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Posted: 4 years ago
#51

Originally posted by: laksh

@bold What she meant was that he was faking as if he is happy with everything because according to her he has feelings for Pakhi but he is sacrificing it for his brother. This is the same girl who was made to hear a stupid story from the guy at the lover’s point who made it look as if the tragic story was his own story. After hearing all those and knowing the background of their relationship, also witnessing the lovers (how it looked like) at the cafe holding each other’s hands, one crying and other comforting, she is not able to believe that Virat is actually happy about the whole thing but is doing it all for his brother’s happiness.


@green That is the problem. He cannot understand anything from other’s perspective.


@blue I agree.


Virat has lost it. He has no control over his emotions and actions once again.

He is getting desperate to be loved, for her to reciprocate his feelings.

He doesn’t like Sai misunderstanding him.

Her questioning Pakhi also means her questioning him according to him. He is taking it personally and hence growing mad.

If Pakhi’s truth from the cafe come out, there are chances that even he wouldn’t be believed, his truth will be difficult for people in the house too especially for Samrat and Sai to believe.

Sai has understood what Pakhi is trying to do and her conscience doesn’t allow her to be a part of anything that Pakhi is doing. Pakhi had asked for this Pooja as a new start for her and Samrat’s life which Sai has realised to be all fake. She is as usual blunt in expressing what she thinks about all these and how she wouldn’t want to be a part of it.

Sai calling out on Virat entering Pakhi’s room just like how Pakhi enters their room was very right. At the moment Virat will take everything as an accusation.

Virat in a way did what Sai had said, acting like Pakhi. He just entered their room and also entered their conversation with no manners at all. He should have walked out when he saw Samrat and Pakhi were having a personal conversation. Even if the conversation involved him, he shouldn’t have and had no rights to enter their room snd discussion that way.

As Sai herself had said he wouldn’t understand what he is doing now but by the time he understands all these it would be too late.

Virat will definitely have to face the consequences of his actions.

Sai is angry that Virat can’t even see what Pakhi is doing and is blindly believing Pakhi but is insulting her by ganging up with Pakhi whereas Virat is angry thinking that Sai is not able to understand him and is misunderstanding him yet again.

The guy doesn’t understand what impression it can give to a girl if he sides with his ex, if he gangs up with his ex and attacks his wife.

For Sai, Virat supporting Pakhi yet again only proves the value of her in his life and the value of Pakhi too in his life.

Him going to Pakhi’s room was a problem mainly because of what happened in their room and also because the actions of the friends are similar.

She has been able to see many similarities between the friends. One of the reasons why she got hurt during the pendant drama where she realised how both of them thought the same thing. All such indications makes her think and feel insecured that their wavelength matches, their thinking matches, they understand each other, they are meant for each other (also as spoken by the yoga instructor with more details about their chemistry).


Virat is upset and has become vengeful that his feelings is not getting reciprocated and also because of Sai saying he is acting like Pakhi, that he will be coming in the way of Samrat and Pakhi’s relationship.

He wanted to hurt Sai intentionally by asking questions like if she is not happy with Pakhi’s happiness. It is like using what Pakhi had spoken against Sai, using what Pakhi had accused Sai of. He was hitting her below the belt by saying these.

Like many who understand and who gets impressed by soft natured people, people who act very patient and who try to project themselves as matured people, Virat gets carried over by Pakhi’s facade, her fake maturity, her fake magnanimity so much that Sai’s honest and blunt attitude and behaviour irritates him, pushes him to conclude that she is immatured, that she will be protesting for even genuine things.

The same Virat who always appreciates her honesty is unable to do so now since he doesn’t want any of these now. He is right now a selfish guy who just wants his feelings to be acknowledged and reciprocated that he doesn’t care even if there is any truth in what she is claiming. This is exactly why he is supporting Pakhi, appreciating her because even though he likes Sai for who she is, he wants her not to be blunt ur straightforward this time.

