Originally posted by: sadiltl
Ok the episode was sad for me to see virat do two things I never expected him to do.
1. Compare with pakhi when he himself once reprimanded pakhi not to compare herself with his wife!
2. During Harini birthday face off he said pakhi that he would not make sai feel obligated to love him.
For me that was the vision Of virat the character that I loved for his passion and truthfulness that comes out at the same time. never ever I felt he would do the same things above 
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coming to the fight, yes they are angry on each other because they don’t understand what each feels for the other.
Virats pain point: that sai doenst consider him as her husband. He gets hurt when she insinuates that he has wrong intentions for pakhi! Today’s shut up showed how much he doesn’t like her do this. But why can’t he clear it to save himself from this torture of being misunderstood.?!
I don’t call her denying to attend the Pooja her zidd or arrogance.She doesn’t want to attend it because she sees it as a lie! Virat fails to understand this because he wants samrat and pakhi to move on! He likes that idea and he thinks it will happen because samrat is also involved in this whole idea of giving a chance thingy.
now that sai misunderstands him, he thinks sai is misunderstanding everything else also! That’s why Sai’s beliefs are coming across as zidd to him!
@bold What she meant was that he was faking as if he is happy with everything because according to her he has feelings for Pakhi but he is sacrificing it for his brother. This is the same girl who was made to hear a stupid story from the guy at the lover’s point who made it look as if the tragic story was his own story. After hearing all those and knowing the background of their relationship, also witnessing the lovers (how it looked like) at the cafe holding each other’s hands, one crying and other comforting, she is not able to believe that Virat is actually happy about the whole thing but is doing it all for his brother’s happiness.
@green That is the problem. He cannot understand anything from other’s perspective.
@blue I agree.
Virat has lost it. He has no control over his emotions and actions once again.
He is getting desperate to be loved, for her to reciprocate his feelings.
He doesn’t like Sai misunderstanding him.
Her questioning Pakhi also means her questioning him according to him. He is taking it personally and hence growing mad.
If Pakhi’s truth from the cafe come out, there are chances that even he wouldn’t be believed, his truth will be difficult for people in the house too especially for Samrat and Sai to believe.
Sai has understood what Pakhi is trying to do and her conscience doesn’t allow her to be a part of anything that Pakhi is doing. Pakhi had asked for this Pooja as a new start for her and Samrat’s life which Sai has realised to be all fake. She is as usual blunt in expressing what she thinks about all these and how she wouldn’t want to be a part of it.
Sai calling out on Virat entering Pakhi’s room just like how Pakhi enters their room was very right. At the moment Virat will take everything as an accusation.
Virat in a way did what Sai had said, acting like Pakhi. He just entered their room and also entered their conversation with no manners at all. He should have walked out when he saw Samrat and Pakhi were having a personal conversation. Even if the conversation involved him, he shouldn’t have and had no rights to enter their room snd discussion that way.
As Sai herself had said he wouldn’t understand what he is doing now but by the time he understands all these it would be too late.
Virat will definitely have to face the consequences of his actions.
Sai is angry that Virat can’t even see what Pakhi is doing and is blindly believing Pakhi but is insulting her by ganging up with Pakhi whereas Virat is angry thinking that Sai is not able to understand him and is misunderstanding him yet again.
The guy doesn’t understand what impression it can give to a girl if he sides with his ex, if he gangs up with his ex and attacks his wife.
For Sai, Virat supporting Pakhi yet again only proves the value of her in his life and the value of Pakhi too in his life.
Him going to Pakhi’s room was a problem mainly because of what happened in their room and also because the actions of the friends are similar.
She has been able to see many similarities between the friends. One of the reasons why she got hurt during the pendant drama where she realised how both of them thought the same thing. All such indications makes her think and feel insecured that their wavelength matches, their thinking matches, they understand each other, they are meant for each other (also as spoken by the yoga instructor with more details about their chemistry).
