More conversations!!! 23 june - Page 5

Originally posted by: msin

This can happen.. cannot rule it out .. it certainly will be grounds for separation if they show pakhi actually having a successful surrogate pregnancy.. the zygote she will get will be via test tube only ..

But I don’t see virat sleeping with pakhi .. they showed that in imlie .. and aditya had to be ruled out of the story . Even in udariya .. they have never shown the male lead cheating on FL .. physically..,

If they have the stomach to show so much torture abd then separation.. then I feel they will meet after 5-7 years .. when the child will have some medical issues .. and Sai will be the doctor who will be able to treat her .. these are popular tracks more in align with ekta . And what’s been shown in yeh hai chahatein
But then leap will be immediately after separation..

I don’t think Sai will leave her kid and go after knowing pakhis truth. When she has the full rights why would she just leave without the kid

Originally posted by: msin

This can happen.. cannot rule it out .. it certainly will be grounds for separation if they show pakhi actually having a successful surrogate pregnancy.. the zygote she will get will be via test tube only ..

But I don’t see virat sleeping with pakhi .. they showed that in imlie .. and aditya had to be ruled out of the story . Even in udariya .. they have never shown the male lead cheating on FL .. physically..,

If they have the stomach to show so much torture abd then separation.. then I feel they will meet after 5-7 years .. when the child will have some medical issues .. and Sai will be the doctor who will be able to treat her .. these are popular tracks more in align with ekta . And what’s been shown in yeh hai chahatein
But then leap will be immediately after separation..

Sai won’t leave her kid with Virat and fam (but again that’s Sai Joshi, not Sai Virat Chavan)
Vanku has made Sai a doormat FL.. I can’t relate with her “Sai Virat Chavan Jaap” and unnecessary white washing everyone in CN... even when it’s not needed she’ll open her loud ass mouth to spew weird sugar coated nonsense... Sai’s character development has been changed deliberately to suit Virat’s WW...so as per the current track.. if it was ekta or gul’s show, she would’ve left Virat and Fam by now (after everything that’s transpired since Sammy died) Here Vanku has literally changed everything... he’s stuck in his own web!!! Also, ekta has already given a 6 month leap with separation in BALH2.....

Also, lets not forget Jaggy.. wo kaha gaya? He might make some weird black Dal And grey khichadi with didi...

The thing is even if Sairat seperate, ppl will not vouch for their reunion, ulta ppl will want her to move on with new guy and life, that's where the makers fail, also audience will not going to have any emotional connection with their child, considering the fact that it's Surrogate child plus through Pakhi, they are digging show's grave and actually closing all option for audience to return.

Plus they are not even making proper base like if they really want to show Surrogacy, then atleast make Sairat a couple in passionate love, from past many epis, I don't get the vibe that they're in love, it just seem like they had one night stand, got pregnant and had miscarriage and now tolerating each other coz they're married, where's the love, where's intimacy, yesterday's convo also looked empty bcoz of lack of intimacy, this is not how ppl in love behave, they're not making Virat blind in Love for Sai, they're not showing her his utmost priority and now bringing Surrogacy and want ppl to accept it, I mean how, atleast make a base for couple.

I don't feel the connection or love of Sairat for each other as audience that I will vouch for them even at the hour of seperation, they don't give us that star crossed lover's vala vibe anymore neither give the happily married couple in love vala vibe, so why should ppl vouch for them, what is the makers baseline, emotional, physical every connection missing!

So as a audience I will feel it better if they really seperate, why tie them togather, when there seems to be nothing between them, there relation right now looks forced and only Sai is holding it, Virat looks like he'll give up the relationship anytime.

And the main problem is they are showing an unborn child is more important to Virat than Sai, the love of his life, which is making me lost connection with the show and with Virat's big big talks about love, his love just feels shallow, no lover will prioritise any other person than his/her love, here they are dismantling all the buildup they've done regarding Virat's love for Sai, so at this point I as a viewer will want them to seperate and go different ways where life takes them and build a new life then tie-ing each other with a Surrogate child through an obsessed ex lover.

Word!

I definitely dont see V's "love". He is far too consumed by thus unborn baby to even register what Sai says. In the counselor office both V n counselor ignored the fact that she says she doesn't want to "hide" her pain. Phir bhi they didn't let her express but are focused on baby ! Arey yaar first work on your relationship.

Sai has been pushed into feeling that V will only be back to normal and in love with her if they have another baby. Thats why she is SO keen on it. She wants this because he has made her feel as if their life is meaningless if they remain childless- even just for few months. Whats worse is that counselor is enabling that by saying its a child that keeps spouses together after few years of marriage. Theres tons of ways for a couple to remain connected. A child is just one of them. And post a child, a couple often focuses SO much time on the baby that they don't do things for themselves anymore. The counselor should have told them to focus on each other and address the issue of a baby later on when they feel ready by telling them that spiel of science ki tarakki n many options etc!

Agree .. they have so many issues between them .. and they are so newly married .. that they could have explored having a child much later on .. especially considering Sai still has to finish her medical studies ..

though Sai being weak to deliver full term is believable because Sai had 2 very major accidents .. plus a lot of trauma in her life .. so these things do scar you a lot .. plus her pregnancy was traumatic ..

Ideally if they get a normal surrogate ( somebody who is not in love or lust with her husband virat ) .. it’s a decent and accept way to try for a baby . Nothing wrong ..

I saw the therapist Wala episode it was quite good .. if you are not overly involved it’s a decent episode.. leave logic aside

Originally posted by: msin

I saw the therapist Wala episode it was quite good .. if you are not overly involved it’s a decent episode.. leave logic aside

Knowing what the future is and why these scenes are added to convince the viewers of surrogacy, not able to relate to it.

My opinion only.

If they release some.nice promo where Sai is also pregnant we will have interest to see.

Now just cringe is going to come up.

Today the bedroom scene saw few clips. She tries too hard i feel. Her expressions. Looked like cafe scene.

I agree. The counsellor should have added at the end that they need to focus on each other simultaneously.

And Sai is weak because of her miscarriage. It happens. However it's also true that a woman conceives very quickly too. I know couple of family who miscarried and were pregnant very soon after. About her uterus being weak, at least the doctor should advise her to heal her body??!!

These are such serious issues & these guys have the chance to give out strong messages. Nahi, they've gone back a few centuries.😔

Originally posted by: msin

I saw the therapist Wala episode it was quite good .. if you are not overly involved it’s a decent episode.. leave logic aside

Yes watched it! Didn’t get time to write anything.