GHKPM WU & Episode daily discussion thread #64 - Page 5

Even BK cn bail her for izzat but cant bring her back to CN! It'll be ridiculous. She was promising to punish pp right. First thing in that punishment is to throw her out of the house!

I don’t know I feel their equation has changed after confession and remarriage night where they discussed their fears. Earlier there was this boundary that they could not cross and it was really hard for them since both of them didn’t knew what other person felt. It was a different level of progression for both.

After confession they have been shown very differently, like Sai understands V is not going to talk each and every thing like she does and wants! See to me their basic personalities is for V it’s harder to speak and Sai is also easy on moving on from things that she cannot change. They both gear each other…. Like one night scene after the implantation V was consoling Sai and asking to accept it. He said it will all be okay and when he handed the baby to Sai, their eye conversation told so much … to me it felt that loop was closed. What I am trying to get at is after confession they know each other and V definitely admires Sai’s resiliency. He has admitted also that Sai looks at positive things. Like there is underlying understanding between them and it doesn’t need words to express.

I know V doesn’t listen to Sai esp about her doubts but that was what was shown today in his apology. Vs perspective is of a man he was only after getting their baby in this world. He didn’t take heed of Ps actions cause he knew from his side there is no other feelings involved. Sai’s fear of always sharing something with P were also shown and rightfully so!
to me is a man and womans perspective- they don’t think alike.

yes there are things done in name of drama, but the way their relationship is shown through this is quite beautiful from my perspective.

This is not to negate that the makers definitely wanted more Virakhi but audience rejected it. I am not analyzing the entire story track here…. Just basic Sai and Virat in their world by themselves!

Maine kaha tha Vankar par bharosa mart karna .. Virat ek din hero hain toh dusara din kamina hain . Agar Virat kamina nahiin bana toh Sai Adarsh Mahila nahiin banegi aur TRP nahiin ayegi. Likhe rakhlo ab se yehi pattern hoga ….Virat ban Gaya Vanraj Shah 😆 aur Sai Anupama ab bas Anuj ka entry Baki hain

Yes but just because they get each other now post confession doesnt mean they can take each other for granted. and they dont need to listen.

The problem wasnt that they had different perspectives. it was about listening to your spouse. letting them speak honestly to you and respecting them. The problem audience had was the callousness with which V dismissed Sai as if she was just trying to be dramatic. V need not believ her but the least he could do is say- ok I hear you, but I will make sure that you are not left out. Instead of getting defensive and rude, he needed to just be there for her.

And just because its a TV drama, it would do well for them to actually have V say more! even if its in his head- voiceover types.

these days, everytime major kaand happens and then we have to just accept that evertything is ok with barely any conversation or introspection. Shruti kaand- they didnt even discuss how Sai felt, why she reacted the way she did. how much she was hurt by him hiding things. In KD they addressed RK in conversation after fake pregnancy drama. Emon talks about how RK was obsessed with him and hates her and just wanted her out of his life but how she feels sorry for her because she doesnt have the love of Rono or Badshah because of her own poor choices and ridiculousness. And Rono is bowled over by how forgiving and understanding and mature Emon really is. Rono suggests leaving the house and Emon says why should we ruin our life for her. those beautiful conversations are missing here.

So today for example, when he offered to punish himself and Sai immediately says- no- that was beautiful. she is not petty or revengeful like that. she has a big heart. she was very hurt but she has objectivity and compassion. she is an eternal optimist. so it would have been nice to add a line there about V saying- tum aise kaisi ho, har baar itni asaani seh maaf kardeti ho, kitnaa saaf dil hai....I wish I was more like you. Even if not to Sai but in his own head atleast.

