What do these women see in Virat

Hello all

Been a silent reader of the forum. Started watching the show this month and finished all the episodes.

Pakhi has degraded so much in her obsession for Virat. This man manhandles her, insults her, broke his wada and professes his love for his wife. Still she is willing to fall at his feat and cry. ITV has some pathetic woman characters I must say. As a woman its embarrassing me even to watch Pakhi on screen. The Pakhi we met in first few episodes was amazing, vibrant and energetic. She wasn't waiting for a prince charming, she was taking solo trips and enjoying her life. Except for her way of dealing with Sai and those whom supports Sai she has been trying to portray a good image of hers in Chauhan family. SHe once chastiated Virat on using force on Sai (during Pulkit lunch track). She has seen Virat using force on Sai and herself, she has seen Virat depriving Sai food and throwing her out, him standing silent at his wifes insults, silence at his mothers insult. Despite she is falling for this man. She talked of self respect to Samrat and now shes falling at his brothers feet

Sai Joshi commanded respect and curiosity. She was mature and courageous for her age. She fought bravely against a local don and his son. She for once didn't bend her head for anyone. She didn't try to adjust to Virats family. She had her own set of rules and conditions. She couldn't bear injustice. She didn't believe in peace taking or taking everyone along. Sai is forgetting her self worth and becoming week just because she has some feelings. Virat shed few tears and she was willing to let go off his mistake. How many times has he broken his promises? He is now treating her like shit for rejecting his advances. She talks about atma samaan. If she has a tiny bit left she should leave

The last scene today where Sai and Pakhi mirrored each other was powerful. Both are wasting time on a useless guy. Sai should focus on her studies. Pakhi should seek help and move out. Virat cant bring himself to say he loves Sai. He gave Pakhi hints but never confessed. In cafe when Pakhi sought if he has any feelings he played it safe bringing Kamal Joshi's last wish. Neither did he value Pakhis love back the nor is he valuing Sais concern. These woman are forever going to be mired with this man. Both will loose themselves. Virat doesn't care to inform his own brother. How can these woman fall for someone who doesnt care about his brother happiness or mothers suffering (he idolizes his abusive dad)

What do they see in him? Have they not seen his worst behavior.

Originally posted by: oblivious_soul

Hello all

Been a silent reader of the forum. Started watching the show this month and finished all the episodes.

Pakhi has degraded so much in her obsession for Virat. This man manhandles her, insults her, broke his wada and professes his love for his wife. Still she is willing to fall at his feat and cry. ITV has some pathetic woman characters I must say. As a woman its embarrassing me even to watch Pakhi on screen. The Pakhi we met in first few episodes was amazing, vibrant and energetic. She wasn't waiting for a prince charming, she was taking solo trips and enjoying her life. Except for her way of dealing with Sai and those whom supports Sai she has been trying to portray a good image of hers in Chauhan family. SHe once chastiated Virat on using force on Sai (during Pulkit lunch track). She has seen Virat using force on Sai and herself, she has seen Virat depriving Sai food and throwing her out, him standing silent at his wifes insults, silence at his mothers insult. Despite she is falling for this man. She talked of self respect to Samrat and now shes falling at his brothers feet

Sai Joshi commanded respect and curiosity. She was mature and courageous for her age. She fought bravely against a local don and his son. She for once didn't bend her head for anyone. She didn't try to adjust to Virats family. She had her own set of rules and conditions. She couldn't bear injustice. She didn't believe in peace taking or taking everyone along. Sai is forgetting her self worth and becoming week just because she has some feelings. Virat shed few tears and she was willing to let go off his mistake. How many times has he broken his promises? He is now treating her like shit for rejecting his advances. She talks about atma samaan. If she has a tiny bit left she should leave

The last scene today where Sai and Pakhi mirrored each other was powerful. Both are wasting time on a useless guy. Sai should focus on her studies. Pakhi should seek help and move out. Virat cant bring himself to say he loves Sai. He gave Pakhi hints but never confessed. In cafe when Pakhi sought if he has any feelings he played it safe bringing Kamal Joshi's last wish. Neither did he value Pakhis love back the nor is he valuing Sais concern. These woman are forever going to be mired with this man. Both will loose themselves. Virat doesn't care to inform his own brother. How can these woman fall for someone who doesnt care about his brother happiness or mothers suffering (he idolizes his abusive dad)

What do they see in him? Have they not seen his worst behavior.

I don’t think you have seen the episode .. he was categorically clear in telling pakhi that he has feelings for his wife .. he had already told her about this 2 times before .. but pakhi always choses to forget it

Today for 30 minutes he kept on and on saying he has developed feelings for his wife and he was encouraging his former live to move on .. he will be happy if she finds her happiness with someone else

It is not a crime to fall in love with somebody and then break up and find another partner ..

most of us over here have had a previous love and are now married to somebody else .. we remember our past love fondly ..

In 2021 .. there is nothing as one love true love .. that’s what virat has been trying to tell pakhi

Yes he fell in love with pakhi .. but it stopped abruptly for him when he found out about her engagement to his brother

if u go back to old episodes.. virat was technically there for only 2-3 days in samrat ki shadi .. there was hardly any time to grieve so he behaved stupidly

he was not in love with Sai when he got married to her .. yes he was drawn to her but not enough to want to marry her .. it was a marriage of convenience.. to fulfill a promise

so in all his fairness he told Sai what his feelings were during that time .. which was again 1-2 weeks of samrat’s wedding ..

