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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sab07

After thinking a lot here is what I realized- Vankar has made Sai’s character completely inconsequential.

Yes Things happen in her life but impact of events, Happy or Sad, in Sai’s life is completely discarded since Shruti track. Its like she is collateral damage of Virat n PL’s story, so who cares what happens to her?


For Virat n PL we get episodes spent on their pain n predicament and emotional outbursts but rarely anything for Sai.

Here are events that went completely ignored


- Sai suffered massive heart break in Shruti track, never addressed

- She was kidnapped n severely injured her leg, went all out of her way with injured leg, no impact. We dont even know when n how she recovered

-She suffered abuse by family, literally was wished death upon her n eating out of home for months - it meant nothing

- She saved Virat from false case- ignored
- She caught Thorat - no mention

- Her pregnancy - barley shown
- Her trauma of kidnaping n getting abducted by JM are never shown

- Her miscarriage was made all about Virat and his pain and PL pain loosing Sam.

- Her injury after attack by goon sent by PL - Ignored

- Her suffocation of loosing child, fertility, right to be near fetus - ignored

Post leap it continues

- Her tussle with GR- now doesn’t exist

- Her dream of building hospital - no clue
- Remember she cut her hand in that break down scene- but it was all fine next morning.

- She is helping Kid but focus is all on Virat n PL emotions. Her state is discarded

- At times she says to Virat n PL how she was wronged but does it have any meaning? Because it has no impact on Virat PL or Chavans. No reflection on their part.

At this point it seems they show this random events happening in Sai’s life but it has no impact on Virat or Chavans. They are still doing what they would have been- it makes no sense!
They are making making Sai go through EXTREME SITUATIONS but never show her side or address it or show Virat or Chavan or even a friend to acknowledge it n support.


In most tracks she is back in like a robot next day.


Is it because if they do Virat n Chavans would look like criminal?


Few days ago I read a discussion that PL will go in depression once Virat gets close to Sai cause she is betrayed etc etc- BUT shouldn’t it be Sai??


PL has her own family and Chavans standing like rock by her side. She was obsessed with Virat and has taken him by wrong means.


Sai on other hand has suffered so much at young age- from loosing her Aaba to her love and family.
AGAIN LOSS OF TWO BABIES IS NO JOKE! N after that she sees her husband with her abuser n him n whole family worshiping her like a goddess! And her dream of becoming big doctor is lost in all this mess as well. What does she have?


Shouldnt Sai be the one to be depressed and loose hope on life??

she’s the heroine ..so they are showing her strong…it’s an itv and Bollywood thing to show the heroine suffering immensely and still Coming out strong. Because they are fighters and winners..…we also dont want to see Sai severely depressed and non functional…and they are not saying it..but God seems to be watching out for Sai…she completed her medical degree even though she lost her father and was forced into marriage..so the biggest dream of her youth was realised…yes she lost a baby, had infertility issues, lost an infant son but then she got her miracle baby Savi who eased her pain …so she was fulfilled as a mother..yes she doesn’t have the man she loves..but his heart is with her…now to me..patralekha and Virat have nothing …both are not truly with the person they love…Virat doesn’t love palki …it’s a loveless marriage with no intimacy…they have a child who is not their own..and he doesn’t even care about all they did for him…he’s busy trying to find his real parents, vinayak will dump palki and Virat the moment his real parents want him back..’ So Sai still seems to be living a better life than Virat and pakhi.. Sai has come out a winner after everything she’s been through…and apart from not having Virat in her life..she’s otherwise happy and fulfilled.. she’s living the life of a happy single mother away from toxic in laws ..she has her space and privacy…and she’s learned to put the pain she’s suffered in the past behind and she’s moved forward and living life on her terms…Sais a winner 😀 …she’s everything the modern ŵoman of 2022 should be …empowered, educated, with a good career..yes she’s not making tons of money because that’s not important to her .but she gets all the jobs she tries for…and she has her own home, her lovely little girl …so well done Sai..👍🥰
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Posted: 2 years ago
#12

Originally posted by: Sab07

After thinking a lot here is what I realized- Vankar has made Sai’s character completely inconsequential.