Virat is upset and has become vengeful that his feelings is not getting reciprocated and also because of Sai saying he is acting like Pakhi, that he will be coming in the way of Samrat and Pakhi’s relationship.
He wanted to hurt Sai intentionally by asking questions like if she is not happy with Pakhi’s happiness. It is like using what Pakhi had spoken against Sai, using what Pakhi had accused Sai of. He was hitting her below the belt by saying these.
Like many who understand and who gets impressed by soft natured people, people who act very patient and who try to project themselves as matured people, Virat gets carried over by Pakhi’s facade, her fake maturity, her fake magnanimity so much that Sai’s honest and blunt attitude and behaviour irritates him, pushes him to conclude that she is immatured, that she will be protesting for even genuine things.
The same Virat who always appreciates her honesty is unable to do so now since he doesn’t want any of these now. He is right now a selfish guy who just wants his feelings to be acknowledged and reciprocated that he doesn’t care even if there is any truth in what she is claiming. This is exactly why he is supporting Pakhi, appreciating her because even though he likes Sai for who she is, he wants her not to be blunt ur straightforward this time.
Also Virat likes the qualities in Sai but would also like her to possess some of the qualities of Pakhi (which he has not even realised is only superficial qualities of Pakhi) like acting soft, acting obedient, acting patient. Is this not why he wanted Pakhi to guide Sai when she first came to CN? He is still impressed with some of Pakhi’s qualities because of which he has high regards of her, calls her matured , samajhdhaar all the time. He is a very opinionated guy who likes Sai for her selfless and righteous nature but also thinks of her as moohfat, badtameez, nasamajh/immatured.
He is so angry with Sai
- for not reciprocating his feelings
- for continuing to misunderstand him
- to have cancelled his transfer which would have meant that he could have got away from all this easily but is made to face her, stay with her without being able to control his emotions for her, without being able to stay away from her, run so far away from her where he will not have to see her, face her only to be developing expectations from her to understand him and his feelings every minute he he staying next to her
- so enamoured by Pakhi’s facade, fake acts that he has ignored all her evil intentions and evil acts
that he wants to hurt Sai, wants to shut her up, wants to put her down that he had once again made a below the belt comment by comparing her with Pakhi. By saying why the family like Pakhi but not her.
Her taking the liberty to cancel his transfer has also pushed him to want to show his liberty, his power by controlling her by locking up in her room.
Virat like Sai’s qualities but would prefer her to just abide by what he or his family says/expects that are anyway reasonable as per his guidelines. If the family expects that Sai gives up on education, he wouldn’t want her to follow but if the family expects her to apply Alta or attend a Pooja, then he would be expecting her to follow without protesting.
Sai hasn’t got a clarity about their relationship, she hasn’t got to know what they spoke in the cafe. She also knows that Pakhi hasn’t actually moved on but is only faking it to make Virat feel jealous.
Even if Sai could have expressed her unwillingness to not attend Pooja in a different way, she was also pushed to behave like this after the way he and his friend had bullied and insulted her the previous night.
Just like how he was showing his anger, she was also showing her anger by refusing to attend the Pooja in the way she was. She wasn’t willing to back down when he was challenging her that he will ensure that she won’t be able to leave the house.
She also didn’t like the way he always tries to get certain things done and knows to what extreme he can go (PD lunch incident) and hence challenged him in return to see if he would do anything that he had promised that he would never do.
All that Virat had showed at the end was that he would not let her have her way, he will show her his power and will control her actions in anyway if needed. His hurt, his anger has blinded him so much that he is and will be doing everything against her, will want to make her do things that she doesn’t want to.
@red I am sorry to say but I no longer consider his feelings for Sai as love. A person in love wouldn’t inflict pain on their loved ones and Virat does it by siding up/ganging up with people who are against Sai (Pakhi) and insults her because he is upset with her.
Edited by laksh - 4 years ago
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