Also Virat likes the qualities in Sai but would also like her to possess some of the qualities of Pakhi (which he has not even realised is only superficial qualities of Pakhi) like acting soft, acting obedient, acting patient. Is this not why he wanted Pakhi to guide Sai when she first came to CN? He is still impressed with some of Pakhi’s qualities because of which he has high regards of her, calls her matured , samajhdhaar all the time. He is a very opinionated guy who likes Sai for her selfless and righteous nature but also thinks of her as moohfat, badtameez, nasamajh/immatured.


He is so angry with Sai

- for not reciprocating his feelings

- for continuing to misunderstand him

- to have cancelled his transfer which would have meant that he could have got away from all this easily but is made to face her, stay with her without being able to control his emotions for her, without being able to stay away from her, run so far away from her where he will not have to see her, face her only to be developing expectations from her to understand him and his feelings every minute he he staying next to her

- so enamoured by Pakhi’s facade, fake acts that he has ignored all her evil intentions and evil acts

that he wants to hurt Sai, wants to shut her up, wants to put her down that he had once again made a below the belt comment by comparing her with Pakhi. By saying why the family like Pakhi but not her.

Her taking the liberty to cancel his transfer has also pushed him to want to show his liberty, his power by controlling her by locking up in her room.

Virat like Sai’s qualities but would prefer her to just abide by what he or his family says/expects that are anyway reasonable as per his guidelines. If the family expects that Sai gives up on education, he wouldn’t want her to follow but if the family expects her to apply Alta or attend a Pooja, then he would be expecting her to follow without protesting.


Sai hasn’t got a clarity about their relationship, she hasn’t got to know what they spoke in the cafe. She also knows that Pakhi hasn’t actually moved on but is only faking it to make Virat feel jealous.

Even if Sai could have expressed her unwillingness to not attend Pooja in a different way, she was also pushed to behave like this after the way he and his friend had bullied and insulted her the previous night.

Just like how he was showing his anger, she was also showing her anger by refusing to attend the Pooja in the way she was. She wasn’t willing to back down when he was challenging her that he will ensure that she won’t be able to leave the house.

She also didn’t like the way he always tries to get certain things done and knows to what extreme he can go (PD lunch incident) and hence challenged him in return to see if he would do anything that he had promised that he would never do.

All that Virat had showed at the end was that he would not let her have her way, he will show her his power and will control her actions in anyway if needed. His hurt, his anger has blinded him so much that he is and will be doing everything against her, will want to make her do things that she doesn’t want to.


@red I am sorry to say but I no longer consider his feelings for Sai as love. A person in love wouldn’t inflict pain on their loved ones and Virat does it by siding up/ganging up with people who are against Sai (Pakhi) and insults her because he is upset with her.

Exactly what I meant when I talked about Virat's love not being "LOVE"... The real test begins when things are wrong between two people and Virat has always failed there...

See how Sai answers SHivani about sleeping on the floor and see what Virat does...

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Posted: 4 years ago
#52

Virat wants the best of both worlds. He wants a girl who is selfless and genuinely caring(Sai) ....but he also wants a girl who worships him, is obedient to his wishes, acts demurely with his family(Pakhi).

If Sai breaks down in front of him like an ablaa naari or is dependent on him to rescue him - he will be moved to sympathy and it will also soothe his male ego and saviour complex. But Sai's autonomy rattles him. He neither wants her to fight her battles in her own brash way.....nor can he accept Sai complaining about his family....or fighting with him for not standing up for her.


"his mind and body is only attuned to Sai .. don’t know about heart"

Perfectly said. She is just a piece of commodity that he likes and he feels that it belongs to him. Sai's feelings, her human-ness .....they do not matter to him at all.

He is acting like a jilted lover who cannot accept the rejection. So yes...Pakhi and Virat are the same in this respect.

Edited by nethraa_99 - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
#53

Originally posted by: nethraa_99

Virat wants the best of both worlds. He wants a girl who is selfless and genuinely caring(Sai) ....but he also wants a girl who worships him, is obedient to his wishes, acts demurely with his family(Pakhi).

If Sai breaks down in front of him like an ablaa naari or is dependent on him to rescue him - he will be moved to sympathy and it will also soothe his male ego and saviour complex. But Sai's autonomy rattles him. He neither wants her to fight her battles in her own brash way.....nor can he accept Sai complaining about his family....or fighting with him for not standing up for her.


