Why Sai has to get another man ??? - Page 8

To be honest, Sai should pick up the pieces. She doesn't know she has a battle to fight ahead. She must get rid of her moping attitude. Aisa hi raha toh baanjh Patralekha ko de degi Vinu as khairaat.

Originally posted by: asmi_ekaa

Before all of that she needs to move on from Virat entirely.

Accept that whatever was there between them is over, let go the residual feelings, see him from heart as just Savi's father and also keep away from the family,have no soft corner for them, like she is worried abt Mohit and his marital life, as the family does not care for her..

She really needs to see and feel all of this, in order to have and see another man in that light.

She is still stuck there, she keeps ranting abt Virat, crying for him, while he has in a way moved on from her..Her existence does not really matter to him, but Sai happened to be not able to come out of him..

Half of the time she does things, to see his reaction to it, whether he still cares.. She would never be able to give 100% to another man, if she remains to be this Sai..With Virat in picture she is not even a good daughter or mother, forget abt being a good gf/wife to another man..

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That's absolutely correct she should really accept things as they are. No matter how much she cries or laments or thinks about Virat, it's not gonna change the fact that he's moved on from her. He doesn't care about her existence. If he really loved her he would not have been able to lead a happy married life with Patralekha. He's over there giving soft looks to Patralekha, being attracted to her, going on a honeymoon with her.

And the biggest thing is, Sai DOES NOT deserve someone like Virat. She should atleast not forget that that man had put her in jail without even thinking that she's the mother of his child. No one can stoop lower than Virat.

Accepting the reality and getting rid of those residual feelings for him will solve half of Sai's problems. That's the first thing that she should be doing.

This happens in real life too, I've seen people in the same situation as Sai. These people feel stuck while their exes have happily moved on because they are really good and sincere people who've given their 101% to their relationship and to their partners which is why they find it difficult to get over the partner easily. Sadly it happens in real life too. It's difficult indeed but when you gotta do it you gotta do it. If you don't help yourself, you won't be able to experience the good things that the universe has in store for you. You might think you've lost the greatest thing of your life but might actually happen that the greatest thing is yet to come! This is what Sai needs to understand! She's a beautiful young woman, has a lovely daughter, she's a doctor. She CAN lead a happy life with what she has presently. Then later on if love has to find her it will find her but she to be prepared for that. Or else it will be unfair to that person.

That will definitely happen .. it is given .. she will feel guilty for losing Vinayak and be thankful to patralekha for adopting him .. and give him up .. she herself had told Vinayak that your adoptive parents are your real parents.. don’t search anymore for those who gave you up .. it’s a lost cause .. and I am glad this is the final thing she can lose .. Ab uske baad toh life hi de de ..

Exactly my point .. we cannot blame Chavans right now .. they are not letting her in her life .. it is totally in her control to move out and build her life on her own

Originally posted by: Sinmegh

Yeah but it is virat’s fault .. he failed as a husband and father by not searching properly.. if he can find out about Vinayak right now after years .. he could have done it then also . His family should also have searched ., they wrote them off and blamed Sai

I want Vinayak to go back to sai but it ties her further with virat n Chavan .. as it is with Savi she’s tied to this messy relationship..

She can let go of Vinayak in her heart .. and try to rebuild her life elsewhere .. or agree to take visitation rights with Vinayak .. Vinayak should know that sai is his mom .. and the full truth .. the kids will grow up soon and they will know their biological identity..

Sai has to find a man and move on

I would want Sai to have love in her life and her children to herself. She has suffered enough.
But at this particular stage, I would want her to have a friend. How I wish this stranger was a guy she would bond with and share her feelings openly. Finally finding a true friend.
The reason I stress on “this stage” and “ friend” is because of the ambiguity. The presence of indirect narrative vibrations in all that is being shown. I don’t want a “ Mahaan” Chavan talking all the glory!

See if Sai moves on and finds a partner at this point and then V comes out like this was all a plan and he was never unfaithful to Sai, it will only portray V’s loyalty and trust and Sai’s lack of it. Remember how V claimed that Sai can never love someone else? It will turn out that V was never capable of loving anyone else, but Sai was. Sai will then be blamed for breaking the family and leaving V alone. When he only loved her even in her death. He sacrificed so much for his farz, but Sai didn’t stand by him and left him. Just like SH track. He will become the greater one. And gather the sympathy. He only loves her, but she left him.

So Sai should make that choice after the truth is out. And say why despite everything she chooses to never have him back. Whether V is only doing this with a secret motive or he has actually moved on (though I doubt this), it should become clear and then Sai should be the one choosing and making that decision. Not him. He should be the option, not her.
For now I wish she has a friend who also ardently pursues her. Who brings that smile on her face and she experiences all that she was deprived because she ended up with V. But she remains apprehensive. And when V makes his move in her, she clearly states her choice!

You want a Krish basically!!!! 😉

Originally posted by: mysticriver

Hamare sochne se kiya hota hai jo makers chahenge wohi dikhayenge.

Not saying a woman needs a man to lead life but since Sai never really got knew what true & actual love of husband is in her life, everyone wants her to get the warmth of it. Virat has only given her pain except physical love!

Originally posted by: Moor278

You want a Krish basically!!!! 😉

Though for some reason I find him creepy 🤣

I want Sai to have someone at her corner .. she’s so lonely .. see in yeh rishta akshara is being vilified but akshara has a rich family backing her her own grand parents, brother ..she won’t left to die in the streets like a stray .. Luke Sai was

sai has been kept as an orphan .. nobody cared to find out how she lived , how she survived , how she gave birth to a child .. there’s no curiosity..

Krish is a nice guy .. he is too immature for Sai .. but he has a warm welcoming family