Sai is inconsequential (!?)

After thinking a lot here is what I realized- Vankar has made Sai’s character completely inconsequential.

Yes Things happen in her life but impact of events, Happy or Sad, in Sai’s life is completely discarded since Shruti track. Its like she is collateral damage of Virat n PL’s story, so who cares what happens to her?

For Virat n PL we get episodes spent on their pain n predicament and emotional outbursts but rarely anything for Sai.

Here are events that went completely ignored

- Sai suffered massive heart break in Shruti track, never addressed

- She was kidnapped n severely injured her leg, went all out of her way with injured leg, no impact. We dont even know when n how she recovered

-She suffered abuse by family, literally was wished death upon her n eating out of home for months - it meant nothing

- She saved Virat from false case- ignored
- She caught Thorat - no mention

- Her pregnancy - barley shown
- Her trauma of kidnaping n getting abducted by JM are never shown

- Her miscarriage was made all about Virat and his pain and PL pain loosing Sam.

- Her injury after attack by goon sent by PL - Ignored

- Her suffocation of loosing child, fertility, right to be near fetus - ignored

Post leap it continues

- Her tussle with GR- now doesn’t exist

- Her dream of building hospital - no clue
- Remember she cut her hand in that break down scene- but it was all fine next morning.

- She is helping Kid but focus is all on Virat n PL emotions. Her state is discarded

- At times she says to Virat n PL how she was wronged but does it have any meaning? Because it has no impact on Virat PL or Chavans. No reflection on their part.

At this point it seems they show this random events happening in Sai’s life but it has no impact on Virat or Chavans. They are still doing what they would have been- it makes no sense!
They are making making Sai go through EXTREME SITUATIONS but never show her side or address it or show Virat or Chavan or even a friend to acknowledge it n support.

In most tracks she is back in like a robot next day.

Is it because if they do Virat n Chavans would look like criminal?

Few days ago I read a discussion that PL will go in depression once Virat gets close to Sai cause she is betrayed etc etc- BUT shouldn’t it be Sai??

PL has her own family and Chavans standing like rock by her side. She was obsessed with Virat and has taken him by wrong means.

Sai on other hand has suffered so much at young age- from loosing her Aaba to her love and family.
AGAIN LOSS OF TWO BABIES IS NO JOKE! N after that she sees her husband with her abuser n him n whole family worshiping her like a goddess! And her dream of becoming big doctor is lost in all this mess as well. What does she have?

Shouldnt Sai be the one to be depressed and loose hope on life??

this is where my problem lies..This is the first show ever where FL pains are never addressed..As if Sai is mandir ka ghanta..

Since the shruti track she has been wronged many ways and virat had pushed her to beyond the limit that she had to leave everything..Now she is living her worst fear..But she accepted that..

Vanker at least could have broight divorce drama..But he is hell bent on trying to attach P in the story ..On top of that she is living such shoddy life being a topper..She was about to build a hospital now does not even have a penny to buy food for her kid..

i dont where this story is heading but she should not enter cn untill chavanis fall on her feet..

Originally posted by: Shaome

this is where my problem lies..This is the first show ever where FL pains are never addressed..As if Sai is mandir ka ghanta..

Since the shruti track she has been wronged many ways and virat had pushed to beyond the limit that she had to leave everything..Now she is living her worst fear..But she accepted that..

Vanker at least could have broight divorce drama..But he is hell bent on trying to attach P in the story ..On top of that she is living such shoddy life being a topper..She was about to build a hospital now does not even have a penny to food for her kid..

i dont where this story is heading but she should not enter cn untill chavanis fall on her feet..

YEsterday episode made me really sad.

They will make Sai worship PL as well it seems. Give her character certificate.

My point is— No matter how strong any oerson is they can never endure this amount of pain in life without getting affected. The way Sai is right now it feels robotic.

Literally since Shruti track they have not given her moment of respite. Even confession came with career drama.

I feel after bring back fierce Sai Joshi trend they decided to make her suffer every thing without a word- enduring abuse, emotional n physical trauma, infidelity is not being strong n positive person.

I m so upset at this narrative. 💔💔💔

That’s why I stopped watching this show. No matter how much she suffers, she is made to kowtow to the whims and fancies of the chavannis.

It is sad fact. Honestly more than pakhi sai character embarasses me as a woman.

Pakhi never lets anyone disrespect her, even though she begs for virat's attention, she always made sure virat apologize to her everytime, gave back sai 1000 times more insults whenever sai tried to show her place as virat's bhabi. Whole family literally worshipped her, she made sure to get an apology even from kaku everytime. From samrat to virat everyone literally worshipped her by hiding her wrong doings and supporting her badly. She made sure to get everyone respect in that family despite her crimes.

What did sai get? She easily let's virat and his family insult her, she literally says silent when they insult her dead parents and the next minute unapologically praises them.

Even a character like Gopi got more respect than sai.

I honestly never seen a female lead getting insulted like this literally by every character in the show.

