Why even if don’t want to we come back to this show ?

This is gonna be a jumble of stuff , my rants and frustrations. Sorry in advance. This is a rambling of an annoyed person,

I quit this show during Shruthi track. Watched confession episode and just sairat clips. Then stopped but came back to get updates. And end up watching clips. I keep wondering why am I not just quitting this toxicity when I have better content to watch. It’s the feeling of unsettlement after reading updates on how to what extent they show torture abuse and JUSTIFICATION on top of it. Even if I am not watching the whole episode, coming to read updates itself is a triggering and lingering feelingC you may feel oh we are detaching, it’s actually not, reading is worse than watching cos we rely on another person perspective: so yes one is truly not detached

TRP audience are attached to characters and watch it for them. If they are in trouble they are waiting to see better life for that character, and they keep waiting, and TRP keeps steady. Cos our makers are cunning, they show precap which involve a char they love or a situation they want to see , so they lure the rat into the trap.

I mean in real life all of us go through so many situation when we feel helpless and tortured. We can’t do shit just watch the news and feel bad. Now we are doing this for fictional characters that we watch for entertainment; I mean in this show where is the entertainment. It’s prediction of more toxicity, the characters aren’t layers flawed once but utterly toxic. Actors have to act opposite to what a natural reaction should be in a situation shown esp in this drama. For example pregnant wife slapped, in real husband instinct is not okay she is grieveing let her do it the instinct is to go defend , the directors directing have no sense

everything is weird in this show, for example after confession and SR, couples in shows are shown to get comfortable with each other it’s shown in other shows with minor changes, here still they maintain one finger wiping of tears and one arm distance of cupping cheeks. These are minute things that is not consistent and is deoendednt in which director is shooting the scene ?All the departments have failed due to rush, so acting chops of anyone I wouldn’t comment.

the amount of rush in happy scenes and detail in funeral scene which can be triggering for so many people. The pace slowed down. Logic has further dwindled in this show. Name any regressive shit ghum has shown that but never shows consequences of those acts. Never shown FL breaking down and sharing her pain and concerns. They have made a mockery of the character of Virat so much so that the moment he declares big stuff we know he is gonna do the opposite. I thought ekta shows were nonsense hers is 100 times better even if the villains resurrect they are shown facing some consequences.

Virat put Sai through so much after the landmine thing that he thought she deserved to not eat food or receive death threats. He is seeing his supposed love cry in front of him, which btw he did the same thing and Sai even though didn’t realise her feelings forgave him cos she couldn’t watch him cry, he could I mean see her tortured with no regret. In the end he is so happy that he forgives his family apologised to them, and when he came to know about how Sai had to cook separately he had one bloody like which way oh sorry I didn’t know she suffered - they don’t even let him finish for kaku to be an ass.

I have no doubt they will butcher Sai in this track to justify whatever they are gonna show . They will show Sai only giving her child away pushing Virat towards Pakhi, making it seem like she deserves and is responsible for her own pain. Victim blaming and everyone of us are gonna call her names like doormat etc.


What we loved about Ayesha is she is diplomatic and caring and different from the rest ? But now we expect the same Ayesha to loose those qualities we admire and be more selfish, as selfishness and cunning stuff work in this world.
She is a newbie and is nice to everyone. Is that a big crime? Why should nice people lose their quality? If that’s what makes her survive this toxicity so be it. I really do hope though she grows in her craft, doesn’t get complacent and work on something she cares about, it’s an achievement in itsel to get fans who love her and shower her with the same.

Illogical rant ends here. I just hate the fact that nothing we do or say is gonna make them show better content;

No one wants Ayesha to change. Rather we want a nice person to not be taken for granted. We want people who are being unprofessional, or opportunistic, or unreasonable to pay the price for it. Her well deserved and earned spotlight cannot be given to any other person who is unworthy of it.

It bothers me a lot that V has till date not introspected or apologized for everything he put Sai through in Shruti kaand. And now when she needs him by her side in a very special yet vulnerable time- pregnancy, i am sure it'll be another let down from V.

Sai is being held accountable for things she hasn't done , repeatedly punished/name called/tortured by all n sundry. Whether that is jaggu or gharwaale or her own husband. At this point she obviously has started believing that its her fault because no one can survive this degree of toxicity.

