Sai may be going overboard with pakhi jaap but - Page 6

Originally posted by: MuguetDScorpion

Haha we have different way to see the things. So won't go round and round. My point is that if Pakhi doesn't affect her and if Pakhi is the reason of Virat's anger like she believes it to be then isn't it better to stop talking about her ? If something irritates the hell out of me, I rather ignore that thing instead of poke it again and again for my own peace of mind. But she will do the exact opposite. Anyway, all the three characters are irritating on their own way. 😆

@ bold: this is what we will do but this can't be expected from every person. She took her own time but finally she has decided to move ahead without Virat.That's a good thing. In life, everybody do things on their own pace. It took her one year to reach this conclusion that she can't stay with Virat in CN.

Originally posted by: Soanz.19

Personally, for me, if partners don't come clean infront of each other and are hiding such details there's no point in continuing the relationship. Honesty and trust are far far more important than just love. When these crucial aspects are missing in a relationship, it's a recipe for disaster. I will never be able to accept that Virat wants Sai not to bring up certain things because maybe he doesn't want to discuss it. It's become a pattern with him. Don't speak about man handling, don't speak about midnight ousting, don't speak about Pakhi because I don't want to discuss those things. That's not how relationships work.

Exactly if they cant discuss because of one person , well then they are not partners..

Originally posted by: vimeo

This third angle will continue to linger in Sais mind. Since she cant let go of it she shud part ways with Virat. Virat may or may not love Pakhi but I am sure even in the future Sai will have a lingering doubt on Virat. So best is to go separate ways. At least in real life that wud be the best.

Virat will not let it go as well..Just today I translated a scene where Rono is showing his Haq to RK as a friend and family member, sitting in her room...

Originally posted by: laksh

They showed it to some extent when Sai blurted to Pakhi saying she was trying to take her position. It was shown clearly as how disturbed Sai gets when Pakhi tries to take liberty on Virat and acts like his wife. It is all in there but she doesn’t want to accept it since she doesn’t have answers if Virat asks her why it affects her. One more reason is she is afraid if Virat will ask her how can she get affected since he had already told her about it during their marriage. She is not convinced that he has actually ended his commitment. She feels that he has done it for his brother but not because he doesn’t feel anything for Pakhi anymore. That is why she feels that Virat wouldn’t like her having any expectations as that of a wife to not to talk to Pakhi. She is so disturbed by the coffee meet and hand holding and is not even able to stop herself from bringing it. She is fighting with him because she has never imagined he would do that. She thinks he might have feelings for Pakhi but wouldn’t have imagined them to be this close that they will hold hands so comfortably. That is why she keeps bringing it up. Aapke dil mein Pakhi Didi hain, she says often which shows that she has been thinking it all to be his wish but really never expected him to show it out by meeting her outside the house, in a cafe and also by letting himself to hold her hands to comfort her. She has thought that he has always buried his feelings in his heart, never imagined it would be shown by him this way. That is why she is making a big deal about it from my understanding.

I don’t doubt that Sai is affected by Virat and like Sai’s reactions to him, I would enjoy seeing more of it. And I even understand her turnaround to switch pati to patient. she is protecting her heart and she was clear about to it Virat the night before. Apart from a few things being repeated and not hearing each other, I liked the sairat confrontation after the pooja.

I think she was really broken by the scene by the pool at Harini’s birthday. She kept bringing up Pakhi and Virat’s commitment to her since then.

Another miss by the makers is the scene with Sai’s aaba, that should have changed Sai’s perspective at least in her monologues.

I love love stories, and angst is important for love stories. I think Ayesha and Neil are so good at portraying their feelings that it is disappointing when the makers don’t use them to their max potential.

Sairat has no future unless they break free from the shackles of CN and Pakhi!

But even if Pakhi is removed I feel Sai can never trust Virat completely. That doubt will linger.

Originally posted by: vimeo

Sairat has no future unless they break free from the shackles of CN and Pakhi!

But even if Pakhi is removed I feel Sai can never trust Virat completely. That doubt will linger.

I dont think so...she got affected only from Harini's birthday kaand...Any woman in her place would feel uncomfortable...with the way Pakhi has always been standing outside their room and between them...

Originally posted by: UPSC2021

Firstly deal wife means mind ur own business .don't interfere in virat life and cn family matters.but Dai does it every time with her pure heart intentions.deal wife don't cancel her husband transfer .deal wife have no right to question the relationship which virat mentioned in the first part of the deal itself.

But here Sai use deal wife as her defense and want all real wife rights.

Until Sai stand is not clear what she actually feels or wants till then her rant is irritating to me.

Lastly I m not even a wife yet so for me it's all stupid .

True that. They are NOT husband wife in a literal sense , they are NOT gf bf in literal sense , they are NOT partners and they are NOT friends either . As per SAI . So how r deal husband and deal wife supposed to treat each other is what is known to the ghum writers alone

. Today it might have started with pakhi barging into their room and provoke sai but this actually started with sai forcefully taking care of virat after anniversary fiasco. Jab bol diya deal wife hai toh why Thooso medicine in his mouth and show concern? He was sulking , depressed , sad , he would have left without saying a word but sai had to do what she had to do .stop him and do what she thinks is right. Stop his transfer . She keeps on giving diff names to her actions, my patient , my concern , my nature , my intentions , my family, my aai , samrat dada and virat does the same ..pati hone ka haque and all that crap. Matlab tumhe farq padta hai toh engage in a cat fight and nai padta toh jaane do. Why engage with a foolish woman for nth time, who is provoking you just to show you bad in front of the deal husband ? Something which cud have ended with "ok" had to be stretched to 1 episode and 25 mins of bickering from 3 sides

There is nothing to be taken seriously. These 3 can say anything and forget the next day and repeat it any other time. Haven't we seen this fight in the past ? Wohi tha with different costumes. 😆

Right now what state Sai is in, whatever happens she cannot trust Virat! How will a statement 'I Love u' make a difference when the prejudice is so deep rooted!

Originally posted by: vimeo

Right now what state Sai is in, whatever happens she cannot trust Virat! How will a statement 'I Love u' make a difference when the prejudice is so deep rooted!

I have always maintained, she does not want Virat to say I love you...she wants Virat to clarify his pasts in clear words, to specifically clarify he is "not in love" with Pakhi....That would be enough for her to move ahead...and grow...

I really hope she can move on if she receives the clarification. Because I don't feel that Sai can move on and lead a life with Virat. May the cvs fault or the actors' but that doesn't come out so well is what I feel. Of course we know it will be Sairat end game but looking at things right now how it is this is what I feel.