The reasoning for Sai's mindset

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Instead of showing Sai can't understand the feelings of Virat, it can be better shown that she feels Virat is not a trustworthy man.

Does a man who loved a woman so deeply that he gave promise on her wedding day and informed his commitment for pakhi to his wife before marriage has moved on so quickly and told both his ex and current wife that he won't live on past, a trustworthy fellow?

He thought Pakhi to be the ideal bahu for his family and understood Sai to be fierce and selfless. Now after a year or 5 years if he finds another woman of his department who is both fierce, caring, selfless and ideal bahu material, will he again move on and say Sai that I won't live in past, you can move on and live an independent life and be a successful doctor?

Will anyone trust such a character? He is certainly not a two-timer but a traveler. His love comes with validity period.

If Sai feels like this good way to go for storyline.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ramyalaxmi

Instead of showing Sai can't understand the feelings of Virat, it can be better shown that she feels Virat is not a trustworthy man.

Does a man who loved a woman so deeply that he gave promise on her wedding day and informed his commitment for pakhi to his wife before marriage has moved on so quickly and told both his ex and current wife that he won't live on past, a trustworthy fellow?

He thought Pakhi to be the ideal bahu for his family and understood Sai to be fierce and selfless. Now after a year or 5 years if he finds another woman of his department who is both fierce, caring, selfless and ideal bahu material, will he again move on and say Sai that I won't live in past, you can move on and live an independent life and be a successful doctor?

Will anyone trust such a character? He is certainly not a two-timer but a traveler. His love comes with validity period.

If Sai feels like this good way to go for storyline.

For me virat's love for sai is much different from pakhi because he was attracted to her but he loves or on the way to completely love Sai. But your assumption is right if we think from Sai's pov because for her virat has loved pakhi and she may did not trust him for love until virat clears it.
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Akash3Rai

For me virat's love for sai is much different from pakhi because he was attracted to her but he loves or on the way to completely love Sai. But your assumption is right if we think from Sai's pov because for her virat has loved pakhi and she may did not trust him for love until virat clears it.

As viewers we know, Virat love for Pakhi happened in just 2 days and he was committed for life long. How will Sai knows this? For her Virat is a person with Dissociative Identity Disorder. Let her tell this as a valid reason for her rejection behavior.

I truly feel she has the right to reject.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Every woman has the right to reject! That goes without saying. Now the point is not about why Sai rejected? But why she is still with Virat! She has had ample opportunities to leave the house or walk out on Virat! Why the hell has she chosen to come back to him each time!? Pls by god walk out on Virat is what I hv been saying from long long time back! But if she has chosen to come back it should be more than just Virat's zimmedari or deal wali request! Come on who would kiss a person out of zimmedari!!! GOD!🤦🏻‍♀️

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Every woman has the right to reject! That goes without saying. Now the point is not about why Sai rejected? But why she is still with Virat! She has had ample opportunities to leave the house or walk out on Virat! Why the hell has she chosen to come back to him each time!? Pls by god walk out on Virat is what I hv been saying from long long time back! But if she has chosen to come back it should be more than just Virat's zimmedari or deal wali request! Come on who would kiss a person out of zimmedari!!! GOD!🤦🏻‍♀️

I think you missed my very first line of the post and got only my last line of the reply.

If she says Virat not trustworthy (which he is) as the reason for rejecting or not accepting Virat's love then it would be meaningful.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: vimeo

Every woman has the right to reject! That goes without saying. Now the point is not about why Sai rejected? But why she is still with Virat! She has had ample opportunities to leave the house or walk out on Virat! Why the hell has she chosen to come back to him each time!? Pls by god walk out on Virat is what I hv been saying from long long time back! But if she has chosen to come back it should be more than just Virat's zimmedari or deal wali request! Come on who would kiss a person out of zimmedari!!! GOD!🤦🏻‍♀️

It is fight between her heart and mind , her heart loves him so much, but her mind reprimand saying how can she live a deal husband. The fight is going to get intense between her heart and mind which will may be lead to her realisation or breakdown.
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Very true …. Virat thinking about himself, his respect his love …. He want sai confess love for him ….. but what about sai , her respect , her feeling …. Virat never understand what sai want , he never gave that type of confidence to sai that she confess her love for him , he never respect her infront of family he always stand like statue or he only say “wo meri patni hai” is that enough for the love …. My main poin is ok the family insult sai and virat not say anything its ok ….. but who the hell is pakkhi why she insult every time sai ,kya wo sai ki family hai yeah phir uski friend hai kya hai wo sai ki …. without any reason she poke her nose why why and virat stand like statue why he doesn’t shut her mouth , why he didn’t stop her bakwas , but no …. Sub mil ke uski insult kare or wo chup rehe kyoun …. I really don’t understand virat character when he is angry with sai he supported pakhi and all her taunts towards sai . I agree he did so much things to show his love to her but the main things the confidence and respect which virat fail to gave sai .

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Posted: 4 years ago
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No I didn't miss your first line. Yes I agree it would make more sense. But if the guy is a two timer then no woman should tolerate it and she should not encourage him at all. She knows Pakhi has been there all along and if she thought Virat was two timing she should have walked out on him! Why does she return to him all the time?

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: sana.harshiti

Very true …. Virat thinking about himself, his respect his love …. He want sai confess love for him ….. but what about sai , her respect , her feeling …. Virat never understand what sai want , he never gave that type of confidence to sai that she confess her love for him , he never respect her infront of family he always stand like statue or he only say “wo meri patni hai” is that enough for the love …. My main poin is ok the family insult sai and virat not say anything its ok ….. but who the hell is pakkhi why she insult every time sai ,kya wo sai ki family hai yeah phir uski friend hai kya hai wo sai ki …. without any reason she poke her nose why why and virat stand like statue why he doesn’t shut her mouth , why he didn’t stop her bakwas , but no …. Sub mil ke uski insult kare or wo chup rehe kyoun …. I really don’t understand virat character when he is angry with sai he supported pakhi and all her taunts towards sai . I agree he did so much things to show his love to her but the main things the confidence and respect which virat fail to gave sai .

well said.👍🏼

In a way, best friends have same wavelength. Pakhi wants to hurt Virat as he rejected her. Now Virat reaches the same line. Being indifferent or ignoring is completely different from insulting. Let him ignore Sai to the core but he admitted that he disclosed the cafe incident so that she won't leave the house. When he was to leave what is the need that Sai should be there to give send off for him😉

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: vimeo

No I didn't miss your first line. Yes I agree it would make more sense. But if the guy is a two timer then no woman should tolerate it and she should not encourage him at all. She knows Pakhi has been there all along and if she thought Virat was two timing she should have walked out on him! Why does she return to him all the time?

No again I reiterate that he is not a two-timer but for Sai he is not with steady opinion. She has not come across people moving on in life so easily e.g her abba, UM even jagtap who was behind her for 3 years even after she rejected. So for Sai, Virat can't forget Pakhi and vice versa.

Why she returns back? Good question. 👍🏼This is what she has to ponder.

Just story should have strong reasonings to drag the confession.

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