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Posted: 4 years ago
#81

Yes! That’s what my issue was. Why do they cut short only Sairat scenes? Last week when they barely had 4-5 SS, not that Samrat and Patralekha convo was not important. But Its was about both the couples. Why is there a bias? Who is the lead couple?

Virat should stop doing things for others now. When will he learn, that he is jinxed. Whenever he does anything it always backfires and no one understands his intent🤦‍♀️ His only reason for today’s meeting was to help Samrat and Patralekha patch up. But he got fooled😝
I liked how he jerked away everytime she tried to get close or touch him. But this woman is shameless🤮
For once he didnt make jalebis and told her clearly that he loves Sai. Well he has told her before as well, but she just doesn’t care.

Inspite of his current equation with Sai, he still declared that she is his wife and he only loves her. He told Patralekha off, when she tried to badmouth Sai. So the guy can’t see anyone insulting his wife. And he sensed the hatred in Patralekha’s voice when she started talking about Sai, anger was evident in his eyes. He knows what she capable of doing to Sai in her jealousy. Ajinkya episode is still fresh. Don’t know why even after this conversation he would want Samrat to stay with her. Is he really thinking about his brother’s well-being? Is he really a good brother?

I liked when he cleared his stand, which he should have said long back loud and clear to everyone. That the day she married Samrat, the past meant nothing to him.

Now what I completely disliked

He again called her mature, seriously?? 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ After all this?? If this is maturity, then I have got it all wrong

I understand he is vulnerable and hurt, but after all this is Patralekha the right person to confide in? Is she the one to whom he should revealed that he knows Sai doesn’t love him? Can he even consider her a friend at this stage? Isn’t this going to fuel her attempt further? And this is where she will cash in also. Both will be emotional and he will try to sympathise with her, leading to that hand holding 🤢

The guy has told her he only loves his wife, not once but many times. And this is the not the first time she heard it. And the icing on the cake, she knows it well and acknowledges it, yet she wants him to leave his wife and come to her. Yeh hai Susheel Aur sanskari bahu. Can someone play the dialogue for Bhavani “Main is ghar mein ek Saal se tumhare liye ruki hoon”. And she is saying that she is not cheating on Samrat, then what are you doing now? And what have you done so far🤦‍♀️ The precap dialogues are even more disgusting, she is stooping to different low! And thats what proves our doubt right, she would have agreed for an EMA if Virat had agreed and she intended on it always. And she proved Sunny right that she married Samrat to be close to Virat and continue to have some sort of relation with him than none.

In an normal scenario, the conversation would have been much needed, to clear and close the past and move on. But the problem is that he is dealing with Patralekha, and she will not let it go. Despite every thing he said she will still pursue him. And that’s where this entire conversation is an epic fail.

Edited by sherry_24 - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
#82

Originally posted by: sherry_24

Yes! That’s what my issue was. Why do they cut short only Sairat scenes? Last week when they only barely 4-5 SS, not that Samrat and Patralekha convo was not important. But Its was about both the couples. Why is there a biases? Who is the lead couple?

Virat should stop doing things for others now. When will he learn, that he is jinxed. Whenever he does anything it always backfires and no one understands his intent🤦‍♀️ His only reason for today’s meeting was to help Samrat and Patralekha patch up. But he got fooled😝
I liked how he jerked away everytime she tried to get close or touch him. But this woman is shameless🤮
For once he didnt make jalebis and told her clearly that he loves Sai. Well he has told her before as well, but she just doesn’t care.

Inspite of his current equation with Sai, he still declared that she is his wife and he only loves her. He told her off, when she tried to badmouth Sai. So the guy can’t see anyone insulting his wife. And he sensed the hatred in Patralekha’s voice when she started talking about Sai, anger was evident in his eyes. He knows what she capable of doing to Sai in her jealousy. Ajinkya episode is still fresh. Don’t know why even after this conversation he would want her to stay with Samrat. Is he really thinking about his brother’s well-being? Is he really a good brother?

I liked when he cleared his stand, which he should have said long back loud and clear to everyone. That the day she married Samrat, the past meant nothing.

