Sai may be going overboard with pakhi jaap but - Page 5

Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

Unless virat won't put pakhi in her place & stop her from targetting sai. This will continue. I hope after accident track they show actual sai love realisation instead of her abuse.

These stupid writers can't even show that Sai has fallen in love and that's why it's bothering her. But when there is no realization of love but just her repetitive Pakhi jaap then it actually gets boring to watch.

Originally posted by: UPSC2021

Firstly deal wife means mind ur own business .don't interfere in virat life and cn family matters.but Dai does it every time with her pure heart intentions.deal wife don't cancel her husband transfer .deal wife have no right to question the relationship which virat mentioned in the first part of the deal itself.

But here Sai use deal wife as her defense and want all real wife rights.

Until Sai stand is not clear what she actually feels or wants till then her rant is irritating to me.

Lastly I m not even a wife yet so for me it's all stupid .

Both main leads are flawed.. But they are going overboard with showing them flawed..

I was thoroughly disappointed that actual issue were NOT brought up during their fights....it's NOT about who Virat loves the most but mental abuse he has done with his wife..

NO relationship can take off without transparency..SAI can sense there are something between them more than just deal husband and wife but she needs the final clarity and rightly so.. She keeps on barges into their room accuses her husband for celebrating her birthday and what NOT.. NO wife would like to hear all these on daily basis by her husband's EX..Virat flips sides according his convenience which deepens her doubts about Pakhi even more..

Sai wasn't entirely right about cancelling his transfer AND she was going to repeat the same mistake knowing Virat is irritated..

Originally posted by: Nabni_blr31

I agree Sai is doing Pakhi Jaap. So by this time Virat should realize the root cause of their problem is PAKHI. Sai is always shown as an impulsive person. Then as a matured person what Virat needs to do next?He just has to call his Vahini as Vahini infront of Sai and for once atleast show his Vahini her actual place. Is this a tough job to do for a husband who claims he loves his wife.Instead what is he doing , joining bff 's gang to insult his wife. If that day sai ko galti se bhi spokesperson nahi banaunga dialogue was wrong,then in today's episode Sai tumhari yeh gesture deserve nahi karti was disgusting. It was an indirect taunt to Sai. If an IPS officer can be manipulated by his ex so easily, starts trusting her again, then why can't we give benefit of doubt to Sai's aggressive behavior.

As a girl/woman my heart goes out for Sai. She is so dependent on Virat that she is becoming weak day by day. The fear of loosing him making her more aggressive. Becoz she has nobody in this entire world. This is her realization stage I agree,but the process is really pathetic. Nobody deserves this and for whom a person like Virat. Nonsense. 😡

I am so so angry after watching today's episode. Wanted to vent out my anger somewhere. 😆Sab yahan nikal diya. 😕 Sorry.

Also what is wrong with Neil's acting? Same sada karela expression through out the episode I am sorry Neil's fans. But I am very disappointed with his acting.

That's the thing. Writers suck big time in writing something good. If only they showed Sai actually falling in love then we would have sympathized with her. Here neither is she falling in love nor ignoring the things.

When he is supposed to be irritated and pissed what other expression can he give ? Karela hi toh lagega na ? It's not his acting but the poor writing.

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Originally posted by: fj08

The Pakhi jaap would make sense if they showed Sai’s emotions being engaged for Virat. They are not explicit about that and that makes the constant Pakhi’ing annoying. I would feel it more if I saw that Sai wants Virats love and attention and feels it’s going to Pakhi instead.

