GHKPM WU and Daily discussion thread no 41. | DT p. 140 - Page 110

Originally posted by: sadiltl

what virat did to sai no one can do because no other person is her husband. His insecurities are different from others. His love for her is also different from others. So no one can understand his pain, except his wife. Sai understood his insecurities well. I m actually shocked that she is apprehensive about letting AJ into the room. She rightly pointed out that virat was losing mind in his jealousy. So she understands him but could not assure him in a way that a wife should because she has her own hurdles to cross. All the people who blame virat today, and rightly so come from the place of protectiveness, brotherly love and parental love. They do not understand his fears because his fears comes from ‘possession’. He is protective of her but also possessive of her. Possession becomes rightful ownership if they had the trust in their marriage and security of their love. Without it possessiveness looks like trying to control. So no one can understand virats feelings now hence cannot comfort him.

I think pulkit understands his pain because he has been a lover and lost his love. He is angry now but he will be the peacemaker too! And sai, no wonder the only word that melts her is not his sorry but him saying he bacame possessive of her. ( from KD)

I m not saying what virat said is right. I am only trying to understand virats pain here. Because today’s episode portrayed it beautifully. His thrashing the wall when pulkit said he cannot meet sai shows the pain of losing his right over her, when he by all means holds all the the rights on her 🥺. He brought himself to that level and he knows only he is responsible for that 😒

I am not getting into the right and wrong part of it.. it’s completely one’s own perspective…

Bold - beautifully said.. their state of marriage is the ultimately the root of their problems.. ergo he is the one responsible and he knows this... Wish they have a heart to heart and sort his past cum their state of marriage like mature adults. Hope he apologizes for everything.

Originally posted by: nethraa_99

As much as Virat's insecurities have to be addressed, there needs to be an important confrontation - Virat's closeness with Pakhi. Sai should tear him to shreds on that one. Relationship is a two way street.

she will I guess. Sai is someone who always questions double standards and this incident gives her right opportunity to confront him. Pakhi is not her business but virat she should.

Originally posted by: PrincessDiana

No one told Pakhi Didi anything still not even Mohit why she has to get escape all the time. n Virat can be best friend with his ex lover but sai can't have college friend also what double standard Ninad beta he is. I don't expectations from him to tell KBA anythingeveen now won't be surprise if tmrw he cried on her shoulder when Sai says I don't want to meet him he couldn't even tell KBA to shut up one time even today to keep her mouth shut n get lost from hospital n everyone in that sada hua family feel nothing wrong in Pakhi forcing ajinkya to go to bedroom how funny they are Bhavani is most wocked person in th house n thnx god Ninad is now keeping mourh shut atleast one less nonsense person

I don't think at this time her story matter cause the reason Sai is in that condition is cause of Virat

and so that's why everyone is focus on him cause his words and actions hurt his wife

Originally posted by: sadiltl

she will I guess. Sai is someone who always questions double standards and this incident gives her right opportunity to confront him. Pakhi is not her business but virat she should.

As much as Sai says Pakhi is not her business, Pakhi has MADE herself Sai's business. When a woman is after your husband, you have every right to question her and put her in her place. But, in order for Sai to do this, she first has to accept his marriage as real.....

Originally posted by: tptwi

Beautifully written ❤️

thanks! Virat punching the wall out of helplessness is heart wrenching and pulkits look showed that he understood him! I liked that scene

Originally posted by: tptwi

As much as Sai says Pakhi is not her business, Pakhi has MADE herself Sai's business. When a woman is after your husband, you have every right to question her and put her in her place. But, in order for Sai to do this, she first has to accept his marriage as real.....

yeah but first fix your mess before preventing the cause is where I am coming from 😜

Originally posted by: sadiltl

thanks! Virat punching the wall out of helplessness is heart wrenching and pulkits look showed that he understood him! I liked that scene

Yes, for the first time in the history of this entire show, I liked Pulkit today. On one hand, Sai is his family. She is not just his younger sister, but she is the one who stood up for him and his love when no one else did. He has immense respect for her, and understands the true value of her heart. I thought he went overboard today in his words to Virat... he could see that Virat was losing it and was full of regret and guilt. He knows better than anyone what it feels like to lose your love. But, his emotions were also entirely justified, because when family is hurting, nothing else matters.

But in addition to all of this, I have a feeling that he will also play a part in bringing SaiRat back together. In the precap, he looked hurt himself when Sai said she does not want to see Virat. He knows how deeply Virat loves Sai, and perhaps he will convince her to hear him out.

Originally posted by: sadiltl

yeah but first fix your mess before preventing the cause is where I am coming from 😜

these two seem incapable of fixing their own mess at this point 🤣

Originally posted by: Devikadish

The only things going on didi' mind rn

Main Sai ko Virat ke zindagi se nikaal dungi.

Virat mere liye itna nahi roya jitna Sai ke liye Ro raha hai.

Mujhe Mohit ko rokhna hoga, woh saari baatein sach jo keh raha hai.

Agar Shivani rishte Maasi na hoti, toh main unhe apni amrit chai pilaa kar maar daalti.

Ninad Mama ne mujhe dhoka diya.

Itne din toh chup thi, ab achanak se Samrat ki maa muh kyu khol rahi hai...

DIDI, PLEASE GO GET A LIFE

Didi’s mind reader..🤣🤣🤣

DIDI, PLEASE GO GET A LIFE - will Virat come and be a part of it???

Originally posted by: tptwi

As much as Sai says Pakhi is not her business, Pakhi has MADE herself Sai's business. When a woman is after your husband, you have every right to question her and put her in her place. But, in order for Sai to do this, she first has to accept his marriage as real.....

There are two people in this relationship - Sai and Virat. No Pakhi. If it is anyone's duty to be mindful and keep boundaries - it has to be Sai and Virat. Virat has failed in this. It is entirely Virat's spousal obligation irrespective of whether a third person has an eye on him or not, whether he is responsible for it or not. If he cannot do that, he has no right to be jealous or possessive over Sai.