Now what I completely disliked

He again called her mature, seriously?? 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ After all this?? If this is maturity, then I have got it all wrong

I understand he is vulnerable and hurt, but after all this is Patralekha the right person to confide in? Is she the one to whom he should revealed that he knows Sai doesn’t love him? Can he even consider her a friend at this stage? Isn’t this going to fuel her attempt further? And this is where she will cash in also. Both will be emotional and he will try to sympathise with her, leading to that hand holding 🤢

The guy has told her he only loves his wife, not once but many times. And this is the not the first time she heard it. And the icing on the cake, she knows it well and acknowledges it, yet she wants him to leave his wife and come to her. Yeh hai Susheel Aur sanskari bahu. Can someone play the dialogue for Bhavani “Main is ghar mein ek Saal see tumhare liye ruki hoon. And she is saying that she is not cheating on Samrat, then what are you doing now? And what have you done so far🤦‍♀️ The precap dialogues are even more disgusting, she is stooping to different low! And thats what proves out doubt right, she would have agreed for an EMA if Virat had agreed and she intended on it always. And she proved Sunny right that she married Samrat to be close to Virat and continue to have some sort of relation with him than none.

In an normal scenario, the conversation would have been much needed, to clear and close the past and move on. But the problem is that he is dealing with Patralekha, and she will not let it go. Despite every thing he said she will still pursue him. And that’s where this entire conversation is an epic fail.

Exactly why I see there is no point of this meet, this conversation..And I am tired of him being so clueless about her harassing attitude towards himself and his wife..She disrespects him, his wife, his brother and his family in just one line and he still calls her his friend? Wants her to be with his brother..
Even I have issues with him letting her know what Sai thinks about him.. But then anyway... I am irritated with Vankar, after shooting all this he talked about Pakhi being a victim and how Samrat would doubt her when she tried to move on...

Also what she did today to Virat is sexual harassment but then again IPS does not understand..The same woman who in her jealousy is so abusive to his wife, he is so patient with her..

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Posted: 4 years ago
#83

Watched it after reading all the reviews.


Well patralekha is a certified psycho and needs urgent medical intervention.


Exhibits typical symptoms of a narcissist,is living in a delusion and portrays herself as a victim..she has multiple diagnoses but schizophrenia comes first.


Also her living with sai and samrat is dangerous..she can harm them ,even take their lives especially sai.


If this was real life,any doctor watching this episode would have strongly recommended to take her out of that family and institutional care for some time atleast.


Neil was really good as virat...virat is totally done with patralekha..he even got up to leave..but I'd say he should have insisted strongly that he feels nothing for her..but knowing his personality..this is as strong as he would go..(his aggressive violent nature is reserved for his wife sai .)

He should have also stopped patralekha commenting on sai not loving him..his personal life should be out of bounds for this woman.


Otherwise virat tried his level best to make this delusional woman understand..


Precap:poor sai bai💔..could see her heart break into pieces in her eyes...I hope vankar doesn't make virat rono 2.0 and behave rudely with sai in the Cafe.. theres only so much hurt a human can take.


And I hope when sai packs her bags and tried to leave..virat for heavens sake will open his mouth and say there's nothing between him and pakhi instead of spinning jalebis.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nja91

After everything PP has said to virat, its a disservice if he doesn't tell Samrat what happened and doesn't take pp's decision to "move on with samrat" with a pinch of salt. Samrat deserves better than this filth. Why does virar give her so much respect n leeway when she is absolutely not deserving of it.

These days I am feeling so disconnected with Sairat. He used the word judaav incorrectly for pp. Judaav pyaar mein hota hai, infatuation mein nahi. I cant figure out if Virat is acknowledging that he loved pp or if he is saying he mistook his infatuation for love. Because he said both things today. But really both are very different things. If he is saying he did love her but kismat didn't let them be together and they were separated, then he is making theirs out to be some tragic love story like heer-ranjha or whatever 🙄

Virat was clear in rejecting getting back with pp but he wasnt clear about why.

