.

Hope she meets the couple from the bus accident also . Else it won't serve any purpose.

Still can't believe how CN guys allowed her to take Vinu with her in one second.

Originally posted by: GamesOfLife

Love is not in words...it's in action....and Virat action, care and concern from start has been with Pakhi.....I can't believe it ...he saw Sai trauma of losing Vinu but still he was focused on Pakhi and took her for Honeymoon ....yes Pakhi was physically hit but Sai was mentally tortured and faced her trauma yet again...did Virat even went to Sai and ask her if she is alright after that accident....???did he ask whether Savi is alright too ..???he is concerned only about Pakhi and sometimes Vinu ...what is Sai n Savi doing in the city....?? waiting for the crumbs thrown in their path by Virat and his family???? Virat is so toxic that even though he is least concerned about Sai.he is not letting her move to have her own life.....

See he has made a noise when Sai was with jagtap .. but has Sai made an effort to get a better job .. besides virat ka some connection .. sai has studied in Nagpur .. she must be having some friends here . Even ladies .. the problem they are showing Sai is leading an outcast Wala life ..

If Sai is shown meeting you with her college wale friends milind , aniket who are now practicing doctors .. and Virat starts questioning then we can say . Chavans are not bothered what sai does .. they don’t even allow her to enter the house .. so why should they care who she meets or dates

lack of effort is their lack of interest in you regardless of what they tell you. If they wanted to, they would. Period.

Virat never made efforts for Sai....why was he even waiting for so many yrs if he didn't care whether Sai is alive or dead....imagine if it had been Pakhi coming back from dead....Virat wld have been after her and on his knees that she raised his kid alone and so on and on....makers need to show how Virat love Sai....this is not love.... viewers don't believe that Virat ever loved sai..and this is biggest failure of writers....

Sai shld just run away and hide Savi again....Virat broke so many promises....Sai shld too..and just run for her life and that of her daughter...they r never going to let Sai take Vinu away....not going to happen...so Sai shld just hold on to her daughter and run because Virat will destroy Savi too like he did Sai.... imagine Savi as a teen...and Virat with Pakhi n Vinu... Savi will c how toxic her father is ...it will create childhood truama for her....Sai shld run....

Someone gave a good advice....

Why waste energy trying to convince someone to be by your side when they don't see the value?

Instead, focus on being the best version of yourself and let the right connections come naturally.

Originally posted by: Sinmegh

See he has made a noise when Sai was with jagtap .. but has Sai made an effort to get a better job .. besides virat ka some connection .. sai has studied in Nagpur .. she must be having some friends here . Even ladies .. the problem they are showing Sai is leading an outcast Wala life ..

If Sai is shown meeting you with her college wale friends milind , aniket who are now practicing doctors .. and Virat starts questioning then we can say . Chavans are not bothered what sai does .. they don’t even allow her to enter the house .. so why should they care who she meets or dates

Originally posted by: Sherry24

I would want Sai to have love in her life and her children to herself. She has suffered enough.
But at this particular stage, I would want her to have a friend. How I wish this stranger was a guy she would bond with and share her feelings openly. Finally finding a true friend.
The reason I stress on “this stage” and “ friend” is because of the ambiguity. The presence of indirect narrative vibrations in all that is being shown. I don’t want a “ Mahaan” Chavan talking all the glory!

See if Sai moves on and finds a partner at this point and then V comes out like this was all a plan and he was never unfaithful to Sai, it will only portray V’s loyalty and trust and Sai’s lack of it. Remember how V claimed that Sai can never love someone else? It will turn out that V was never capable of loving anyone else, but Sai was. Sai will then be blamed for breaking the family and leaving V alone. When he only loved her even in her death. He sacrificed so much for his farz, but Sai didn’t stand by him and left him. Just like SH track. He will become the greater one. And gather the sympathy. He only loves her, but she left him.

So Sai should make that choice after the truth is out. And say why despite everything she chooses to never have him back. Whether V is only doing this with a secret motive or he has actually moved on (though I doubt this), it should become clear and then Sai should be the one choosing and making that decision. Not him. He should be the option, not her.
For now I wish she has a friend who also ardently pursues her. Who brings that smile on her face and she experiences all that she was deprived because she ended up with V. But she remains apprehensive. And when V makes his move in her, she clearly states her choice!

Agreed Sherry...want Sai to be the decision maker. This time the narrative is all about V n his faisle. He did give wife status to the woman because of which his family life got ruined. N this fellow is sitting their like that...did/didn't is out of question. If he thinks going with P on holiday was for satsang

The approach, setting is worst. Want a friend to enter...a selfless, platonic one. At least give her a proper work place environment where she has people to interact with other than CN idiots.