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Posted: 3 years ago

I don’t think Patralekha knows or let’s say I don’t want Patralekha to know. I want her to know NOW in the present. I want to witness that heartbreak in present not as a flashback

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Posted: 3 years ago

I know... even I want that sadistic pleasure...


But aaj ka episode pretty much excused her 'dark history' with Vinu's adoption... so that theory is gone for toss.

Mental illness bhi utna probable nahi lag raha ab to...


So how will she go out? 😭

Only terminal illness... but then why the marriage?

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: Moor278

I know... even I want that sadistic pleasure...


But aaj ka episode pretty much excused her 'dark history' with Vinu's adoption... so that theory is gone for toss.

Mental illness bhi utna probable nahi lag raha ab to...


So how will she go out? 😭

Only terminal illness... but then why the marriage?

She will never go out ..Vanker is making sure of that by killing saiRat bit by bit....first surrogacy and now marriage..Dont even want to get into further details..He will keep her even at the cost of TRP..Then next generation rinse and repeat story one evil sister and another saint..

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Posted: 3 years ago

I agree Moor. P's change is not sitting well with me either. She is definitely holding a darker side to her, which no one knows. And the makers will stretch this whitewash for the longest time to make us believe that she indeed has. See how the opinions changed with the FB today.

Again if Sadhika's theory is correct, then we saw P1 today when she came across V and Sai's pic. We expected her to give away signs, but it got covered. You know what is contradicting here?

P was visibly resentful when she was speaking about how Sai suddenly entered V's life during her convo with Ashwini in one of the previous episodes. She had this slight anger when she had FB of Sai and V marriage like she was still holding Sai responsible for coming between her and V. Then what makes her all mature, understanding and accepting towards the fact that V still lives in Sai's memory? That is strange. She is not consistent in her feelings towards Sai.


I'm posting a part of my comment on Msin's review post today. This is an extension to your thoughts Moor....around P's truth.


OG Vinayak’s has been a mystery throughout. His status, his reference, his mourning by each parent has been puzzling. Part of the puzzle was solved, when V realised that Vinu was not with Sai. He assumed both to be dead. So, he thinks that if Sai is alive, Vinu possibly could be too, but he is not. But Sai nowhere mentions Vinu. Nor is is she assuming this Vinu to her child.

While we are wondering why V has not connected Savi to to be his child, he is still stuck at the point that Sai can’t conceive and if she did she will not manage it full term.

But why is Sai not mentioning Vinu at all. Why did she not wonder why V did not question about Vinayak? When she believed Vinu was so important to V. This is puzzling.

Szsiddiqa mentioned about a spoiler about Sai contacting V/Chavans to deliver the Vinu’s news.

That is when I got thinking on this. Sai may have left CN, but at that point when she knew that Vinu had not survived, she would have delivered that news to Chavans. Even at the risk of being accused, she would have informed him, as she never denied their rights on Vinu. She was only fighting for her rights, that she felt were at risk.

So it makes sense, that she called to inform, and someone on the other end heard it and disconnected or the message was never delivered due to some gap. But if it is the former, then there is someone within CN who knows that Sai is alive. Is it P or P’s mother?

This puts some gaps to rest and also gives more insight into what this could possibly lead to.

Sai informed someone in CN that Vinu is no more. In all probability she does not know who that is. The call would have been disconnected and never hearing back from V post that, made her think that he was no longer interested in her. She anyways was under the impression that V was trying to stop her for Vinu. If their baby is not there, she holds no value to V. Hence, he made no attempts to come after her.

This gives the answer to why Sai has not thought about V thinking her to be dead or Vinayak. Because, as per her, V is aware about Vinu’s death and her survival. Which is making her more bitter into believing that V has moved on, and he never came looking for her.

There is a villain lurking around in the dark there. If it the most predictable or unpredictable we will have to wait and watch.

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Posted: 3 years ago

Wow this looks interesting! The only person who could have done such thing after vinu died is BK!


we don’t yet see her reactions on sai post death.

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Posted: 3 years ago

Oh yes!! That gives me the answer to another thing that was not sounding right to me.


There has been a lot of predictions around BK changing sides. While I did see that earlier, considering Vinu is adopted, now I wasn't really buying into that. Earlier it was about BK's tussle on the definition of heir... blood and gender, where I expected the blood aspect to win. But now the reason to think otherwise was that, while Savi may be the biological child, with V and P married there still scope for another child. And most importantly a "Male" child. Which completely fits into BK's definition of rightful heir. This is seen in her treatment towards Virat (her nephew) and her own daughter, Devi.


If BK did that she was unaware of Sai's pregnancy. She acted purely on her anger and hatred towards Sai.. for causing Vinu's loss.

She will be guilty at this stage for turning Sai away and how Savi was born and raised away from CN. This will make her lean towards Sai or most importantly towards Savi.

She may have wished for V and P to lead a happy life. And her preferred bahu to take over. But she is not completely unaware of V's state. She will also be aware of the fact that with Sai alive, V will never move on with P. So there is no scope of another heir through P.