In the past, they had one beautiful scene like that where V says- how are you able to now make jokes about me throwing you out of the house and she says- well there is no point looking at only the negatives. its better to laugh about the bygones

So those touches are much needed. this is the high point of the drama. After all this kaand, they have revelaed the truth so they cannot rush the Sai-V moments.

he said sorry I didnt listen because I was blinded. but it should have been more about, because I didnt listen all this happened to YOU and YOU had to go through so much. her life was in danger, she was doubted, insulted, mocked, labeled as being a pareshaani to pp and much more...so my point is that his apology should be focused not on why he screwed up but on how he regrets how SAI felt as a result of it all. For months she has kept on warning him. he should have had more lines about recalling instances where he could have done things differently- like waited longer for Sai on implant day, actually investigated the case of the goons more seriously, like understood the importance of legal paperwork- he cant change anything but it would do him well to dwell on the UMPTEEN opportunities he missed. coz if he started saying all that, it would look natural to see Sai stopping him and saying, dont recall the what-ifs.

he just said lines, he lacked the feel. he lacked the absolute shame. the gravity of everything.

what if surrogacy had failed

what if the truth hadnt come out and she ran away with the baby

what if Sai had died or been raped by PP ke bheje hue gunde

he should have spelt that out again and wept in regret!

he should have had a line about how he wishes he could go back in time to fix things. and Sai then consoling him to focus on the NOW. would have looked more natural

To me, something was missing in the scene. it lacked a certain desperation and genuine shame from V.

even just the way he said the lines. he should have stressed on mein KABHI BHI dobara aisa nahi karunga.tumhaari kasam, nahi tumhaari AUR Vinu ki kasam.the intonation of his voice as he said it should have been better.

when sai explains that she couldnt tell him about PPs challenge because no one would believe her, he should have had a FB of how upset she looked that day after godhbharai but couldn't share her feelings, so he should have held her hand and said sorry that I made you feel like you couldnt tell me things because you felt I wouldnt believe you! how depressing and sad would that have been for Sai. itnaa bada kuch hua hai and she is hesitating to tell her husband because she fears his reaction. she should be able to tell him anything bejhijak but he couldnt give her that assurance.

he should have said- jab tumhe meri sabse zyaafa zarurat thi, mein tumhaare paas hokar bhi tumhaare saath nahi tha. MERI vajah seh tumhe ye sab akele bardaasht karna pada. MERI galtiyon ke vajah seh aur MERE bewakufi ke vajah seh.

Just a few extra lines, better dialogue delivery would have made a difference

to me his apology was all about how sad it is that HE got fooled, that HE got trapped, that HE screwed up, HE feels bad, HE didnt expect it, HE was backstabbed, HE cannot believe it. but the apology should be about how SAI has been cheated by his wrong decisions, how SAI has been ill-treated by everyone, about how SAI must have felt that she is being ignored by him, about how SAI must have felt betrayed and SO hurt by his action of handing away the child, about how he almost robbed SAI of the chance to be a mother and of the chance to be near her baby throughout pregnancy. HE was still father, his rights werent infringed on, it was SAI who got the short end of the stick.

when he handed over the child, the way I understand it, he didnt keep himself away from the child. It was Sai who was asked to stay away. PP palegi but in place of his Sai, but V was never taking himself out of the equation.

For sympathy they put her n a shared cell and got her hit. That guy will feel pity. Why will u put an IPS relative in a shared cell?

Same thing Sai got hit by goons on the head and he was least bothered on the day she got hit. That was more serious.

He's going to bail for her the hurt, that's why heavy dialogues saying my wife would have got hurt etc to cover up for this bail .

In such cases they shift the cell, not give bail.

Originally posted by: JinglesRead

Maine kaha tha Vankar par bharosa mart karna .. Virat ek din hero hain toh dusara din kamina hain . Agar Virat kamina nahiin bana toh Sai Adarsh Mahila nahiin banegi aur TRP nahiin ayegi. Likhe rakhlo ab se yehi pattern hoga ….Virat ban Gaya Vanraj Shah 😆 aur Sai Anupama ab bas Anuj ka entry Baki hain

waiting for that only...someone who values her just like Anuj...Hope after the leap track we will get one may be..

he is nothing like vanraj though he is somewhere in between ahem and vanraj..