Yes Things happen in her life but impact of events, Happy or Sad, in Sai’s life is completely discarded since Shruti track. Its like she is collateral damage of Virat n PL’s story, so who cares what happens to her?


For Virat n PL we get episodes spent on their pain n predicament and emotional outbursts but rarely anything for Sai.

Here are events that went completely ignored


- Sai suffered massive heart break in Shruti track, never addressed

- She was kidnapped n severely injured her leg, went all out of her way with injured leg, no impact. We dont even know when n how she recovered

-She suffered abuse by family, literally was wished death upon her n eating out of home for months - it meant nothing

- She saved Virat from false case- ignored
- She caught Thorat - no mention

- Her pregnancy - barley shown
- Her trauma of kidnaping n getting abducted by JM are never shown

- Her miscarriage was made all about Virat and his pain and PL pain loosing Sam.

- Her injury after attack by goon sent by PL - Ignored

- Her suffocation of loosing child, fertility, right to be near fetus - ignored

Post leap it continues

- Her tussle with GR- now doesn’t exist

- Her dream of building hospital - no clue
- Remember she cut her hand in that break down scene- but it was all fine next morning.

- She is helping Kid but focus is all on Virat n PL emotions. Her state is discarded

- At times she says to Virat n PL how she was wronged but does it have any meaning? Because it has no impact on Virat PL or Chavans. No reflection on their part.

At this point it seems they show this random events happening in Sai’s life but it has no impact on Virat or Chavans. They are still doing what they would have been- it makes no sense!
They are making making Sai go through EXTREME SITUATIONS but never show her side or address it or show Virat or Chavan or even a friend to acknowledge it n support.


In most tracks she is back in like a robot next day.


Is it because if they do Virat n Chavans would look like criminal?


Few days ago I read a discussion that PL will go in depression once Virat gets close to Sai cause she is betrayed etc etc- BUT shouldn’t it be Sai??


PL has her own family and Chavans standing like rock by her side. She was obsessed with Virat and has taken him by wrong means.


Sai on other hand has suffered so much at young age- from loosing her Aaba to her love and family.
AGAIN LOSS OF TWO BABIES IS NO JOKE! N after that she sees her husband with her abuser n him n whole family worshiping her like a goddess! And her dream of becoming big doctor is lost in all this mess as well. What does she have?


Shouldnt Sai be the one to be depressed and loose hope on life??

yes but we don’t want a weak Sai..this fighter Sai is great.. maybe they have written her to be this strong woman…e.g. after she was told she’d never have children..she was sad but she did not lose hope she went the surrogacy route, after losing vinayak when she wanted to stop living…God gave her another baby who helped her heal and became her reason to live, and the 6 years she was away from Virat , she led a peaceful life with her child and she was making a difference in the village as she was their only doctor ..and they never lived in poverty..they had a nice home and food and maybe she didn’t have added luxuries..but her child was happy ..and this we ascertained from watching the episodes..so Sai created a peaceful life for herself and Savi and she was content. As for her career..she can go out and get a job whenever she wants,.the orphanage gave her a job immediately and when she quit she had some other job interviews lined up..so her career as a doctor is still functional…she just needs to get herself employed..but she has her degree and her many years of experience.. So I think they are showing us Sai as this amazing woman…I think she’s one of the best female leads written on itv shows.. yrkkh heroines naira and akshara can’t compare with her..😀
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Posted: 2 years ago
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sai is NOY inconsequential because the story revolves aeound her...Ither cgaracter actions effects her life ...Though the narrative has changed a lot from KD hence she no longer drives the story neither virat does....Vanker's vission is different from KD..Overherre since the beginning its Jagtap who drives the story unlike KD...