Originally posted by: Nja91

No one wants Ayesha to change. Rather we want a nice person to not be taken for granted. We want people who are being unprofessional, or opportunistic, or unreasonable to pay the price for it. Her well deserved and earned spotlight cannot be given to any other person who is unworthy of it.

It bothers me a lot that V has till date not introspected or apologized for everything he put Sai through in Shruti kaand. And now when she needs him by her side in a very special yet vulnerable time- pregnancy, i am sure it'll be another let down from V.

Sai is being held accountable for things she hasn't done , repeatedly punished/name called/tortured by all n sundry. Whether that is jaggu or gharwaale or her own husband. At this point she obviously has started believing that its her fault because no one can survive this degree of toxicity.

I didn’t mean people in forum here , I just came across some tweets saying Ayesha should be responsible for the char she is playing and also question channel instead of being a doormat. It’s the frustration here.

sai craves family, but they don’t show her break down and cry and be vulnerable ever; supposedly they have confessed now why can’t they show her be vulnerable ever, share her worries and thoughts to V, it’s not like aud only want flirting and romance always: I loved sairat even when the romantic angles wasn’t even in the picture.

I don’t believe her to be a doormat she is just an extreme person.
The makers never address anything related to her pain. Which is so frustrating. This is like repeat of several tracks. Their creativity deviating from KD by indirectly placing the blame on Sai.

my post is not targeting Anyone just my blind rant of the many things I saw in various platforms. Can’t rant comfortably on Twitter; that’s a scary scary place

They always sideline and ignore Sai's pain to focus on a toxic plot instead.

Originally posted by: Nja91

They always sideline and ignore Sai's pain to focus on a toxic plot instead.

All she is gonna ever be in this show is miserable. I really wish Pakhi throws her out of the house. although that fake person doesn’t have the right; let her. Atleast whatever next Sai will do will be just for herself then. I would rather watch 2 min scene with Sai than 20 mins of screaming screeching nonsense.

Originally posted by: Nja91

They always sideline and ignore Sai's pain to focus on a toxic plot instead.

It would have been poignant if Mansi asked what was her sons last words. they could have brought his handprints on Sai’s stomach and shared how he blessed the child as it’s last act, all this they left it cos it’s related to Sam and Sai: and positive thingS. but no aud should be subjected to nonsense for a character that confessed not too earlier that she was living only to make Virat hers. Still using her husbands death to wreak havoc on a pregnant lady

I skipped the entire Shruti track. I will skip Patralekha ka track. I don’t like to watch third angle tracks. Ghum makes it very murky.

Originally posted by: nutmeg7

I skipped the entire Shruti track. I will skip Patralekha ka track. I don’t like to watch third angle tracks. Ghum makes it very murky.

Only show that made me focus on camera angles and BD. Like other show we are so caught up in story and the flow. Here it’s just toxicity and repeated nonsensical drama. How they could have developed a nice story with every character have progression? Focused on other side characters instead of stupid third angle, I just don’t understand them why they choose this , they are in good standing with TRPS, they can experiment positively instead of just creatively torturing the FL.

KD was itself so problematic but it seemed better than ghum. My friend was saying TRP audience like to watch the FL being tortured cos some can say look her life is worse than mine, I don’t think so, then why would Anupama be doing so well consistently. I really want to know views of TV audience who watch this show.

It’s simple we aren’t the target audience for these shows.

The makers really haven’t got the pulse of the audience. Fine if they think that female lead ka torture gets them drama, do it but balance it out. You rightly mentioned about No 1 show.

The wedding shown there was so memorable and so beautiful. Even here it was lovely but then they had to forcefully insert drama there too. Was it necessary? No. These small small instances are there in every happy moments.

None of the plots seems to be leave with viewer satisfied with the completion. But we still watch out of habit. It takes 21 days to form a habit. We have watched now over 530 days. 😆

Well you should know about social distancing of the leads & about Virat's character he'll be raged only when Sai is on death bed or he'd realise Sai is being wronged when he's misunderstood her or didn't deserve the treatment like ousting.