Ghum Hain kisikey Pyaar Mein WU and Daily Discussion Thread no 53. - Page 79

Originally posted by: Amor_fati

Sai is sad.. n Ashwini wants her to smile n welcome Bappa.. Small Ganeshji for CN’s Shaan🤣 Sai is cleaning Virat’s feet n doing aarti.. I haven’t seen this before.. Is this Maharastrian style..

Yes, whoever is holding the murti, their spouse/children washes their feet and applies tilak on their forehead. It is in the maharashtrian culture

Originally posted by: Devikadish

Today Karishma was wearing Sai ka blouse, ya phir it was Karishma ka blouse but Sai had borrowed it.

The understanding between Chavan bahus

P.s. I am still wondering how and why my eyes caught that detail, baaki time toh main kuch observe he nahi karti, until someone specifically mentions it😭😭

Even I observed this in morning😅

Disha ji also great eyes see alike🤣

Originally posted by: sairat07

Even I observed this in morning😅

Disha ji also great eyes see alike🤣

Mere eyes pehli baare great bann gaye, warna baaki time kuch observe nahi karti. Show meiin BDs ki baare meiin forum se pata chalta hai🤣

Originally posted by: Devikadish

Mere eyes pehli baare great bann gaye, warna baaki time kuch observe nahi karti. Show meiin BDs ki baare meiin forum se pata chalta hai🤣

Same goes with me🤣

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

She was not cleaning his feet per se, she was cleaning the feet of the person who was holding Bappa...In many rituals here , we(both men and women) clean the feet of the girls who represent Navdurga during Durga Puja... Even the feet of women who represent Goddess Lakshmi is cleaned...

Yeah, during navratri, maharashtrian(other culture as well) people here call young girls to their home and do their aarti and wash their feet, considering them to be devi.

I personally, didn't find anything wrong in Sai performing the ritual. It is nothing to be looked down upon😊

Originally posted by: Devikadish

Yeah, during navratri, maharashtrian(other culture as well) people here call young girls to their home and do their aarti and wash their feet, considering them to be devi.

I personally, didn't find anything wrong in Sai performing the ritual. It is nothing to be looked down upon😊

Yeah me too... They say for that moment the person carrying Bappa denotes Bappa...

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Yeah me too... They say for that moment the person carrying Bappa denotes Bappa...

Yeah, all the rituals are only for Bappa❤️

Originally posted by: Devikadish

Yeah, all the rituals are only for Bappa❤️

Yes, I'm not a Maharashtrian by birth but I have lived in Mumbai all my life & have seen some of these rituals.

Some Maharashtrians also keep Gauri from the 5/7th day of Ganpati & they have some seperate rituals for people coming from various regions within Maharashtra.

And washing feet as far as I know is gender neutral, had Sai gotten the Ganpati/Gauri someone would have washed her feet as well. These things differ from family to family & custom to custom!

Since I have seen this around here I felt the scene was pretty normal pertaining to the culture they are trying to represent. I don't know what subsect of Maharashtrians the CN people are though but did not feel purposely inserted!

Originally posted by: Tapdance

Yes, I'm not a Maharashtrian by birth but I have lived in Mumbai all my life & have seen some of these rituals.

Some Maharashtrians also keep Gauri from the 5/7th day of Ganpati & they have some seperate rituals for people coming from various regions within Maharashtra.

And washing feet as far as I know is gender neutral, had Sai gotten the Ganpati/Gauri someone would have washed her feet as well. These things differ from family to family & custom to custom!

Since I have seen this around here I felt the scene was pretty normal pertaining to the culture they are trying to represent. I don't know what subsect of Maharashtrians the CN people are though but did not feel purposely inserted!

Exactly ...I am not sure how it suddenly became a patriarchy issue...on other SM sites.. In many cultures feet of the girls are washed by both men and women during Durga Puja..

Originally posted by: Tapdance

Yes, I'm not a Maharashtrian by birth but I have lived in Mumbai all my life & have seen some of these rituals.

Some Maharashtrians also keep Gauri from the 5/7th day of Ganpati & they have some seperate rituals for people coming from various regions within Maharashtra.

And washing feet as far as I know is gender neutral, had Sai gotten the Ganpati/Gauri someone would have washed her feet as well. These things differ from family to family & custom to custom!

Since I have seen this around here I felt the scene was pretty normal pertaining to the culture they are trying to represent. I don't know what subsect of Maharashtrians the CN people are though but did not feel purposely inserted!

I didn't find the scene forcefully inserted. I am not Maharashtrian but we get Ganpati at home every year. We don't wash the person's feet. We do welcome arti and distribute sweets. However I do believe some sections of Maharashtrian families may do so. Even the way Ganpati murti was brought was correct. It is always coveted with a nice cloth. I did not find Virat dancing as awkward at all. Yes, he is upset but that doesn't mean he will sit witj a long face especially when he is bringing Ganpati home. In Mumbai, Ganesh Chaturthi is an emotion. Bappa be it big or small is brought home with a lot of love, merriment and festive fervour. 😊