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Posted: 2 years ago
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I don’t understand one thing. A person not losing hope and not going into depression is the best thing that can happen right? I would want to be like sai because of her inner strength to cope up and live.

I am not arguing but just drawing attention to the important trait of sai. I don’t see her going into depression. She can find purpose from nothing. 👍
She did fall low twice once when her aaba died and once when she thought she went away from virat . After that she learnt to fight

Edited by sadiltl - 2 years ago
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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: sadiltl

I don’t understand one thing. A person not losing hope and not going into depression is the best thing that can happen right? I would want to be like sai because of her inner strength to cope up and live.

I am not arguing but just drawing attention to the important trait of sai. I don’t see her going into depression. She can find purpose from nothing. 👍
She did fall low twice once when her aaba died and once when she thought she went away from virat . After that she learnt to fight



That’s what! Just cause she didn’t stop and sit to cry she becomes a doormat and inconsequential!? How?

Sai is extremely strong and very sorted in her mind. She knows how people around her and has become cautious.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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I dont think shes inconsequential but shes definitely not given due tehraav to voice out her feelings and others don't react to her feelings as much as they should- her pain and her achievements. Its always glossed over.

But they make sure Sai is involved in every track in someway or another because otherwise audience wont watch. They made sure V said Sai's name one or two times customarily post leap so that TRP audience wont stop watching. Online folks will still FF. But they make Sai an integral part of the narrative. Only they forget to dwell on her getting closure. They spend weeks and months on her going through something but then gloss over the resolution of conflict/problems too quickly.

Like I know that we got like 4-5 episodes of drag of Sai in jail but Sai-Savi reunion will be only half an episode.

We got months of Shruti , surrogacy nonsense but when time came to resolve it- confession was rushed, and P pardafaash was rushed.

Whenever something good happens in Sai's life, its rushed, shot with BDs or theres a parallel track happenening or P shoved in. Thats their pattern which is a nuisance.

Confession was marred by bahu-biwi vs career

Miscarriage was focused on P doing plotting and Vs dukh dard, BKs nonsense. No time spent on Sais pain at losing her child and dealing all alone and Sam death was also parallel.

Every good scene of Sai-V except mimo and few immediate post marriage, GC scenes have been marred by P

When Sai died as per V, there was NO time spent on anyone grieving her. How can they not spend even 1 episode on Sai's "death". Even Sam got more.

Also theres NOT one good supporting character in Sai's life to balance out the Chavannis crap so its very tilted. Pullu, DIG, UM are all utterly bakwaas. And they created elaborate kankauli setup but didn't give one good character proSai there.

ITV female leads are supposed to be strong, tolerant and forgiving but what they dont factor in is that we want to see due time given yo resolution of every conflict.

Thats why it feels very imbalanced and annoying.

Its like only audience remembers what all Sai has gone through, nobody else does!

Sai herself refers to it once in a while in passing but is often made to never address her issues.

Until they were copying KD also, there were many good scenes skipped. Like when confession happens Emon-Rono talk about RK, Emons insecurities. Same around Shruti track too. When Emon was kidnapped, Rono had a very tender conversation afterwards with her about how it wouldn't matter to him if she had been physically assaulted because Emon has made him more "liberal" and upright..there wee many small moments of Rono- Emon physical intimacy in a very spousal manner- back hugs, caressing each other, cuddling in bed, hugs - which were either rushed or completely omitted in Ghkkpm.

And now that they have stopped KD and switched to their own narrative to accommodate unprofessional duo, they have forgotten the dynamics completely. They are ruining any good memories also by recreating VP scenes around it.

And post leap theres been a huge difference in the FBs shown to us of V vs Sai. In Sais case they didn't care to ahow how Sai built her life. In Vs case they made it se like he was upset but that also was all about bechaara V who is alone because Sai stubbornly left and everyone coddling him. Never about V actually remembering Sai and what all he said to her. He didn't have one monologue also to just say- Where are you Sai, why did you go, why didn't you take me with you, i just want to be with you. He didn't hold on to any memories of her- a mangalsutra, a gift, a dress, a photo. Nothing.

