Time can never mend .. careless whisper - Page 35

Originally posted by: sadiltl

Hey i am not taking it against me! :) never will. it is good to have a discussion. I was just clarifying because we all changed our opinions a bit after yesterday's episode. 😊

Hum bhi palti marte hai, Chavannis ki tarah 😉

Originally posted by: szsiddiqa

Trust me, kids have ears. They hear things that they are not supposed to. No matter how the fam erased the existence of Sai and probably never speak of her in the house, neighbors hai na, unke bacche toh school mein padhte honge na. We know Vinu is bullied, so kids could have taunted him. Vinu would be aware but he is not of the age or nature to question anyone.

He has seen baba alone, sad and distant with mumma. So he might have figured it out. And obviously who do you share with? With strangers you feel a connection. He must have blurted out.

This could also be his secret wish, wish that my aai was with me and my baba. Savi is able to openly demand, but Vinu would be hesitant.

Can't agree more

I have seen it in my house too

Originally posted by: szsiddiqa

Trust me, kids have ears. They hear things that they are not supposed to. No matter how the fam erased the existence of Sai and probably never speak of her in the house, neighbors hai na, unke bacche toh school mein padhte honge na. We know Vinu is bullied, so kids could have taunted him. Vinu would be aware but he is not of the age or nature to question anyone.

He has seen baba alone, sad and distant with mumma. So he might have figured it out. And obviously who do you share with? With strangers you feel a connection. He must have blurted out.

This could also be his secret wish, wish that my aai was with me and my baba. Savi is able to openly demand, but Vinu would be hesitant.

Agree with kids understanding dynamics of family.
But him to know Virat had wife n she can make him feel better n she is his aai feels bit too far fetched idea for me.

They want to show Sai will see Virat has someone in his life and he is moved on to a point that his now wife can even calm him down. Just intensify that.

But lets see what they show.

As I always say- will be happy if proven wrong.


A lingering thought- If anything that boy is seeing worst side of his father after meeting Sai, side he has never seen when he is with PL, he is calm and loving, for a child that doesn’t like fights it may be too much.

Very true, Sai is going to interpret differently and it is to intensify her distress. But whether he referred Mumma or Aai, what difference it would make to Sai, she gets it that he has a wife and child and has moved on.

The discussion is who Vinu was referring to. Because Mumma is P, so who is Aai?

True Vinu couldnt have seen the crying, rash driving, angry young(?) man avatar before. But he doesnt know yet that is because of his Doc aunty.

Originally posted by: szsiddiqa

Very true, Sai is going to interpret differently and it is to intensify her distress. But whether he referred Mumma or Aai, what difference it would make to Sai, she gets it that he has a wife and child and has moved on.

The discussion is who Vinu was referring to. Because Mumma is P, so who is Aai?

To me he is referring to aai- a woman- who can pacify Virat n handle this situation.
From what they have shown so far its either his own aai / maa - PL.

or Virat ki aai- Ashwini.

But yes for Sai its woman he married.

Originally posted by: nutmeg7

I honestly don't want Patralekha to know about Vinu's asli parents beforehand. I want her to be shocked, lose feet under her ground when she hears the news. I want Virat to take Vinu's hand from her hand and give it to Sai just as he had done years ago. I want Patralekha to feel that pain of losing a "child" whose dreams and aspirations she had nurtured from so many years

Hmm. That will be poetic justice but it's Ghum so...

Btw I felt the godh bharai episode intimacy >>>>> today's episode.

There were many good moments. Even a head kiss which rarely happens in ghum...

Why can't they write him like that always with Sai 🙄

Originally posted by: Rosyme

I'm not telling against you.

But one point is that Sai doesn't know Virat came and saw there. She must be thinking he doesn't know about the accident.

Maybe Usha mausi didn't tell Sai that she informed the Chawans. Or she met Usha much later. don't know.

Poor girl she was irritated with him for not giving him priority. He was not giving even basic rights to her.

