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Posted: 3 years ago

How does fake marrying her equal taking responsibility for her mental health?! Yes he feels responsible for her state but enabling her delusions is not the solution! It got this far because he allowed her way too much leeway and interference in the first place. He didn't nip things in the bud and trusted her over and over, allowed her into his life and marriage and today she's a Virat obsessed maniac and criminal. If he was ONLY taking responsibility for pp's health he would ONLY be funding her treatment, a nurse 24x7 for her etc. , He should not be entertaining her as his wife and as mother to his child. If he only loves Sai, he should have remained single forever. If he felt the need to move on by adopting a child, he could have done it alone or with a sane human being- not pp. If pp brought vinu into his life and that made him find a purpose he could have still remained in the child's life as a father figure. If Sam-pp had a xhild, he'd be a kaka, a father figure. Why didn't he do that?! He didn't have to get married to her and make pp the mother! He can pay for his mistakes and poor decisions by suffering alone. How is being with pp as a husband and father to her child acceptable?! Its utterly disrespectful to his dead wife's memories that he would choose to take pp's responsibility on himself and in the process Sai's identity as his wife no longer holds. Sai's every memory from CN is gone. sai's room with V which should have been a sacred space- its being corrupted by pp who is living there as his wife even if its namesake. This is the woman who ruined Sai's life, their marriage. He is also responsible - yes. But the lesson learnt should be that he cuts ties off from pp forever, not to live with her as a husband! I'm sorry but its utter insanity. If V had married another woman - I would be upset that he moved on from Sai and remarried but I would not be able to fault him. Because if he thought his spouse died he can move on in life. But tying himself down to the very woman because of whom his wife left him, died is ridiculous!

If Sai was dead and looking at him from above, was she supposed to feel at peace knowing that instead of ensuring pp was maximally punished for her crimes or sent to an asylum because shes mentally deranged , he chose to bind himself to her forever and raise a child with her?! Seriously?!

His dead wife left him because of pp and he is honoring her memory by playing ghar ghar with the same woman who destroyed Sai's life. Waah. And koi puche toh he will say- not "real" ghar ghar, bass namesake hai! But still lifelong obligation tiwards pp..Sure. amazing. Whatta guy!

When Sai comes back, Is Sai supposed to believe that he loves her only but he decided to make pp his wife out of pity?! namesake or not- at the end of the day he has chosen to call pp his wife in public domain! They have a child together!

When Sai comes back, is she supposed to assume blame that he was "forced to" marry pp because she didn't exist. And that if she was alive he'd not cross the line. The man who violated her reproductive right, who put pp above her throughout pregnancy/surrogacy and disnt understand her valid concerns, snatched her baby and gave it to pp, who despite knowing pp crimes bailed her out and expected Sai to live under the same roof as her wrongdoer, who didn't even care to investigate if she's really dead, who called her an orphan, a bojh, a samjhauta - shes supposed to believe that this sorry exuse of a human would not have done something ridiculous if she was alive and not dead to him?! He'd have faked being husband to pp with Sai around also just like in KD and expected ber to understand. Simple. Basically he takes Sai for Granted and has no consideration of her feelings.

If Sai had thought V was dead and remarried for namesake- how would he feel? Would he be cool with it just coz its a "namesake" shaadi.


Addendum 1

It was ridiculous even in KD and Emon rightfully walked out when Rono didn't heed her concerns or do the right thing and behaved like an insensitive jerk.

And its even more ridiculous here that he has entered into a lifelong commitment towards pp out of guilt or pressure or whatever. He has even got a wedding photo with her in their room and is sharing the same room with pp now as her husband. His dead wife's memories are all gone even though PP actually acknowledges that he still remembers Sai and Sai was his first wife. Despite that Sai isnt even getting a garlanded photo. He has a CHILD with pp- adopted ho toh kya, he is raising a family with pp! Thats the fact.

Please honestly tell me this, is Sai really supposed to be feel better about the situation because he has a "namesake" marriage with pp and not out of love. Uss seh kya hojayega.

And if Sai didn't hide, would he not have pulled the same stunt like in KD regardless because thats how insensitive and pathetic he is ...

If Sai was really dead and her ghost saw him with PP as her husband even if it were "namesake" - would she be at peace?

So whether Sai was alive or dead she is getting taken for granted because Vs "responsibility" towards pp trumps all logic and sanity.

