V's anger & Sai's monologue

Let me make it clear that i don't agree with the way V is treatng Sai. But considering this is fiction where everything is exaggerated & in ghum Raja beta has lot of leeway this is how I look at V's behavior.

Sai's monologue yesterday about how she was the one who was there with Savi for all her firsts also explains V's anger. Virat didn't get to enjoy exactly what Sai was talking about. His , no his & Sai's baby's firsts.

When he lost his first child, he was one who handled it badly. His dream of enjoying the journey of parenthood with Sai from pregnancy & beyond was shattered then. he had Sairat child through surrogacy. He was the one who wanted a child desperately & that's why ignored all the wrongs done at that time. All he cared was him having a Sairat baby. but he didn't get to see that child grow. With current Vinu he doesn't have same attachment & he was little older when V adopted him.

So now when he came to know about Savi, he is mad at loosing out on the experience he was longing for ever since he started thinking about family of his own. May be since he fell for Sai. If anyone is a parent, that person will know how precious that is & how much it will hurt to loose on it.

Problem is though he is blaming Sai for his loss when he should be mad at himself, Pakhi & his family. But thats the V the ghum team has for us. So I get his anguish, anger. Its just directed at wrong person. Sai was wrong not informing him about his child, She should have informed him, divorced him & given limited visitation rights. But then how would we get the drama.

The point is not V being angry. Its the fact that he doesn't recognize he is responsible for everything. Why did Sai need to leave or stay away- its because he's untrustworthy. He broke her. He didn't stand by his wife and child when they needed him. He has shamelessly married p. He adopted WITH her another child. And now he is talking about feeling betrayed that Sai didn't tell him. How/when was she supposed to?

Was she supposed to go back and risk another miscarriage when her husband called her a bojh and blamed her for his brothers death or was she supposed to tell him now as soon as they met after seeing him married to another woman with another child!

How long will it be before the doofus realizes his screw ups. And why are the makers writing all characters as V sympathizers. UM, Chavannis- everyone only feels for V. Nobody cares about Sai.

Sai didn't experience all these firsts of Savi alone on purpose. She was alone because V let her be. She was alone and all she had was Savi and this man has cruelly snatched a daughter from her mother.

He can exercise "haq" without scarring the child- by separating her from her mother. But he could not maintain decorum. Contrast this to Sai and how she handled Vinu. She never projected on Vinu her feelings of disgust towards VP. He didn't make Vinu suffer for their crimes or even VP suffer for wronging her. She respectfully took herself out of the equation and maintained distance.

V has been the one to screw up- He did not search for her. Happily assumed her dead. Married P. He did not ever care for/love Sai. He accused her of sleeping with JM. Was Sai supposed to talk to a jerk like him?

Hes only a sperm donor. He does not deserve to be a father. Period.

there

You actually echoed my thoughts..Right now both parents are fightimg for their rights...For Virat its a whole new journey as a father..Vinu is the substitute for Sai..But savi is his dream girl with Sai..I could capture his emotion nut do not support his action....He is going nasty and hitting new low for savi..He is punishing the wrong person again..sai is so right about unless he respects or loves the mother of his child he doesnt deserved to be called baba..The other day he was ready to move on with the person who tormented his beloved wife now how he can claim the child whos mother has been wronged by him many ways..

Originally posted by: Nja91

The pount is not V being angry. Its the fact that he doesn't recognize he us responsible for everything. Why did Sai need to leave or stay away- its because hes untrustworthy. He broke her. He didn't stand by his wife and child when they needed him. He has shamelessly married p. He adopted WITH her another child. And now he is talking about feeling betrayed that Sai didn't tell him. How/when wad she supposed to?

Was she supposed to go back and risk another miscarriage when her husband called her a bojh and blamed her for his brothers death or was she supposed to tell him now as soon as they met after seeing him married to another woman with another child!

How long will it be before the doofus realizes his screw ups. And why are the makers writing all characters as V sympathizers. UM, Chavannis- everyone only feels for V. Nobody cares about Sai.

Sai didn't experience all these firsts of Savi alone on purpose. She was alone because V let her be. She was alone and all she had was Savi and this man has cruelly snatched a daughter from her mother.

He can exercise haq without scarring the child- by separating her from her mother.

V has been the one to screw up- He did not search for her. Happily assumed her dead. Married P. He did not ever care for/love Sai. He accused her of sleeping with JM. Was Sai supposed to talk to a jerk like him?

Hes only a sperm donor. He does not deserve to be a father. Period.

You said it all!

Originally posted by: Shaome

there

You actually echoed my thoughts..Right now both parents are fightimg for their rights...For Virat its a whole new journey as a father..Vinu is the substitute for Sai..But savi is his dream girl with Sai..I could capture his emotion nut do not support his action....He is going nasty and hitting new low for savi..He is punishing the wrong person again..sai is so right about unless he respects or loves the mother of his child he doesnt deserved to be called baba..The other day he was ready to move on with the person who tormented his beloved wife now how he can claim the child whos mother has been wronged by him many ways..

He needs to be told same thing that was said when Ninaad was confronted about his behavior with Ashwini. Like Sai said that day, "i wouldn't have loved or respected my father I do now if my father had ill treated mother". Same applies to V right now.

Virat grew up in the household full of abusive people & that's how he has turned out to be. All CN vasis except may be Devi tai & Manasi bua are selfish people who care only about themselves. Even Samrat included. He too left home for good without thinking about his widowed mother instead of confronting Patralekha & resolving the issue minute he knew about V P relationship. Even later knowing how P's presence affects Sairat relationship, causes hardship for Sai & what kind of person patralekha is , he accepted P & didn't go ahead & divorce her for her to start life afresh away from CN, Sairat. What do you expect from person from that family.

Hes from a terrible family but hes had good examples like KJ who was his guru, good education and he belongs to a profession which should sensitize him to crime , laws, etc. For him to still turn out to be criminal, abusive and the excuse that he's conditioned to be problematic is not acceptable. He bends rules despite being upholder of law. He is selective. On the one hand he gets Sai arrested without an actual FIR which he's going aaramseh to file. He alleges her of "kidnapping" . How?! How can she kidnap her own child. Thd other 2 charges of entering CN , physically assaulting police is goesrly provocation because he has forcibly taken her child away. How else would Sai react?! And then he claims Sai can be allowed to speak to a lawyer because the laws allow it and hes pretending to be righteous! C'mon! What rubbish. The woman was shown getting arrested in the morning, getting no explanation till evening for anything and finally getting one phone call at night. Thats not upholding the law.

They are building it up for Virat vs Sai narrative because that grabs eyeballs. So characters will move accordingly. 😆