Only love and strength for Sai Bai! - Page 4

Its not just the actors inappropriately soft expressions towards a character thats NOT his wife but also the character also not respecting boundaries "physically". When you barely know a person you are careful about touching them even when they are in an extremely vulnerable state. I see it in my line of work a lot where people start crying as they talk since they are often in a very vulnerable situation or are in a lot of discomfort/pain....but you at the most hold their shoulder/arm or you just sit at their level silently offering a tissue allowing them to cry/vent. You dont start holding their hand the way Virat held Shrutis hand. If the pics of that scene were shown to a random person who didn't know head/tail of the show and lets say that Shruti is morphed into not even looking pregnant in that pic, even then anyone would think they are husband-wife.... And that is problematic. There have to be lines that cannot be crossed by him in the name of solidarity and moral support especially when dealing with someone of the opposite gender.

Its also not like he is by any means "liberal" in terms of his pov towards Sai n her male friends.

How would Virat react if he saw Sai sitting in a hospital or a cafe holding hands the way he has done with Aniket/ajinkya. How would he react if he saw Ajinkya holding Sai in his arms because Sai twisted her leg. How would he react if he saw Sai get up and leave unannounced in the middle of the night to meet her friends boyfriend/husband. How would he react if he saw Sai cancel their plan to go meet her friends husband.

But there was BTS of Neil doing some performance...he may come in the end..unless performance with Virat is Sais dream sequence.

I agree totally. He also thinks he is doing wrong by hiding things. But he is still doing it. The reason for it is to 'save' sai. Thats what the writers are saying. That his intentions are not to make 'Sai' an accomplice. Thats where he doesnt fall into cheating category, in my opinion. Even Sai doesnt mind all these lies he told when she knows the truth. Thats all good Karma.

The bad Karma is what he is doing with his Job. Job has to be done with certain rules. Help on the other hand is not bound by rules, only by free will. From Job perspective he is 'cheating'. Because when DIG knows what he has done, he will be suspended. When Sai knows what he has done, she will accept him. See the difference?

Sorry I have a whole different way of looking at Virat here. :) I dont think it is wrong to see him the way you are seeing too. Virat for me is a whole person first, husband is a role he plays. It doesnt define him. Being a good person, doesnt make him a great husband. And being a bad husband, doesnt take away his helping nature. He should learn to be a good husband. We/Sai should give him few more chances.

He would not behave calmy if anything like this happens with Sai. He is possessive of her. It is wrong. But thats how people are, no? A good person cant be jealous for his wife? The emotions are totally different between romantic couple right? Sai will also behave the same way Virat will behave. They are romantically linked. So it is valid they behave that way. They might even suspect each other. Fair and square. Thats why they should establish trust in their relationship. They should understand that tomorrow holding the hand of opposite gender, should not call for anger but understanding. 🤔

Forgive me if my views make no sense to you.

Originally posted by: sadiltl

I agree totally. He also thinks he is doing wrong by hiding things. But he is still doing it. The reason for it is to 'save' sai. Thats what the writers are saying. That his intentions are not to make 'Sai' an accomplice. Thats where he doesnt fall into cheating category, in my opinion. Even Sai doesnt mind all these lies he told when she knows the truth. Thats all good Karma.

The bad Karma is what he is doing with his Job. Job has to be done with certain rules. Help on the other hand is not bound by rules, only by free will. From Job perspective he is 'cheating'. That is bad Karma. Because when DIG knows what he has done, he will be suspended. When Sai knows what he has done, she will accept him. See the difference?

Sorry I have a whole different way of looking at Virat here. :) I dont think it is wrong to see him the way you are seeing too. Virat for me is a whole person first, husband is a role he plays. It doesnt define him. Being a good person, doesnt make him a great husband. And being a bad husband, doesnt take away his helping nature. He should learn to be a good husband. We/Sai should give me few more chances.

OKay I agree...but then how is he protecting Sai..when he has registered a criminals name in all the records as Mrs. Chavan..what is in this case Shruti does something illegal or commits a crime and runs away, won't Mrs. Chavan be called out by the police department and they would easily assume he was going beyond his ways for his wife , cheating his duty for his wife?