It’s lazy writing tbh, they could do a much better job if someone put some effort into it

They showed it to some extent when Sai blurted to Pakhi saying she was trying to take her position. It was shown clearly as how disturbed Sai gets when Pakhi tries to take liberty on Virat and acts like his wife. It is all in there but she doesn’t want to accept it since she doesn’t have answers if Virat asks her why it affects her. One more reason is she is afraid if Virat will ask her how can she get affected since he had already told her about it during their marriage. She is not convinced that he has actually ended his commitment. She feels that he has done it for his brother but not because he doesn’t feel anything for Pakhi anymore. That is why she feels that Virat wouldn’t like her having any expectations as that of a wife to not to talk to Pakhi. She is so disturbed by the coffee meet and hand holding and is not even able to stop herself from bringing it. She is fighting with him because she has never imagined he would do that. She thinks he might have feelings for Pakhi but wouldn’t have imagined them to be this close that they will hold hands so comfortably. That is why she keeps bringing it up. Aapke dil mein Pakhi Didi hain, she says often which shows that she has been thinking it all to be his wish but really never expected him to show it out by meeting her outside the house, in a cafe and also by letting himself to hold her hands to comfort her. She has thought that he has always buried his feelings in his heart, never imagined it would be shown by him this way. That is why she is making a big deal about it from my understanding.

Originally posted by: laksh

They showed it to some extent when Sai blurted to Pakhi saying she was trying to take her positioning. It was shown clearly as how disturbed Sai gets when Pakhi tries to take liberty on Virat and acts like his wife. It is all in there but she doesn’t want to accept it since she doesn’t have answers if Virat asks her why it affects her. One more reason is she is afraid if Virat will ask her how can she get affected since he had already told her about it during their marriage. She is not convinced that he has actually ended his commitment. She feels that he has done it for his brother but not because he doesn’t feel anything for Pakhi anymore. That is why she feels that Virat wouldn’t like her having any expectations as that of a wife to not to talk to Pakhi. She is so disturbed by the coffee meet and hand holding and is not even able to stop herself from bringing it. She is fighting with him because she has never imagined he would do that. She thinks he might have feelings for Pakhi but wouldn’t have imagined them to be this close that they will hold hands so comfortably. That is why she keeps bringing it up. Aapke dil mein Pakhi Didi hain, she says often which shows that she has been thinking it all to be his wish but really never expected him to show it out by meeting her outside the house, in a cafe and also by letting himself to hold her hands to comfort her. She has thought that he has always buried his feelings in his heart, never imagined it would be shown by him this way. That is why she is making a big deal about it from my understanding.

Said the same thing...but in a jalebi way 🤣

Originally posted by: MuguetDScorpion

He definitely is wrong about it and no one denied that. If one is not willing to reveal the truth and the conversation is bringing the worst of them then why even stretch and make your own bheja fry ? That's all I have been saying from beginning that Pakhi topic is a headache for her ownself and viewers too. End of discussing. I have to go back to work.

Personally, for me, if partners don't come clean infront of each other and are hiding such details there's no point in continuing the relationship. Honesty and trust are far far more important than just love. When these crucial aspects are missing in a relationship, it's a recipe for disaster. I will never be able to accept that Virat wants Sai not to bring up certain things because maybe he doesn't want to discuss it. It's become a pattern with him. Don't speak about man handling, don't speak about midnight ousting, don't speak about Pakhi because I don't want to discuss those things. That's not how relationships work.

This third angle will continue to linger in Sais mind. Since she cant let go of it she shud part ways with Virat. Virat may or may not love Pakhi but I am sure even in the future Sai will have a lingering doubt on Virat. So best is to go separate ways. At least in real life that wud be the best.

Originally posted by: Soanz.19

Personally, for me, if partners don't come clean infront of each other and are hiding such details there's no point in continuing the relationship. Honesty and trust are far far more important than just love. When these crucial aspects are missing in a relationship, it's a recipe for disaster. I will never be able to accept that Virat wants Sai not to bring up certain things because maybe he doesn't want to discuss it. It's become a pattern with him. Don't speak about man handling, don't speak about midnight ousting, don't speak about Pakhi because I don't want to discuss those things. That's not how relationships work.

That's the thing. He doesn't want to talk. She doesn't want to leave the topic. There is no middle ground. 😆