In a space of 2-3 weeks a lot of things happened in his life

Now after one year .. he’s right he and Sai have spend considerable time and he wants to lead a life with Sai ..

Sai has not yet understood.. what virat feels and yes he has been foolish to express it properly ..

But he has never cheated on his wife .. he has felt guilty for pakhi .. and now desperately wants pakhi n samrat to be happy atleast give their marriage a genuine try

how does that make him a cheater ..

He is not .. there are many many people around us who are just like virat .. and many girls are happy to marry them

In the ITV world when people are having double marriages .. and sleeping with both wives .. he is busy celebrating wife ka birthday … marriage anniversary party ..with his one and only wife .. he also likes dropping his wife to college .

Sai has to give him a chance he does treat her like a Queen ..

Patralekha I am sorry...I don't feel he is responsible for her state...With Sai ...well the situation is too complicated right now ..Sai has given him the place her Aaba had in her life.. the place of The most important person in her life ...for her he is the only one she has as home... She does not understand the love a wife has for her husband...and she will get there...Sadly Virat is too consumed in his hurt to understand her state... When they are in normal pace, he does treat her like she is his world.. No denying there...

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You seem to have taken this discussion to some other tangent. I have no value for MLs who are two timers, Virat is not one but just because he isn't two timing he isn't the best ML. This isnt an accusatory post on him either. I have blamed all 3.

What I said- This isn't really about Virat falling in love with Pakhi or Sai later. It happens. Falling in love and out of love is common. They did blunders. But this about what both these woman found so attractive in Virat that both are willing to keep their self respect aside. He has behaved in worst way with his wife. Sai is forgiving him when all he did was cry. Pakhi has seen this behavior. Still she wants to be his wife. Theres nothing in Virat that makes me see both woman falling helplessly in love with him forgetting their self worth

What I didnt say- Virat clarified just like how he has many times in the past. When a direct question on feelings come it should be a NO. He has no business explain what relationship she hsares with his wife to Pakhi. Had Sai not been in the picture Virat would have stiull broken the Wada considering Pakhi is his SIL. I didn't say falling in love is a crime nor did I say anything about his commitmment or deal. He has been clear about it.

Question is about what in Virat attracts them when this man an ACP has committed domestic violence. His actions are mostly crimes, not flaws

Hope you got what I am saying. Topic is specific

Yes. Its nothing in Virat that attracts her. She subconsciously sees her demised father in Virat and is attracted to him. This makes her overlook his mistakes. A girl like Sai shouldn't have forgiven Virat after Devi track itself. She keeps coming back because she is emotionally dependent. Virat fulfills that role

I always felt Virat is a confused, spineless, self centric Man who really cannot understand what is going around him. He cannot tell the truth and face the truth.

But cannot blame him because the whole of CH people are mean. Everyone is sticking to each other for some benefits..

His realisation vanishes in a second when Kaku and Pakhi vomits venom and he is back to the pathetic male chauvinist.

Originally posted by: deepthiabhi

I always felt Virat is a confused, spineless, self centric Man who really cannot understand what is going around him. He cannot tell the truth and face the truth.

But cannot blame him because the whole of CH people are mean. Everyone is sticking to each other for some benefits..

His realisation vanishes in a second when Kaku and Pakhi vomits venom and he is back to the pathetic male chauvinist.

He appears a soft ball, he is pathetic, chauvinist and an escapist. Its evident to both woman. Again, what do they see in him to fall into such desperation and helplessness. Pakhi is pleading, Sai is willing to excuse his pathetic behavior. Earlier Sai scoffed saying she wouldnt pick up the food tray he threw away. Last day she herself lowered to do the same. She has fallen too

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Originally posted by: oblivious_soul

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You seem to have taken this discussion to some other tangent. I have no value for MLs who are two timers, Virat is not one but just because he isn't two timing he isn't the best ML. This isnt an accusatory post on him either. I have blamed all 3.

What I said- This isn't really about Virat falling in love with Pakhi or Sai later. It happens. Falling in love and out of love is common. They did blunders. But this about what both these woman found so attractive in Virat that both are willing to keep their self respect aside. He has behaved in worst way with his wife. Sai is forgiving him when all he did was cry. Pakhi has seen this behavior. Still she wants to be his wife. Theres nothing in Virat that makes me see both woman falling helplessly in love with him forgetting their self worth

What I didnt say- Virat clarified just like how he has many times in the past. When a direct question on feelings come it should be a NO. He has no business explain what relationship she hsares with his wife to Pakhi. Had Sai not been in the picture Virat would have stiull broken the Wada considering Pakhi is his SIL. I didn't say falling in love is a crime nor did I say anything about his commitmment or deal. He has been clear about it.

Question is about what in Virat attracts them when this man an ACP has committed domestic violence. His actions are mostly crimes, not flaws

Hope you got what I am saying. Topic is specific

There is no fool like a lovesick fool .. people can fall in love with anybody without rhyme or reason 😂😂

Just sad to see for trp's they have butchered all the 3 characters

Pakhi was not like this .Y are making her beg & literally making her do things that are beyond redemption. She was not like this in the initial episodes.

Sai was not like this.she never cared to think what people think about her or rather adjust.but now she forgives Virat & C gang at a drop of a hat. Where is the fearless Sai Joshi that we loved?

Virat was definitely not like this .An ideal man who actually agreed to take a girls responsibility .where is the virat Chavhan we all loved ? Has been reduced to a obsessive ,abusive & a man handler

Drama ke naam pe kuch bhi!