I feel they should have shown Virat more caring and loving to Sai post confession. Audience is not able to connect to him esp during surrogacy etc.

See how caring he's to P now. But he totally neglected Sai after confession. So unable to feel his love as much as he talks about it.

Before Shruti track he was caring to her Many times.

After Shruti can't connect with him. They don't show much romance also to believe. Kartik naira romance was another level.

Before any romance to begin, virat should for once say that he was wrong in choosing p over Sai preleap. Just saying i was wrong not to stop you wont. He needs to assure her that she is his wife...her feelings and respect will be his priority. Know mushkil hai ghum mei yeh dikh jaye but still hopeful that they can redeem virat. His realisation that i suffered because of my choice... it should be addressed.

Btw anyone have idea where's the shooting going on. Has Virat/Neil permanently gone back & shooting in CN what about Tanmay...

It actually makes sense if she did all this knowingly. She knew that after Sai, the only person to who could keep V in his senses was Vinu. So she kept him away. And then later after he has grown up a lil, she gets V to meet him and bond well. And later got him to CN as a noble act to save V.

See with surrogacy, she has no right over Vinu. This way she becomes the mother to Vinu legally and also uses him as a tool to get to V.

In the process, she has also started to love him. Hence, she does feel offended that he is not that close to her as V. She has not been accepted completely.

And I did mention this sometime back, that scene did not have a karmic end. V did take Vinu from Sai and give it to P. But if you noticed, when P was arrested, V asked Shivani to take away Vinu from her. So. for the same reasons V will at some point do the same to bring it to a full circle. He once took away his son from his mother and then returned it. So it would be painful and she will realise the pain Sai went through due to P.

For the rest, she would have never thought that anyone would have ever figured out Vinu's truth. She was anyways not counting on Sai to return. So this will be an unexpected hit. And this will make the family resent and hate her.

Originally posted by: Moor278

I had a theory on Vinu ka adoption... Pata nahi Kitna possible hai... throwing it out here... Dekho kya lagta hai 🤣

P had genuine regret at Sai and Vinus death.

Went to Mahabaleshwar to repent in Samrats orphanage.

Biological Vinu somehow landed up there.

P recognised him and was anyway obsessed with him.

Meanwhile, the kid was lost when he was barely 15 days old. Sai mentions this at the accident site. I remember clearly.

Babies undergo rapid change. So logically people recognising him seems a bit stretched.

V was lost, must have started getting over after some time. If P brings Vinu back after a year or so... then Vinu is 2-3 years old. He may be aware that he was not born in CN or he is not from there. It's difficult to explain to a 2 year old about adoption but he can guess that his home has changed.

Seeing V recover quickly after meeting Vinu and P ka true repentance, Ash asks V to marry P. By giving some kasam or something. I cannot find a logical reason yet why V would marry P... unless it's a manipulation of this level.

P all along knows that this is biological Vinu but hides this fact to keep everyone under control and keeping up her new positive image. Also getting married to V in the process.

So it is only when Vinu is in need of some genes/blood/bone marrow stuff will his parentage come out.

@msin... while I get your idea, I can't guess what purpose it will serve in the story if he is not biological.

Right now, P is attached to V in a marriage because of Vinu. There's nothing other than that which can bind them. So if Vinu is adopted, how and why will virakhi marriage break and Sairat patchup?

Greedy me always want P to be negative so that she can be removed like makhi from doodh. See if P is hiding the fact that indeed it's real vinu phir to wo gyi....but kia vanku usse devi k throne se utaregaa lagta nhi🤣

Moor kisi bhi reason se yeh VP shadi fit nhi ho rahi plot mei....kasam ya vaada apko uss aurat se shadi karne k liye mazboor kaise kar sakta hai jiski wajahse aapne sab khoya ho....yeh shadi aaj bhi misfit hai, kal bhi misfit rahegi.

Or they married for adoption