They made her get insulted by her own 4 years daughter too.

I don't know people definition of strong. As they claim her character as strong.

But no strong woman will let someone insult her for no reason everytime and worship them in the name of family.

If this isn't the definition of doormat then what it is?

And people should cut the crap of giving love and compromise as an excuse to humiliation acceptance.

Kd was emon story but ghum is vp story.

In kd Shruti track was brought to show trust issues and angsty between couple

In ghum it was shown to delay confession.

In kd emon pregnancy period showed with whole family and rono happily celebrating her baby shower.

In ghum, sai became infertile so that pakhi can be surrogate.

In kd jagtap track was brought to show rono trust on emon, he literally says my love for u won't change even if he raped you.

In ghum it was brought to kill samrat so that pakhi can physically and mentally abuse sai and everyone can make her guilt including her so called husband.

She has savi not because she can enjoy motherhood like emon.

But because that kid can remind her virat everytime and torture her with baba jap constantly.

They brought jagtap post leap to justify virat accepting a criminal like pakhi and justify virat's jerk behaviour.

This show is anything but Sai's story.

People in delusion that trp audience watch this show for sairat.

If it's the trust there won't be rise in trp for all the weeks where there is plenty scenes of vp as married couple.

They just watch the show for drama.

This is coming from ex sai fan.

My like for her died when she said where will virat sir go when pulkit says u shouldn't accept virat with sahas if shruti dies.

How disgusting this dialogue is.

She was ready to accept him had he come back to her after Shruti death by easily forgetting his cheating.

That one dialogue killed sai for me and her cringe behaviour after sada kidnapping is last straw.

She is in same phase now. She will run like a puppy behind virat if he says I want u back.

I lost respect for sai when she chose to go back to CN after Virat doubted her character. That was the last straw. A fl, who doesn’t have self respect, is not worth my time to bother about.

Originally posted by: Lostin90s

I lost respect for sai when she chose to go back to CN after Virat doubted her character. That was the last straw. A fl, who doesn’t have self respect, is not worth my time to bother about.

She didn't even took a day to forgive the person who questioned her character, who insulted her innocent friend. All he has to do is cry for her to forgive him.

I remember yhc, the same track but rudransh got months of redemption with him touching preesha feet genuinely with guilt . Then only she forgave him. The difference.

Well yhm and yhc r d only ekta shows where d redemption for male lead is shown

Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

It is sad fact. Honestly more than pakhi sai character embarasses me as a woman.

Pakhi never lets anyone disrespect her, even though she begs for virat's attention, she always made sure virat apologize to her everytime, gave back sai 1000 times more insults whenever sai tried to show her place as virat's bhabi. Whole family literally worshipped her, she made sure to get an apology even from kaku everytime. From samrat to virat everyone literally worshipped her by hiding her wrong doings and supporting her badly. She made sure to get everyone respect in that family despite her crimes.

What did sai get? She easily let's virat and his family insult her, she literally says silent when they insult her dead parents and the next minute unapologically praises them.

Even a character like Gopi got more respect than sai.

I honestly never seen a female lead getting insulted like this literally by every character in the show.

They made her get insulted by her own 4 years daughter too.

I don't know people definition of strong. As they claim her character as strong.

But no strong woman will let someone insult her for no reason everytime and worship them in the name of family.

If this isn't the definition of doormat then what it is?

And people should cut the crap of giving love and compromise as an excuse to humiliation acceptance.

Kd was emon story but ghum is vp story.

In kd Shruti track was brought to show trust issues and angsty between couple

In ghum it was shown to delay confession.

In kd emon pregnancy period showed with whole family and rono happily celebrating her baby shower.

In ghum, sai became infertile so that pakhi can be surrogate.

In kd jagtap track was brought to show rono trust on emon, he literally says my love for u won't change even if he raped you.

In ghum it was brought to kill samrat so that pakhi can physically and mentally abuse sai and everyone can make her guilt including her so called husband.

She has savi not because she can enjoy motherhood like emon.

But because that kid can remind her virat everytime and torture her with baba jap constantly.

They brought jagtap post leap to justify virat accepting a criminal like pakhi and justify virat's jerk behaviour.

This show is anything but Sai's story.

People in delusion that trp audience watch this show for sairat.

If it's the trust there won't be rise in trp for all the weeks where there is plenty scenes of vp as married couple.

They just watch the show for drama.

This is coming from ex sai fan.

My like for her died when she said where will virat sir go when pulkit says u shouldn't accept virat with sahas if shruti dies.

How disgusting this dialogue is.

She was ready to accept him had he come back to her after Shruti death by easily forgetting his cheating.

That one dialogue killed sai for me and her cringe behaviour after sada kidnapping is last straw.

She is in same phase now. She will run like a puppy behind Virat if he says I want u back.

Originally posted by: Dewdrops1995

Well yhm and yhc r d only ekta shows where d redemption for male lead is shown

Kutumbh and Kyunki had huge track for male lead redemption