He eventually tore the only photo he had kept too.

So basically theres neither good memories left because its ruined by VP recreations, nor is there any scope of V redemption, nor is Sai the FL we are rooting for getting enough time to grieve, speak about her feelings. They show her breakdown but always alone and rush it. And Ayesha does a great job but sometimes we need an acknowledgement of her suffering, her challenges.

Sai is the hero, the protagonist but the plot is always proV and V, P, chavannis whitewash and Sai forgiving them.

Edited by Nja91 - 2 years ago
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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: FlauntPessimism


Kutumbh and Kyunki had huge track for male lead redemption

I have no expectations but if Virat has a huge track for redemption, it will do good for his character that has gone downhill

Edited by nutmeg7 - 2 years ago
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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shaome

sai is NOY inconsequential because the story revolves aeound her...Ither cgaracter actions effects her life ...Though the narrative has changed a lot from KD hence she no longer drives the story neither virat does....Vanker's vission is different from KD..Overherre since the beginning its Jagtap who drives the story unlike KD...


yes correct .. jagtap drives the story to a shocking twist .. it was made clear ..when Sai n jagtap had the jail Wala conversation..

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: sadiltl

I don’t understand one thing. A person not losing hope and not going into depression is the best thing that can happen right? I would want to be like sai because of her inner strength to cope up and live.

I am not arguing but just drawing attention to the important trait of sai. I don’t see her going into depression. She can find purpose from nothing. 👍
She did fall low twice once when her aaba died and once when she thought she went away from virat . After that she learnt to fight

Not saying she should but that point was made in relation to PL. Since Before her getting depressed it was justified that she may get depressed as she feels betrayed by Virat.

PL has potential to become an overly obsessive lover but not depressed. She turned vile to get Virat, her want for him brings worst out of her.


What Sai goes through are no small event. It was tolerable till it was mirch masala type dispute n verbal spat. Now showing her face Rape attempts, kidnaping, witnessing brutal murders of loved ones infront of her eyes, domestic violence when pregnant, loss of fetus, infertility- are no small event! Even just one can severely impact someone’s life. On top Sai has no family to fall back on. No one who guides her keeping her interest in mind. Such people have more potential to break down not an obsessive PL. Plus Sai tried to end her life when her Aba passed away. She has the tendency.

Coming back to my Point - Here makers way of showing Sai is strong = forget anything and everything she goes through. That is where problem is. We see Virat n PL cry buckets for anything that happens but Sai acts so casual next day after rape attempt inside her home! No mention to husband even! Neither anything from his side.

Sai character goes through these extreme events but none addressed. They are basically showing Sai as collateral damage of Virakhi story. Hence what happens to her is shown but its impact discarded.

N again it wasn’t intolerable till it was verbal spat n small incidents now they r legit severe crimes.


PS: I just spent hours scrolling Sai n Virat clips on Insta- old , new many. One thing I noticed is since Shruti track the execution n narrative has changed significantly.

Edited by Sab07 - 2 years ago
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Posted: 2 years ago
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Sai is a strong lady and is not inconsequential. Whenever she gets abused by people, she gives them back.


PL is obsessed with Virat, and her life revolves around Virat. Though she knows Virat does not love her the way she does, she is delusional.


She inappropriately acquired Virat but is insecure that she would lose him again.


She also asked Virat whether he would choose her or Sai when it came to that. Virat did not give her the answer she wanted. Yes, she was intoxicated. But an intoxicated person does not lie.

If Virat leaves PL, that's the end of her world, but Sai does not depend on Virat.


Yes, she forgave Virat many times, but it was out of his emotional outbursts and the society.

Edited by kavitha_r - 2 years ago

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