Originally posted by: Nja91
But even as a whole person he is wrong in giving mixed signals to women. Even if he was not married, I do not think his soft exiressions and the manner in which hands were held was appropriate. I dont think its appropriate to lie about your relationship status. More than him ataying the night with her in a hotel room , what bothered me is how casual he was about lying someone is his wife. He seems far too comfortable in his physical contact, way of addressing a person who is his friends wife- his vahini and also essentially a stranger. He may only want to help people but getting too familiar/friendly looks creepy. Also if Shruti was a regular civilian who was in trouble and had no family, him going out of the way to help makes sense. Protecting a fugitive who was a gun wielding, Naxalite is laughable. She is NOT some bechaari..she chose to live in a jungle without antenatal care with no care for her unborn child. Now suddenly shes crying buckets n Virat is comforting her- looks and sounds ridiculous. ,
Thats disregarding the illegal stunts he had pulled. Thats a whole different subject.
Its appalling that he is going against the law he has sworn to protect, claiming that his word to a criminal friend who was MIA from his life is more important than his duty to his country, more important than his duty as a police officer- thats just crap. Didn't he kill said friend because duty comes first?! This is crappy writing of the first order!
This is just for argument sake, not questioning your judgement so pardon me.
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Is it not like saying that the dress a woman wears can give wrong signals for men to come and take advantage of her.
What other person thinks of your actions is not in your control right? Virat says the same thing with respect to pakhi, when Pulkit questions his actions. How his actions are perceived is not in his control. He can only control his actions. For example, tomorrow he cannot go to Pakhi's room in the pretext of asking her haal chaal and expect Sai to not suspect his feelings for Pakhi. He must control his actions there. He has to act conscious when it comes to Pakhi. But will he be 100% conscious every single time? That one instance when he is not consious, is when mistakes happen, misunderstandings happen.
His going against his Job is a mistake, for which he will pay the price if caught. But Sruthi (if) falling for him, cannot be his mistake. Role reversal here will make the discussion very uncomfortable. That Sai(or any other woman) is unknowingly leading another man with her soft actions.
(Not comparing Virat with Krishna. Just explaining the importance of intention)
Thats why intentions, only make a person. Krishna's war in Kurukshtra is Dharma yudh because of his intentions. By the rules, he broke every single rule of war existed till then.
Edited by sadiltl - 3 years ago
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