Originally posted by: Shaome

waiting for that only...someone who values her just like Anuj...Hope after the leap track we will get one may be..

he is nothing like vanraj though he is somewhere in between ahem and vanraj..

Thrusday, Friday they show Sai dominant.

Later Pakhi and Virat become dominant and sai s defeated.

Originally posted by: Nja91

Even BK cn bail her for izzat but cant bring her back to CN! It'll be ridiculous. She was promising to punish pp right. First thing in that punishment is to throw her out of the house!

I know ... It is like selecting the lesser evil.

BK has been ridiculous as always. Who is she to punish P? Vo bhi isi ghar main rakh ke .

Nagesh Kaka must be squirming in heaven. Ye kaisi aurat se shaadi Karli maine?

V ne aaj bahot badi badi baatein ki hai... Doesn't make sense for him to go and bail her out. Even Mansi doesn't look happy with P. So she won't ask either I feel.

Omi and BK might. They are the ones who are criminal minded.

Complaint close karne ke liye bahot papad bele hai in Logo ne... Phirse V ke against complaint tayyar ho jayegi if he bails her out.

P mom would be the best option if at all that has to be done.

Virat might melt seeing her situation in the jail. The delivery experience might play with him. 😅

He might get her home only to send her away to her parents place the next day! But the damage will be done. Even in KD it was a day that made the difference.

They could write some meaningful conflict instead of taking the unrealistic, one in million possibilities of having an accident.
just bailing her out will make sai pissed. One more incident of pakhi taking the kid away will make her take the decision to leave virat. She can say she can’t live with a person who is so gullible that he will keep putting his family at stake. But seeing their love in yesterdays episode, something dramatic like kid missing for ever could happen. Sai will be completely shattered. A child’s death or missing can tear the marriage apart. blame game will be at the highest order.
I am steering away if it is usual assumed death or memory loss. Ghum will be no different then.

Firstly PP is not in "jail" just "in custody". there is a difference. Secondly, any person accused of crime has to go through the due process. He is an IPS and he is intimately familiar with such process. If he is concerned as a human that she is in there with abusive people, he can as an IPS ask for certain considerations but him arranging a lawyer to BAIL PP out is taking it too far. thats not for him to do. If Sai has filed a complaint, then as her husband- he is also party to it in a way. So its like arranging bail for a person that you have complained against yourself! If roles were reversed would he be chill, if Sai bailed out a person V got arrested?! And him allowing PP to be brought back to CN if she gets bail- even if BK arranges for it and not him, is even more ridiculous. He should put his foot down to either prevent PP coming back or make sure he arranges a safehouse for Sai. He went through hoops for a stranger like shruti. This time its his own wife and son at stake. Any laziness on his part essentially amounts to negligence and betrayal. It is not a small matter. The woman is crazy. Obsessed with him and his son. She is going on mera baccha , mera baccha. if he is NOT scared about how dangerous PP can be then he is really stupid. the woman hired goons to assault Sai, she hatched a devious plan to dissuade Geeta, she faked suicide and successfully hoodwinked an IPS and his whole family. So if he takes her lightly or thinks its cool that she can come back to CN then Sai needs to get up and leave that very second. She cannot trust him or his family. they are all insensitive pricks who do not understand the gravity of the situation. They cannot afford to blame Sai for taking Vinu and fleeing if PP gets out and comes back to CN. She is a distraught mother and she needs peace. She is not going to twiddle her thumbs and wait around watching PP come back into the same house that her and Vinu are in! PP is dangerous. she is stupid but she is dangerous because she is frickin limitless. she can do anything crazy to achieve her ridiculous objectives. after all his tall promises, one misstep from V will destroy the faith Sai has reposed in him. She is forgiving but she has not forgotten everything and neither should she.