Sai that we knew!

This is taking up on Q from Neerja’s update today.

I agree when she said that Virat has killed the child in Sai. I remember how he admired and boasted of that childlike quality in her, her innocence. He had spoken about it so proudly, so fondly with Patralekha. But today with his actions he killed that aspect of hers. An integral part of her personality.

Yes, she is brave. She is strong. And while she is broken and hurt she is still putting up a strong front, and is displaying the courage to move on and rebuild her life.
But she is human, a young 19-20 yr old, she is hurting and a part of her is dead. While Virat has been claiming to let Sai hate him rather put her life at risk, he has broken her beyond repair. She will move on, the wound may heal and it would not hurt so much, yet there is a part in her that is dead. She will fix herself, like hell she will, but the scars will be there. And Virat is the culprit. But the irony is neither does he realise it, and never will he acknowledge it. Because when he is hurt or the situation is not in his favour he fails to see the pain beyond himself. He doesn’t realise that she is no longer the Sai he claims to be in love with. He has no right to decide what is good for her without her knowledge and consent. He can’t force the decisions on her. It is her right and only hers

What is it about living? Mental peace, contentment, happiness, love or mere breaths? O2 is life, but does only having abundance of O2 to breathe define living? Is it worth living? A person has an inherent character and the aspects of it form their individuality, something that they identify with as themselves. Losing that, means losing your self. And no one has a right to snatch that away from a fellow human, however close he/she may be.
Sai may move on, achieve success, get over the hurt, and betrayal, but she will never be the same again. And Virat can never be pardoned for this!

When she said he killed her gurur had so many undertones.. She may not expected to have S romantic relationship but she cherished her bonding with him.. She tolerated p* because she knew Virat never can cross his line..

Then she was putting a brave front with pulkit and there she told that she doesn't want to create any misunderstanding between Shruti and Virat.. Yet again She is made to feel other woman...

The child in her is now died... She was way too much cold With her approach with that kid..She is more thoughtful and strong...Virat killed it totally..

However peace is more important than love.. I truly wish she will get out of Virat's emotional clutches

Love or no love from Virat or Sai for each other, this marriage would never give mental peace and happiness to Sai. A marriage with Virat will always pertain secrecy , sahi wakt, him believing her to be immature, constant abuse from his family which his children even might have to face. I dont think she can achieve what she deserves to achieve if she is with this man. This man is unhealthy for her, because he is unhealthy for himself. He enjoys being Mahaan at the cost of the sufferings of his loved ones. He would always think things from his perspective, always end up finding himself right, always end up feeling wronged...Honestly he needs to be treated , but of course that aspect wont be explored here.

Do you know what is the meaning of expecting ‘a child like quality’ in an adult? It means they can be innocent,cute and there by can be manipulated,controlled,dominated and exploited. That is why some men (having insecurities) likes that quality. Moreover such child like quality will not question them or their insecurities. So in a way child like quality is a trap for a woman. A strong woman will break that. So experiences made sai to break that. GOOF FOR HER.

Originally posted by: ArshiAK

Do you know what is the meaning of expecting ‘a child like quality’ in an adult? It means they can be innocent,cute and there by can be manipulated,controlled,dominated and exploited. That is why some men (having insecurities) likes that quality. Moreover such child like quality will not question them or their insecurities. So in a way child like quality is a trap for a woman. A strong woman will break that. So experiences made sai to break that. GOOF FOR HER.

I some what agree with you. ..

But Sai is childlike but she is strong like usual.. She is more sensible than we can think of..

But here childlike qualities referred as her core characteristics that makes her more lovable..now she has become the wind without fragrance.. That's what destroyed by Virat..

Originally posted by: Shaome

When she said he killed her gurur had so many undertones.. She may not expected to have S romantic relationship but she cherished her bonding with him.. She tolerated p* because she knew Virat never can cross his line..

Then she was putting a brave front with pulkit and there she told that she doesn't want to create any misunderstanding between Shruti and Virat.. Yet again She is made to feel other woman...

The child in her is now died... She was way too much cold With her approach with that kid..She is more thoughtful and strong...Virat killed it totally..

However peace is more important than love.. I truly wish she will get out of Virat's emotional clutches

Peace is important, but she will need time to find that peace because she had started to hope for love. If that development had not taken place, this would have given her the peace that has eluded her for so long.

The guy is toxic in the literal sense of the word. And anyone in his life will be a sacrificial lamb to attain his mahatma title.

Couldn't agree more, not only Virat, but also his family and their 'rules' and traditions' along with his past who is still interfering , have killed the childish 19yo Aaba's girl Sai Kamal Joshi.

I miss that silly innocent childish adorable Sai Joshi sm😭💔 One of the main reasons I still enjoy and cherish GC scenes so much❤️

@Shaome - Thanks for putting it so aptly. Wind without fragrance.
I agree a childlike person can be easily manipulated. But not always. And that is not what I intended here. Every character has many layers and so does each of these layers. I know I’m referring to the wrong person yet stating Virat’s quote during Sai’s entrance result track, he had mentioned about how small wishes, that we may state childlike are ways to keep our childhood and its memories alive in us. Childlike may mean that one is soft, or has tantrums, but on the other side can also be simultaneously strong or smart as well. But it’s all about the essence of a character. We are a cocktail of a lot of things, and keeping that child in us only adds a unique, peppy, soothing touch to it and keeps us live through and break the serious streak and the baggage that comes with adulthood