I always used to think that virat Sai had a connect right from GC days but the way virat spoke about Sai, to me it feels like he has merely "learnt" to love her because of their circumstances. Ki ek saath ek saal bitaayi, zindagi bitaani padi toh pyaar hogaya. Almost like if anyone else had been in Sai's place, shaayad uss seh bhi pyaar hojaata.


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Actually he did the same thing with the yoga teacher as well in the wedding anniversary track. He acknowledged whatever that yoga teacher said was true at that time but it was his past.

It sounded as if that two day love was epic one and he has moved on from it!

Yes agree people have past. But this past of his does chowkidary duty and abuses his wife. I don’t know when he is going to understand the enormity of the situation and buckle up. Instead of feeling hurt and sorry for himself.

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Posted: 4 years ago
#85

Virat needs to tell Sai that pp knows he has broken ties with her. Because Sai believes that pp still waits for him because virat has given her signals/hope/, promises etc. Sai didnt see virat tell pp that he loves Sai n to move on with samrat. Sai only walks in to see him sitting there holding pp's hands. So it is important that Sai knows that pp's actions are despite him explicitly telling pp he has nothing to do with her.

When someone crosses the boundaries the way pp has with virat, its important that the person does a few things to make their distance n distaste clear.

1. Stop referring to her as friend n best friend ever again

2. Stop calling her pp, call her vahini.

Sai needs to see virat put pp in place or atleast have virat inform her that he has told pp that it was just an infatuation but she is crazy n explain full truth to Sai.

He has sat and explained everything SO patiently to pp to the point of it being too long.

Where does this patience go when dealing with Sai. Why doesn't he sit n explain everything to her like he is for pp.

All his maturity n patience goes out of the window when Sai raises him n pp. He gets defensive and angry. As his wife, she needs to know everything. If he says she doesn't have the right to know, that means he only sees her as zimmedari, not as wife.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nja91

Virat needs to tell Sai that pp knows he has broken ties with her. Because Sai believes that pp still waits for him because virat has given her signals/hope/, promises etc. Sai didnt see virat tell pp that he loves Sai n to move on with samrat. Sai only walks in to see him sitting there holding pp's hands. So it is important that Sai knows that pp's actions are despite him explicitly telling pp he has nothing to do with her.

When someone crosses the boundaries the way pp has with virat, its important that the person does a few things to make their distance n distaste clear.

1. Stop referring to her as friend n best friend ever again

2. Stop calling her pp, call her vahini.

Sai needs to see virat put pp in place or atleast have virat inform her that he has told pp that it was just an infatuation but she is crazy n explain full truth to Sai.

He has sat and explained everything SO patiently to pp to the point of it being too long.

Where does this patience go when dealing with Sai. Why doesn't he sit n explain everything to her like he is for pp.

All his maturity n patience goes out of the window when Sai raises him n pp. He gets defensive and angry. As his wife, she needs to know everything. If he says she doesn't have the right to know, that means he only sees her as zimmedari, not as wife.

Even though I liked today's episode cant disagree to anything at all Neerja !!

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Posted: 4 years ago
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To be honest virat has been very unfair to samrat, first by convincing a girl that loves someone else to marry samrat, and now by trying to convince pakhi to accept her marriage to samrat despite knowing her intentions, and after this cafe drama I know for a fact virat will never reveal to samrat all the things that pakhi admitted to him, including the much need-to-know facts for samrat that pakhi admitted that she only stayed in the house to be near virat and not for samrat or anyone else as well as pakhi asking virat to leave sai and marry her.


How has virat not learned his lesson from all this mess that he should not be hiding such major things related to samrat from him or make decisions for samrat's life without samrat being informed all the facts that virat knows.

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Posted: 4 years ago
#88

I actually liked the episode because PP got bezzetified by Virat 🤣His frustrations were completely memefest.. As if he was trying to say "Kachralekha tum kachra kyoon fekti ho"🤣

Neil is effortless on screen.. His body language, his expression everything were so on point..

Virat should stop pleasing people.. Today he is going to pay for his stupidity.. He was just being rude with wife which is fair enough and right after he goes to meet with his ex/bhabi ..i don't blame Sai if sai gets riled up..

Virat really needs to get this woman some proper treatment.. Narcissism is also some kinds of mental disorder.. Her problem is she can't take NO for an answer..