"his mind and body is only attuned to Sai .. don’t know about heart"

Perfectly said. She is just a piece of commodity that he likes and he feels that it belongs to him. Sai's feelings, her human-ness .....they do not matter to him at all.

He is acting like a jilted lover who cannot accept the rejection. So yes...Pakhi and Virat are the same in this respect.


Agree virat is not in love with Sai … she’s just a possession an object of desire … she’s his wife .. she belongs to him ..

Even Sai is not exactly in love with him .. she is also possessive about him.. if she was not emotionally attached to him she would not get rattled by seeing him with patralekha..

She can’t disentangle from him .. even when she’s away from him this need to nurture him is consuming her ..

it’s a possession.. both don’t understand what the other wants .. for both it’s my way or no way ..


They should have started sleeping with each other a lot earlier .. when their hearts were less involved.. right now a lot of this madness is because of uncomfortable sexual frustration.. in English serials this was the right time to show the kiss , making out and back to hating each other .. 🤪🤪🤪


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Posted: 4 years ago
#54

Originally posted by: msin


Agree virat is not in love with Sai … she’s just a possession an object of desire … she’s his wife .. she belongs to him ..

Even Sai is not exactly in love with him .. she is also possessive about him.. if she was not emotionally attached to him she would not get rattled by seeing him with patralekha..

She can’t disentangle from him .. even when she’s away from him this need to nurture him is consuming her ..

it’s a possession.. both don’t understand what the other wants .. for both it’s my way or no way ..


They should have started sleeping with each other a lot earlier .. when their hearts were less involved.. right now a lot of this madness is because of uncomfortable sexual frustration.. in English serials this was the right time to show the kiss , making out and back to hating each other .. 🤪🤪🤪


In English shows they'd have made out a lot earlier😆 at least the time Sai slept holding his hand after he frightens her with a ghost story. They'd have already slept when they were in GC, in fact 🤣

Edited by Sudharies - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
#55

Originally posted by: msin


Today Shivani got in the middle .. otherwise things would have got dirtier .. the only way out of this fight .. if the couple make out and release their angst .. on each other .. but the makers won’t show them..

Virat does not want to let Sai go .. she belongs to him .. so he will lock her in a room to make her understand… very idiotic behaviour…churlish … but the other alternative was dirtier .. forcing your wife to become yours ..



@bold lines

So you're alluding to Virat forcing himself on Sai? But I'm not sure why you're listing it as an alternative, I guess probably because how virat as a character is.

To be honest, I too won't be too surprised if we look at Virat as a character. He claims a lot of things about respecting women and what not but the truth is, his ego is bigger than anything else.

Sai has rejected him just as he did and his ego is hurt as you said, he metted abuse on his wife all the time. And before anyone barges in, NO him doing a "lot" for Sai doesn't negate his abuse.

He behaves like Sai owes him love since he's now in love with her. He acts mopey, like a victim and basically guilts her into accepting him but he's truly frustrated that Sai doesn't budge.

What's worse is that this man is supposed to an IPS officer, what an insult to such a decorated position!

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: itsTrueDeal

The makers are hell bent on showing drama.

They don't care if what they show is regressive, abusive or makes sense at all.... if it will add any value to society. They just want to create senseless drama....and hence senselessly doing blind copy paste. Otherwise why would they turn the IPS officer into a chameleon. 🤣🤣

Wonder if they want TRP to increase or reduce!!! Vanku is rival channels agent i think 👏



At this point, I just wish complaints against content on TV shows would've taken seriously, this show clearly things they can show anything. Even glorifying abuse.

About time we get some guidelines for content on TV shows since it influences masses. Abuse is normalised like this. But I think I'm expecting too much from this incompetent system.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: msin


Agree virat is not in love with Sai … she’s just a possession an object of desire … she’s his wife .. she belongs to him ..

Even Sai is not exactly in love with him .. she is also possessive about him.. if she was not emotionally attached to him she would not get rattled by seeing him with patralekha..

She can’t disentangle from him .. even when she’s away from him this need to nurture him is consuming her ..

it’s a possession.. both don’t understand what the other wants .. for both it’s my way or no way ..