Addendum 2

Even if we assume V was cornered and trapped into marrying pp for mental illness reasons like in KD - as soon as he realized that was moving from a"temporary" fix to something permanent, he should have taken action.. Just because Sai is dead is he just gonna be lifelong namesake married to pp now?! It looks like he genuinely believes shes reformed. So if shes reformed and Sai is dead,he has just continued the facade forever. Seriously?! Is he not bothered by her presence in his bedroom and life constantly? How is he not disgusted by her?! Does he really think that because shes "reformed"she can continue to remain a "friend" and "family" to him. So she committed crimes and her punishment is that she gets what she always wanted- to be his wife, Sai out of the way and everyone treating her as the maalkin.

I feel that all we will get is Sai bashing and Sai being held responsible for everything. Because Sai's death will be identified as the reason V remarried, he will say he is obliged to nibhao the remarriage now until either pp "frees" him herself or there is reveal of how pp has been fooling everyone for all these years and how she's been evil this whole time and never reformed. Irrespective of that, damage is done and Sairat are dead. Sai is heartbroken.

Edited by Nja91 - 3 years ago
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Posted: 3 years ago

no marriage, fake or real is cool.

But in KD, he was asked to create a world, where they are married so she can come out of suicidal thoughts. I know it is dumb. but much better than real marriage right . read this.

https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/tv/news/bengali/kusum-dola-written-update-august-1-2018-ranajay-consults-with-the-doctor/articleshow/65240725.cms


https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/tv/news/bengali/kusum-dola-written-update-august-2-2018-ranajay-promises-rupkotha/articleshow/65257401.cms

I am hoping there is something like this in ghum too. There it was only for few months may be. here we have for 5 years.!!

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: mysticriver

Haa par they do care if ml moves on from FL they'll not accept that

Yeh sach hain . Pyaar matlab physical relationship . Iss liye jab tak FL mL ka confession nahiin hota physical relationship start nahiin karte . TRP audience ke liye ML agar vamp se physically dur rahe toh tikh hain agar kareeb aye toh sirf drunken stage pe …
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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: sadiltl

Neerja, he is not placing criminal's mental health over sai's memories. Rather he took responsibility of her health that got deteriorated due to his stupid decisions. He is paying for his mistakes, which is good. It elevates his character. That is one quality of Virat Chavan.

If they show mental illness and him supporiting her because he was responsible for that, makes him mahan. And in the process, he never forgave her and given her any place in his life elevates his love. Only if they can show him like that 😭

Hardly possible. They have never build the character of Virat to be that thoughtfully mahaan. He loves PL, but cannot accept that he never loved Sai coz Sai was a challenge for him.


Had he not go to Kankavali he would have moved on with physical relationship too. It's just that vankar and channel would not show it but imply it in story through confirmations from BK, Ashwini etc

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: NainaDavid

Hardly possible. They have never build the character of Virat to be that thoughtfully mahaan. He loves PL, but cannot accept that he never loved Sai coz Sai was a challenge for him.


Had he not go to Kankavali he would have moved on with physical relationship too. It's just that vankar and channel would not show it but imply it in story through confirmations from BK, Ashwini etc

Virat (thinks?) is capable of living a celibate life. When he promised P, (kabhi koi aur mere zindagi mein nahi ayega), when he made deal with Sai (my tumhara pati kabhi nahi ban paonga). He was expecting never to have physical relationship with anyone. Even though he was in love with Sai, he rarely initiated with her. He barely lived 1 yr of "pati" life with Sai.

Now it is not impossible to continue a celibate life with P as well. No big thing for V, being married, staying in the same room, sleeping in the same bed, absolutely no issues for him.

Patha nahi kahan se itna self-control ki training li hai, (Gandhiji ka bhakt!)

Edited by szsiddiqa - 3 years ago
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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: szsiddiqa

Virat (thinks?) is capable of living a celibate life. When he promised P, (kabhi koi aur mere zindagi mein nahi ayega), when he made deal with Sai (my tumhara pati kabhi nahi ban paonga). He was expecting never to have physical relationship with anyone. Even though he was in love with Sai, he never initiated with her. He barely lived 1 yr of "pati" life with Sai.

Now it is not impossible to continue a celibate life with P as well. No big thing for V, being married, staying in the same room, sleeping in the same bed, absolutely no issues for him.

Patha nahi kahan se itna self-control ki training li hai, (Gandhiji ka fav student hai yeh)

First night mein hi kuch huva usko . Kitni baar Sai ko kiss karneki koshish ki Virat ne aur baar baar usko checkout kiya . Anniversary kand ke baad try karna chod diya warna uska intentions kuch aur hi tha .

Vankar role reversal karke baitha hain . Ab Pakhi ke saath try karega jo Sai ke saath kiya . Pakhi toh besharam hain iss liye first try pe hi success milega .

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Posted: 3 years ago

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Posted: 3 years ago

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