Virat told her enough today.. He gave clearty to his relationship that it was mere infatuation.. And he mistook it as love now they are just good friends.. He tried to explain her from all angles but everything fell into deaf ear.

I loved when everytime he spoke about Sai his face lit up.. He clearly told he let himself fall in love with her.. Because that's the most practical thing to do also they spent more times together.. they had a long journey where both stood by each other through thik and thin.. But I didn't like that he never apologized that Vaada was completely wrong from his end.. Even after all these still he wouldn't stop serving jellebis some times..

Virat didn't give full details of his marriage to Pakhi but he started crying because that pain was still very raw and he couldn't stop his tears falling down. As I said both SaiRat are living the worst fear of their life.. Poor Sai she is so much attached to Virat but no one is here to share her sorrow and insecurties ..

Honestly speaking I am tired of this cycle and I can't they focus on their career ...

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Posted: 4 years ago
#89

Many aspects of the epi i liked n many i was confused by.

As a viewer I'm confused if virat genuinely did love pp or if he is clear in his head that it was only an infatuation. Its an important distinction.

If he deliberately chose "green tea" because Sai makes it for him n he wants to show her his choice has changed, he has moved on- why doesn't he call her vahini to make it explicitly clear to everyone n her what their relationship is.

If he chooses to make a statement by ordering green tea in a coffee shop why not make a statement by calling his vahini as vahini?!

She has fallen to such lows yet virat gives her way too much respect as a person. I didnt sense his sarcasm when he said pp you are samajhdaar n mature. It seems legit. He still tries to see the best in her despite all her stunts. He wants this waahiyad woman tooveon with samrat. In one year if she cant acknowledge the truth, what samakhdaari n what maturity.

Virats expressions softened in places while he was talking about Sai but to me his words didnt convey they that he feels a connection with Sai irrespective of love. His judaav n care for Sai exist even if she doesn't love him back right. But his words somehow to me came out as - i had to accept her as wife due to circumstances n now shes become my wife because we spent all this time together. His expressions show his tenderness but not his words. His words in places seem like he has forced himself to love Sai because he feels like he has no option.

I felt annoyed by him offering too long an explanation to pp & instead of cut n dry being like - NO i had only infatuation, but I feel nothing for you . he has said 50 other lines to cushion the blow for no reason. His firmness, his straightforward rejection is diluted in parts by his pravachan n gyaan.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nja91

Many aspects of the epi i liked n many i was confused by.

As a viewer I'm confused if virat genuinely did love pp or if he is clear in his head that it was only an infatuation. Its an important distinction.

If he deliberately chose "green tea" because Sai makes it for him n he wants to show her his choice has changed, he has moved on- why doesn't he call her vahini to make it explicitly clear to everyone n her what their relationship is.

If he chooses to make a statement by ordering green tea in a coffee shop why not make a statement by calling his vahini as vahini?!

She has fallen to such lows yet virat gives her way too much respect as a person. I didnt sense his sarcasm when he said pp you are samajhdaar n mature. It seems legit. He still tries to see the best in her despite all her stunts. He wants this waahiyad woman tooveon with samrat. In one year if she cant acknowledge the truth, what samakhdaari n what maturity.

Virats expressions softened in places while he was talking about Sai but to me his words didnt convey they that he feels a connection with Sai irrespective of love. His judaav n care for Sai exist even if she doesn't love him back right. But his words somehow to me came out as - i had to accept her as wife due to circumstances n now shes become my wife because we spent all this time together. His expressions show his tenderness but not his words. His words in places seem like he has forced himself to love Sai because he feels like he has no option.

I felt annoyed by him offering too long an explanation to pp & instead of cut n dry being like - NO i had only infatuation, but I feel nothing for you . he has said 50 other lines to cushion the blow for no reason. His firmness, his straightforward rejection is diluted in parts by his pravachan n gyaan.

I only get irritated with him because he has too much patience with her...Patience to an extent where he hears CRAP about his wife being spoked by this lady , that too after all she has done.. And Then there was Sai who was given a shut up call when she talked about Pakhi in negative light, did not even use words like these for her...

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