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Posted: 4 years ago
#41

Originally posted by: Guneet80


Umm didn't I say the same thing lol.

Read my previous reply, I'll quote what I wrote,

"Sairat situation, their marriage was unwanted but still their story has a lot of nuance to be summed up so easily. She's in love with the man, has accepted the family so they are her family. She can and should take her support of course."


Lol doesn't this make things clear? As I said, this started as forced but has evolved into something much more. She obviously will decide to stay back because she thinks of them as her own. Simple.

@bold you literally mentioned sairat in the post but okay 😆

I guess we can rest the discussion here. Thanks

Well you spoke about forced family in your initial post . If things have changed there is no forced marraige and family in first place


I spoke about the importance of family wrt to Sairat and their situation. Not sure how that’s directed to anyone


@Bold I agree with that

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Guneet80

Idk man, I think the biggest push one would need to realise their love for someone is to see them in danger. An accident or just any incident where Virat was hurt would make more sense.

I seriously don't understand how being molested makes one relaise they love someone, I think you're hinting at the care virat will direct at Sai after the incident will make her realise right?

Well in sense, it does make sense but I don't want poor sai to go through anymore trauma than she already has

well yes ,and not just the care and also his fight for his wife against the college. And why in the world she trusts only this man nobody else.

And about the trauma ya she has gone through a lot that's why i want an outburst of her and i dont think depression is something good they should show in present scenario to the audience according to kd.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: msin


I am not judging them … I am telling how things are .. in the world .. every where the weaker is targetted by the dirty folks .. it can be young boys too ..


It’s a fact everyday girls are harassed in schools , colleges and in workforce … they always target somebody who they feel won’t retaliate..

I think this family is the last that she needs, in case she is getting abused by anybody..Most of the members were questioning her character when she was lying on her death bed, with the supporters being silent about it..just making faces, including her husband...Trauma or no trauma, if loved ones are on their death bed, any bad word from someone's mouth they are given a shut up call and thrown out...immediately.

I also feel with the way Chavans are, they should not take this path, since none of the "good" members can give a shut up call or deny them to stand around the girl who is molested and no girl deserves to hear those words just after getting molested.. In any case, good set of friends would do much better....for her semblance and her strength....Family helps ...YES...but Chavan family..Well NO!!..

Hence Ghum should stay away... bringing in such tracks..They cannot handle it...

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

Well you spoke about forced family in your initial post . If things have changed there is no forced marraige and family in first place


I spoke about the importance of family wrt to Sairat and their situation. Not sure how that’s directed to anyone


@Bold I agree with that


@bold Oh that was about general outlook of the society in any case. Like they think a woman can't live alone. It wasn't particularly about Sairat.


Well I don't deny family will be ( I hope so) a huge support her in case this track is pursued. I just hope they treat this track sensitively.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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I don't think there will be any such track.. Because it's not in the KD syllabus 😆

So don't take tension 😎

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Akash3Rai

well yes ,and not just the care and also his fight for his wife against the college. And why in the world she trusts only this man nobody else.

And about the trauma ya she has gone through a lot that's why i want an outburst of her and i dont think depression is something good they should show in present scenario to the audience according to kd.

I think if this track is pursued and Virat fights for her, she realises that Virat cares for her above all anger and misunderstandings. She at the core, still can't trust virat completely in some cases. So I think that can be resolved here.

@bold I'm just dreading this track tbh. It will be too tough for me to watch her suffer like that. I know it's a show but they won't show any sensitivity I know

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: asmi_joya

I think this family is the last that she needs, in case she is getting abused by anybody..Most of the members were questioning her character when she was lying on her death bed, with the supporters being silent about it..just making faces, including her husband...Trauma or no trauma, if loved ones are on their death bed, any bad word from someone's mouth they are given a shut up call and thrown out...immediately.

I also feel with the way Chavans are, they should not take this path, since none of the "good" members can give a shut up call or deny them to stand around the girl who is molested and no girl deserves to hear those words just after getting molested.. In any case, good set of friends would do much better....for her semblance and her strength....Family helps ...YES...but Chavan family..Well NO!!..

Hence Ghum should stay away... bringing in such tracks..They cannot handle it...

Well said Asmi, my primary concern is Ghum team heading for ambitious tracks they can't handle with enough sensitivity. We already know how brazenly they handled previous tracks or the brutal zillat Arena, istg I've seen people on twitter or in real life saying, they avoided that episode because the way they were behaving with Sai personally affected them. Imagine how that would trigger a domestic violence surviver.


So I absolutely have no hopes they woulddo justice to this track. Moreover, I think she loves virat despite of everything he's done and hence things his family as her own too. She's kind hearted so she always does right by them but that doesn't at all, negate the abuse they've metted out on her. Absolutely not.

She didn't chose this at all.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Guneet80

Well said Asmi, my primary concern is Ghum team heading for ambitious tracks they can't handle with enough sensitivity. We already know how brazenly they handled previous tracks or the brutal zillat Arena, istg I've seen people on twitter or in real life saying, they avoided that episode because the way they were behaving with Sai personally affected them. Imagine how that would trigger a domestic violence surviver.


So I absolutely have no hopes they woulddo justice to this track. Moreover, I think she loves virat despite of everything he's done and hence things his family as her own too. She's kind hearted so she always does right by them but that doesn't at all, negate the abuse they've metted out on her. Absolutely not.

She didn't chose this at all.

Imagine a woman was being character shamed after landing in hospital and almost dead, but the other woman who has been having an eye on her devar gets the tag of a wonderful bahu and wife..No girl needs a family like this to rely upon.. NO girl..So they should not tread in that direction..Its difficult to watch... So just let it be.. Copy and finish it..

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: asmi_joya

I think this family is the last that she needs, in case she is getting abused by anybody..Most of the members were questioning her character when she was lying on her death bed, with the supporters being silent about it..just making faces, including her husband...Trauma or no trauma, if loved ones are on their death bed, any bad word from someone's mouth they are given a shut up call and thrown out...immediately.

I also feel with the way Chavans are, they should not take this path, since none of the "good" members can give a shut up call or deny them to stand around the girl who is molested and no girl deserves to hear those words just after getting molested.. In any case, good set of friends would do much better....for her semblance and her strength....Family helps ...YES...but Chavan family..Well NO!!..

Hence Ghum should stay away... bringing in such tracks..They cannot handle it...

ya the chavans are really hell of a family, no doubts but i am not referring to the family, most of them don't care about sai at all, u am just referring to virat, i dont say his love is unconditional, but his care is unconditional from starting except the ousting track. So both need to look at each other's pov like virat to feel why sai is comfortable with him, and sai to think why she fills safe with him, why after being anger to her he cares for her. It can only come when either one faces a grim situation, and after looking at their is either sai accident then depression or the fan made theory if molestation/ rustication track. And personally it is better than depression one.
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Akash3Rai

ya the chavans are really hell of a family, no doubts but i am not referring to the family, most of them don't care about sai at all, u am just referring to virat, i dont say his love is unconditional, but his care is unconditional from starting except the ousting track. So both need to look at each other's pov like virat to feel why sai is comfortable with him, and sai to think why she fills safe with him, why after being anger to her he cares for her. It can only come when either one faces a grim situation, and after looking at their is either sai accident then depression or the fan made theory if molestation/ rustication track. And personally it is better than depression one.

I dont want the molestation track, because it triggering when all these vile people will cintinue to question her and Virat just making faces...He has been that person throughout so I dont expect him to be any better... I cannot see a woman after being molested , being questioned and everyone around just making faces in disproval...That's not the family she deserves after being molested....This track is not for this show...

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