~ Neil&Aishwarya Wedding Thread Discussion ~ ||DT note: pg3-20 - Page 2

We don't want this sticky thread here.

Please take action against the mods of ghkkpm forum coz they themselves are violating rules after posting numerous DT warnings that lead many to quit this forum..

Also I don't care if IF take any action against me also.

Hello everyone,

There have been marriage threads in previous sections too where the actors are both from the same show so this thread is not breaking any rule.

This thread was mainly posted so that we avoid the various threads congratulating the couple. We want to keep it in one single thread.

Please feel free to ignore the thread if you are not interested in wishing the couple. If you have questions, you can PM the DT rather than posting here which is breaking the rules.

-IF DT

How has even raising our concerns and displeasure politely become violation of rules?

In my humble opinion it makes no sense to say that we can have a thread pertaining to 2 actors personal life and marriage if they are both on the same show but other actors- even leads- who choose to marry people not on the cast of their show or have other life events like birthdays etc do NOT get a separate thread. Its blatant partiality and bias

I would once again like to raise objection to the existence of this thread. Those who want to congratulate the couple can very well do so on social media, write to them/email them, send messages through the PH etc etc.

Creating a separate thread purely pertaining to the personal life of these 2 actors but not doing the same for others reeks of BIAS and is offensive to other actors who are not getting this "special" treatment.

I once again request that this thread be shut.

When a good section of forum members are clearly raising objection to this thread, it is in extremely poor taste for you to reopen it.

Really really sad to see a begining of a new journey starting with some bitterness of people.. Anyways Good wishes to them..

I really don't understand whether the forum rules changes as per actor's convenience.. 👎🏼

We don't want to be called hatemongers.. But previous actions of the said actors brought all these displeasure.. WE ARE SIMPLY DONE..

I know it can be part of IF revenue.. But don't go to an extent where looses it's credibility..

I was disappointed with some members yesterday that they actually opened two threads regarding them.. So it has kind of giving more chances to open such thread to get views..

I wonder whether actors allowed it to spread their wedding details knowing that they will be mocked or it is done without their permission.??. In both cases it's quite out of morals and disrespectful towards themselves only..I believe what they share between them is more precious that should be cherished but by making it a social circus.

Originally posted by: Nja91

How has even raising our concerns and displeasure politely become violation of rules?

In my humble opinion it makes no sense to say that we can have a thread pertaining to 2 actors personal life and marriage if they are both on the same show but other actors- even leads- who choose to marry people not on the cast of their show or have other life events like birthdays etc do NOT get a separate thread. Its blatant partiality and bias

I would once again like to raise objection to the existence of this thread. Those who want to congratulate the couple can very well do so on social media, write to them/email them, send messages through the PH etc etc.

Creating a separate thread purely pertaining to the personal life of these 2 actors but not doing the same for others reeks of BIAS and is offensive to other actors who are not getting this "special" treatment.

I once again request that this thread be shut.

When a good section of forum members are clearly raising objection to this thread, it is in extremely poor taste for you to reopen it.

​​Concerns/queries regarding moderation should be PMed to development team members of the section. I am answering this here to clarify to other members too. But if you have any further queries, please PM one of the DT. If you are not satisfied with the answers, you can always contact higher DT.

Coming to the thread, it is not the first thread that has been opened for the marriage of co-stars in IF, so this rule is not made by GHKKPM DT. This thread was made mainly to avoid different posts in the forum with the exact same content. Coming to birthday threads, members always take permission for such birthday thread (again we ask to take permission to avoid several threads with the same content) If you want us to create a thread just like this without any graphic for birthdays of any of the main characters, you can let us know, we will gladly do it.

This is an open forum and there are fans of Neil and Aishwarya and they might create posts in the forum for the wedding. We would like to keep all the related posts to this thread rather than having multiple threads. If you feel this thread is not for you, please feel free to ignore it.

By that logic, all threads or even posts within a thread that people create and one doesnt ascribe to or one has a problem with can simply be "ignored". If you shut down certain threads simply to respect the sentiments of even one forum member who flags it raising objections then I dont understand why the same rationale is not applied here.

The problem is not the existence of this thread for the purpose of congratulations etc, but a matter of principles. No one would have problems with this thread if several of us hadnt been curbed from airing our views about other things and if it didnt reek of blatant favoritism and undue special treatment being meted out only to 2 actors. Rules cannot be changed/made up/ignored per convenience.

Credibility also matters.

Originally posted by: Nja91

By that logic, all threads or even posts within a thread that people create and one doesnt ascribe to or one has a problem with can simply be "ignored". If you shut down certain threads simply to respect the sentiments of even one forum member who flags it raising objections then I dont understand why the same rationale is not applied here.

The problem is not the existence of this thread for the purpose of congratulations etc, but a matter of principles. No one would have problems with this thread if several of us hadnt been curbed from airing our views about other things and if it didnt reek of blatant favoritism and undue special treatment being meted out only to 2 actors. Rules cannot be changed/made up/ignored per convenience.

Credibility also matters.

This post will be the last post where I am answering queries here, you can PM me if you have any further queries. Any posts not related to this thread will be deleted.

I just wanted to say thank you towards the mods for giving us a space for congratulating the gorgeous couple on their D day.

And can everyone stop speaking on behalf of others and questioning mods ?? There are people who would very much like to wish the couple on their wedding ON IF.

Congratulations to the couple ❤️

Their video together is awesome ⭐️

Waiting for more pics to come 😊

PS: I do not follow the show but follow the couple. I find them cute and genuine... God bless them and keep them safe from evil eyes...

Congratulations to the couple on their special day 💓. Yesterday Mehendi was done and Today Baraat reached Ujjain 💓. Waiting for today's function update..