Coming to him and his intentions..well agree he knows he is wrong..agree he has given himself se a weird theory of protecting Sai , so? Does it change the fact that he is cheating her...he will always come up with some theory in future as well and cheat her..what I am talking about here is unconscious cheating and not a conscious one .that is extremely underrated and prevalent in our society..

Honestly I think as an officer, someone who love his country Virat can be redeemed only by making him leave this job and look for something else, if he such a humanitarian...

I have no words for today’s episode,

With the cringe all over I am worried for upcoming episodes after Shruthi delivers baby, nurse may coming out and congratulating Virat on becoming father and Virat holding baby giving new Vaada like

Protecting the baby like a father and apologizes for killing his father and all.

I hope they show something like this.

But even as a whole person he is wrong in giving mixed signals to women. Even if he was not married, I do not think his soft exiressions and the manner in which hands were held was appropriate. I dont think its appropriate to lie about your relationship status. More than him ataying the night with her in a hotel room , what bothered me is how casual he was about lying someone is his wife. He seems far too comfortable in his physical contact, way of addressing a person who is his friends wife- his vahini and also essentially a stranger. He may only want to help people but getting too familiar/friendly looks creepy. Also if Shruti was a regular civilian who was in trouble and had no family, him going out of the way to help makes sense. Protecting a fugitive who was a gun wielding, Naxalite is laughable. She is NOT some bechaari..she chose to live in a jungle without antenatal care with no care for her unborn child. Now suddenly shes crying buckets n Virat is comforting her- looks and sounds ridiculous. ,

Thats disregarding the illegal stunts he had pulled. Thats a whole different subject.

Its appalling that he is going against the law he has sworn to protect, claiming that his word to a criminal friend who was MIA from his life is more important than his duty to his country, more important than his duty as a police officer- thats just crap. Didn't he kill said friend because duty comes first?! This is crappy writing of the first order!

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

OKay I agree...but then how is he protecting Sai..when he has registered a criminals name in all the records as Mrs. Chavan..what is in this case Shruti does something illegal or commits a crime and runs away, won't Mrs. Chavan be called out by the police department and they would easily assume he was going beyond his ways for his wife , cheating his duty for his wife?

Coming to him and his intentions..well agree he knows he is wrong..agree he has given himself se a weird theory of protecting Sai , so? Does it change the fact that he is cheating her...he will always come up with some theory in future as well and cheat her..what I am talking about here is unconscious cheating and not a conscious one .that is extremely underrated and prevalent in our society..

Honestly I think as an officer, someone who love his country Virat can be redeemed only by making him leave this job and look for something else, if he such a humanitarian...

@bold

Yaar, you can call this his stupidity no? not cheating

@red

We can call it hiding no? cheating comes when you have an intention to do bad right. Like swindling someone or sleeping/flirting/etc with another woman. Here he is with a fully pregnant woman. What wrong intentions could he have?

@bold

Yes if his hiding of Sruthi results in man or material loss, he should resign.

Originally posted by: sadiltl

Sorry I have a whole different way of looking at Virat here. :) I dont think it is wrong to see him the way you are seeing too. Virat for me is a whole person first, husband is a role he plays. It doesnt define him. Being a good person, doesnt make him a great husband. And being a bad husband, doesnt take away his helping nature. He should learn to be a good husband. We/Sai should give him few more chances.

Again I don't see him as a good person. I see him as am idiot..as a gadha honestly when he can't understand people and goes on to be the 'good' person with them...Be it Pakhi or Shruthi. Coming back to Sai , h also has been shown to a very physical and agressive man in a way where he harms her physically also when its she who makes a mistake..So that takes away a good person part of him as well honestly for her..

Also him being this good person also takes away the narrative of Virat Chavan being a meticulous and intelligent IPS officer..they need to stop showing him that...make him take up something like Samrat and it would go by the narrative of good person that he is..because being that good person he has the tendency to be cheated by people and in turn cheat his duty ..

I feel there are 2-3 teams of writer for Ghum and there is a competition between them - Who can write the most waahiyaat episodes ! This is the only logic I can think of.

Otherwise, why would someone write such 100% pure, unadulterated bakwaas! any 10 year old kid with half a brain can come up with better storyline Ye kya dika rahe hain ? Kounsa nasha karte he ye log? Can’t the leads give their own feedback and inputs? Or do they only focus on the remuneration?

- Frustrated viewer