They should have started sleeping with each other a lot earlier .. when their hearts were less involved.. right now a lot of this madness is because of uncomfortable sexual frustration.. in English serials this was the right time to show the kiss , making out and back to hating each other .. 🤪🤪🤪

I agree that Sai too is not there yet...in a place called love. She is extremely attached to him...but respect for the relationship, genuine understanding is still a far cry. I'm not in favour of Sai cancelling Virat's transfer....she should let the man go. She too shows her share of selfishness in the relationship....but a lot of times, it's quite natural given the minefield on which their relationship is standing...with an obsessive ex, a harassing family and Virat's own failures in the relationship.

Inspite of all that, I still see a HUGE difference in their level of possessiveness. Virat's level of possessiveness is too too selfish, too vengeful and crossing all boundaries of respect ...to be palatable.

I thought too once that if they had a normal marriage, they may not have these issues. But I'm not sure. Their flaws, especially Virat's....and the constant power struggle between them will always be problematic between them.

Edited by nethraa_99 - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: msin


Agree virat is not in love with Sai … she’s just a possession an object of desire … she’s his wife .. she belongs to him ..

Even Sai is not exactly in love with him .. she is also possessive about him.. if she was not emotionally attached to him she would not get rattled by seeing him with patralekha..

She can’t disentangle from him .. even when she’s away from him this need to nurture him is consuming her ..

it’s a possession.. both don’t understand what the other wants .. for both it’s my way or no way ..


They should have started sleeping with each other a lot earlier .. when their hearts were less involved.. right now a lot of this madness is because of uncomfortable sexual frustration.. in English serials this was the right time to show the kiss , making out and back to hating each other .. 🤪🤪🤪


But she would never lock him in the room to consume him and compare her with any of him exes or friends to make him feel bad..the ones who has talked bad about him...she would never compare them with him... or tell the family how he needs to be controlled... She has been more accepting towards his past than he has been accepting about anything in her life...

Edited by asmi_joya - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Guneet80


@bold lines

So you're alluding to Virat forcing himself on Sai? But I'm not sure why you're listing it as an alternative, I guess probably because how virat as a character is.

To be honest, I too won't be too surprised if we look at Virat as a character. He claims a lot of things about respecting women and what not but the truth is, his ego is bigger than anything else.

Sai has rejected him just as he did and his ego is hurt as you said, he metted abuse on his wife all the time. And before anyone barges in, NO him doing a "lot" for Sai doesn't negate his abuse.

He behaves like Sai owes him love since he's now in love with her. He acts mopey, like a victim and basically guilts her into accepting him but he's truly frustrated that Sai doesn't budge.

What's worse is that this man is supposed to an IPS officer, what an insult to such a decorated position!


You think all ips officers are Nice people .. infact they are one of the most hardened breeds in the world .. they have seen so much negativity at work …. Murder , rape , sexual brutal……. that their sensitivity is killed off .. virat wants Sai to accept him and give him a comfortable life when he’s back home .. just like his DIG was telling Sai to do .. and Sai agreed .. though she did not understand.. what she was agreeing to .,


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Originally posted by: nethraa_99

I agree that Sai too is not there yet...in a place called love. She is extremely attached to him...but respect for the relationship, genuine understanding is still a far cry. I'm not in favour of Sai cancelling Virat's transfer....she should let the man go. She too shows her share of selfishness in the relationship....but a lot of times, it's quite natural given the minefield on which their relationship is standing...with an obsessive ex, a harassing family and Virat's own failures in the relationship.

Inspite of all that, I still see a HUGE difference in their level of possessiveness. Virat's level of possessiveness is too too selfish, too vengeful and crossing all boundaries of respect ...to be palatable.




I thought too once that if they had a normal marriage, they may not have these issues. But I'm not sure. Their flaws, especially Virat's....and the constant power struggle between them will always be problematic between them.



yes of course .. this need to dominate her .. will always be in virat .. Sai is a clever and brave girl .. she’s an alphae ..,by calling her stupid , brainless was too much ..I dare anybody standing in Chavan household to clear medical entrance .. much less come first .. science in logo ki Bas ki baat nahi ..


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