Jealousy vs Distrust - Page 2

And another major aspect is family reactions. Every time Virat has wronged Sai there have been very few people who stood up for her and reprimanded Virat. But that was also not a prolonged one. But Sai will face the wrath of every one. She will be blamed, accused and Virat will send her on a guilt trip with his mahaan image. The irony is all these members would doubt Virat in such situations but the blame will only and only be bestowed upon Sai!!

Agree. Its like “I’m hiding something, and I’m telling you this openly. Catch me if you can?”

And don’t doubt my intentions.

He is pretending to not see her point or is sidestepping it. I mean Sai was SO honest by comparing her reaction to Shruti to his reaction to Ajinkya. She basically admitted that shes insecure, jealous and possessive. Thats so hard to do. He doubted her about ajinkya even though he knew who Ajinkya was. Here Sai doesn't even know who Shruti is except that shes a friend's wife. That too because she noticed her name n mentioned it to DIG. Varna shaayad voh bhi nahi pata chalta. Sai asked all the right questions and clearly pointed out how the situation is different and how the most important difference is that not only is he hiding things from her, he seems unaffected by the impact on her and even when confronted he is avoiding giving her any explanation. Sai admitted her insecurities to him and is begging him for clarification despite being upset whereas Virat refused to listen to her explanation when he was angry/upset. After all her begging for details, tomm if she sees him sign in hospital as Shrutis husband and hold her hand sitting beside her during something as personal/intimate to a woman as her pregnancy/delivery, how is she as his wife supposed to feel?! Will she be wrong for getting outraged and not wanting to hear his explanation which she will obviously perceive as excuses. Virat had a valuable window of opportunity to tell Sai atleast part of the truth but he has given her very limited info and only said "sahi vakt ka wait karo" . By the time he tells her it'll be too late.

Theres no comparison between Virat and Sai in terms of the situation and also the reaction to the situations. The only common aspect is the jealousy/insecurity/possessiveness.

Sai and Ajinkya were never sneaking around. Everything between them was on full display for virat. When he heard their phone convo, Sai didn't cut the call or walk away to talk in private. When he asked her if she shares everything with Ajinkya, Sai equated it to his friendship with Sunny (not PP - even though she could have compared it to pp to taunt him). When he walked in on them in the bedroom, the room was wide open! If they truly wanted to steal a few moments to canoodle and romance secretly, they would have met outside or shut the door. Sai understood his anger and tried to explain but he didn't listen. He assaulted Ajinkya.

Contrast this to Sai's behavior to when she is insecure/jealous. She has walked out of her room to allow pp-Virat to speak in private, she has tolerated all kinds of invasion of privacy by pp and when she had enough and told pp off- she has tolerated Virats reprimand for her legitimate reactions. She had tolerated incessant comparisons to her husband's ex lover. And now with Shruti too, she has seen her husband walk away to take the calls in private or fo just leave at midnight. He is distracted by her calls/texts even when he's at home. Sai is so honest n is asking him for an explanation directly. She is not making any assumptions. She just wants the truth. She wants her husband to disclose whats going on in his life. That's all. Her phone throwing is the most physical outrage she has shown. And even that did no permanent damage, his phone is still working 😂 the only good thing is that at least Virat didnt raise his voice and seems to understand that Sais anger/irritability os warranted. But what use is that if he cannot reassure her. He should have at least given her a time limit instead of the vague "sahi wakt". If he had said- i think this will take 10 days to sort out, just gimme 10 days- Sai would wait. She would still be anxious, curious....but not as completely clueless as she is now.

Yes she should have not side stepped. Atleast acknowledged it and said he was possessive. I think in the need to postpone confession these things are handled half bakedly.

I prefer showing confession rather than this trash talk.

The guy is a loser. There is no difference in his interactions and physical proximity or behaviour between a wife, a friend and friend’s wife. He is same with everyone. He believes in equality- Equal treatment for one and all👏👏👏👏

If nothing else will the emotions he holds for his wife not automatically reflect the difference in his approach. Hand holding is same, supporting while walking is same. And why the hell do u promise something when u cant keep it. And if you can’t what a coward u are that you dont have the guts to call and inform but let the other person, wait and sulk. And then have the audacity to say, forgive me🤦‍♀️ Just because she is your wife, you can take her for granted. You can break your promises with her. But dude isn’t she with you because of one such promise that you are supposed to keep?

I must say this guy loves challenges. Because wifey doesn’t seem like a thrilling adventure or an interesting challenge anymore. So you move to greener pastures anf he picks up the promise done to friend and his friend’s wife.
Both his friend and his wife are naxalites. If he believed that killing his friend was his duty, and his farz, duty towards his country is supreme, how is helping another naxalite because of the promise made to his friend above his duty? He can leave his wife, he can die for his country, but will go against his “farz” for his promise and bettay the nation and his job👏👏👏👏