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Posted: 3 years ago

Sadhika - Posting this part from another post of mine, since this is an extension of what we have been discussing about the outcome of this track. The growth of Sai and Virat as spouses and their marriage


Talking about the trust that V and Sai have to have on each other.

Sai to believe that V only loves her and V to believe Sai will not leave him. Splitting this into 2 parts. Here “Savi” is the catalyst ..as a name and as their daughter

1. Sai’s pain – Something that has been discussed many a times. Before I go into this, lets look at this example. Every person has a different way of expressing their love. Some do this in a more physical manner, some in an indirect way. Some express in words, some in actions. None is wrong. It is their build and how it comes naturally to them to convey. Similarly, V is a person who understands something which is physical, evident to the eyes. We have discussed this before. Every time Sai is physically injured, V becomes paranoid. Because that is the language he understands. Her pain affects him immensely to the extent, he goes crazy. But he is only capable of seeing her physical pain. He knows she is mentally strong. And Sai barely shows her inner turmoil or her vulnerable side. So he feels she is fine. He lacks that understanding to see through that hard exterior that she pulls off every time. Even now, he was guilty and going crazy in her loss, because she is not there physically. But now that he has seen her alive, he is gone back to that parting phase. (I’m not negating the whole anger that he holds for his own suffering at believing she died etc. That still holds true. Because he is self-absorbed with his own sufferings). It will take another threat to her life to bring him back…..unless he sees through that determined face.

So how will this happen. V will have to see and understand the ordeal that she went through. V and Sai’s equation will continue to be rocky for sometime..in fact it will turn messier. V will not see what Sai went through..precisely why he hasn’t registered the significance of the name “Savi”. He will first know that Savi is his daughter. And this will be after he sees the worse side of it all. Savi’s longing for her father, she being name called as “illegitimate” etc. This will only aggravate V’s anger at Sai. And he will go a long way in this before he faces the reality. That is why there was no one by Sai’s side to talk about her sufferings, while there are many who are witness to V’s side of the story. V will learn through different sources about Sai’s sufferings. What she went through to bring their daughter to this world. And here is where he will cover that journey of seeing beyond Sai’s physical pain. That is where his true reflection and repentance will begin.

2. Sai will not leave him – Hear me out here. It is not exactly what it has been interpreted all along. Since the time they married Sai has time and again threatened to leave V and CN. And this has been a fear engraved in V’s subconscious mind. Something that came true with this separation. But what he fails to understand is that Sai is not capable of moving on from him. Even today, she is stuck on that day she left CN. Despite all that happened she named their daughter “Savi”. The name holds a lot of significance and also reveals a lot of truth that is left unsaid. That name will tell Virat, that Sai will not leave him..again he will have to see this beyond the physical space. In her heart she is tied to him, and she can never leave him. She is strong and self-sufficient, but that is in physical and material context. But her heart is fixed on him, and she will never let him go anywhere from there. She is not leaving him there.

Like you had mentioned Sadhika, this will have to reach a stage where V will let go off Savi to make Sai believe that she means the most to him, with or without kids. And he only wants that family with her. This will happen only once he realizes the above. He will see beyond his own pain and will see all that Sai went through. Understand her at a level that is beyond physical, read her unsaid words…things that she hides from the world. And she will be able to see that he loves her and her importance is independent and far superior to the fact that she is the mother of his children.

Edited by Sherry24 - 3 years ago
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Posted: 3 years ago

Exactly my thoughts! I have nothing to add!

yes he will see through sais pain when hears the mudsling from gulabrao. That she was waiting for him. That she found solace in savi, the symbol of their love. Sai will remain his, even if she chose to live away from him. 😢

But how will he prove his loyalty to her! We have seen his pain of losing her. But will sai believe irrevocably that he only loved her? While leaving savi with her proves his love to some extent, for sai to return to him after knowing about pakhi needs something else! Sai is not someone who will go back to him just like that if he breaks down this time. It is pakhi in the picture. There is a lot more baggage to ignore her.

More than my trust on virat, I am trusting sais nature here. If sai has to return to virat, she must be convinced of his love towards her in an irrevocable way! Like no doubts in her mind. How will that happen will be interesting to watch


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Posted: 3 years ago

Sai may well be the one to get butchered where she acts against character going back to V even without him apologizing or explaining why he married pp or proving that he loves Sai. may show her reconcile just for the sake of kids too. Sai's pain is never addressed so I'm not sure it'll be any different this time sadly. Looking at how they are writing i don't see pp leaving V and CN anytime soon. Sai forgiving him/ignoring him giving pp the place of his wife will be really sad to watch. That is unforgivable. Would V have been able to stomach Sai tied to any other man even for "namesake". Why should Sai tolerate it then?! Why are makers, characters on the show and a section audience SO forgiving of Vs actions. What has he done to be worth it?!

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Posted: 3 years ago

If sai goes back to virat after the marriage and without proper explanation from his side, then there will be dent in sairat. Sai is not the sai we know and virat is not the virat we wanted. What we get is a compromised sairat. Hoping that they would not show it that way 🤞

Edited by sadiltl - 3 years ago

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