What does Virat see in Pakhi? - Page 2

Originally posted by: Amor_fati

His own mom stays with his Dad. He has even forgiven Kaku, his Dad and Omi, then Pakhi’s wrong doings are not as bad as theirs. Will Samrat disown them if he comes to know of the truth?

I think people accept their partners as they are. Some people change or get influenced by their partners. So there are high chances of Pakhi too to change once she starts to live with Samrat.

1st para - I agree.. Virat forgave his dad, Kaku and Omi for their criminal behavior too.. though Pakhi is a psycho.. as far he is concerned, he never knew her committing criminal acts.. so he might still want her to have a shot on normal life.

2nd para - I would not generalize, these are exceptions.. if everybody could accept their partners as they are or change by getting influenced by their partners.. there won’t be marital problems or there won’t be a need for divorce. Mostly people tolerate their partner’s flaws and transgressions out of their fear to live alone, blind love, kids or societal pressures.

IMO She has crossed the point where she could have been saved by love and good influence. May be some day she will get some self awareness and choose to help herself by approaching a psychiatrist and get appropriate counseling.

2nd para It was to say that Virat will be thinking that way: I think I have combined my I think and the next few sentences together 🙈.

I don’t deny that not everyone can accept their partners as how they are. Not everyone would change too. That is why I had mentioned that they will have to give a try and decide later even if they want to part ways.

Even good influence wouldn’t be of help with some people. But Virat wouldn’t be thinking these but will only be looking at it positively, with some hopes.

He is also no one to judge Pakhi or disregard her to not be a right partner for his brother. He has himself failed a few times, how would he be able to judge her? I don’t think Virat is a person who would reject as a suitable life partner or his brother. He wouldn’t advice or list out her flaws to Samrat for him to take a decision if he has to live with her or not. Also, the elders of the house has always accepted her. Why would his mom or Shivani or Mohit empathise with Pakhi. They have also been against her and stood with Sai. They have also seen what all she has done. He must be thinking that if there is something really wrong, elders would have raised it and would be informing Samrat about it. He has always felt that Kaku was the one who keeps them all together.

Most importantly he is not a person who would think if she is fit enough to be someone's wife or not. He can talk or raise issues if she pursues him even after all this but not about her nature or her past deeds.

Isiko pyaar bolte hain. Passionate kind of love does not happen for practical reasons such as in return for favours by the loved one, It is more chemistry than logic. That is why I feel Virat really loves Pakhi, not Sai.

With Sai it is a reasoned out feeling based on gratitude for what she has done for the family. He said so himself. He did not even say that he loves her for her generosity of spirit & giving nature. He said that he loves her because she has done so much.

With Pakhi, it is a fatal attraction!

Originally posted by: Bana

Isiko pyaar bolte hain. Passionate kind of love does not happen for practical reasons such as in return for favours by the loved one, It is more chemistry than logic. That is why I feel Virat really loves Pakhi, not Sai.

With Sai it is a reasoned out feeling based on gratitude for what she has done for the family. He said so himself. He did not even say that he loves her for her generosity of spirit & giving nature. He said that he loves her because she has done so much.

With Pakhi, it is a fatal attraction!

This!!! Facts!!! And you’ve articulated Virat’s state of mind/situation/emotions perfectly ❤️🤗

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Originally posted by: Amor_fati

I don’t think he can ever be one.. he had multiple opportunities to stray.. he never did. I just want to explore the reason for still considering Pakhi a friend.. was it his Vaada?? He already broke one.. he doesn’t want to break another?

He is guilty …. Of leading her on … during haldi he could have behaved like a cad and told her he was just flirting with her .. was never serious about her to let her decide whether she wants to marry samrat ..

He should not have cajoled her to marry samrat .. it was pakhi ka decision… but by telling her to do it .. he was bound to take care of her .. especially when samrat left the next day

if samrat was there throughout… maybe he would have left them to work on their marriage

He got a girl who was staying in his family .. kind of waiting for his brother… for samrat’s sake .. he looked after his brothers wife .. though pakhi did not take it like that ..

So you are saying that deep down virat actually loves pakhi about which he is unaware of and his love for sai is habitual?

Just wanna know your take.Its interesting to heat actually?